Well... like psychops said, I got my a## chewed out by the wife. Damn, I hate that. Anyway, since she had to take some stuff out to the boy, I went along. I went in and told him I was sorry for cursing him and calling him some pretty nasty names (yes, I know it was childish of me). I told him that if I had ever talked to my dad that way, I would have been knocked to the floor (and that's the truth!).
He hugged me and said he was sorry, too. We both agreed that we really can't work together but we always have fun together going shooting, fishing, boating, etc. so we will just do that together.
We made up and everything should be OK now but my feet hurt like hell and emotionally feel like I got bitch-slapped something silly today. Hopefully, tomorrow will be a better day.
Thanks everyone for the great advice !!!! I will put it to good use.
P.S.
In the past several years I have felt really, really guilty about not being around much as he was growing up. I know I over-compensate for that by giving him stuff. The house was only $120K (paid for it out of my settlement) and he is getting married in May so me and the wife considered it a wedding present. I'll quit being so overly generous... at least until he can appreciate it some.
Thanks, Lawdog