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Posted: 1/11/2006 8:19:16 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/12/2006 8:08:23 AM EDT by 1911greg]
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Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:20:56 PM EDT
Judging from your posts on here yes, get a vasectomy first.


Do it for the children.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:21:19 PM EDT
NO.

If you croak she gets everything.

Also a year is a long time for a woman to sit around for you. She may cheat and get things out of hand.

Havent you learned anything about relationships from this site?

If she really loves you she will wait for you to get back. Why the hurry? You are only 22.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:21:21 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Judging from your posts on here yes, get a vasectomy first.


Do it for the children.





+1
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:23:03 PM EDT
At 22? fuck no,
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:23:42 PM EDT

If you have to "think" about it...don't do it.

Try communication. If you are really serious and she loves you back, she'll wait if she is mature enough for marriage. If she's not mature enough to wait, then she's not mature enough to get married.

I was in a similar situation. I was going to flight school at Fort Rucker and wanted to take my girlfriend that I had just met not too long before that. But I KNEW I wanted to marry her. From our first date, I said to myself, "I could marry this one". She wasn't mature enough at the point when I actually left for flight school, but she grew up pretty fast and accepted it. We are still together after 22 years.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:24:09 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/11/2006 8:24:33 PM EDT by ARDOC]
[red/]Dumbass![red/]
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:24:16 PM EDT
When you start asking ARFCOM whether you should get married, its time to take a step back, turn the computer off, and go outside for a while. A VERY long while.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:24:31 PM EDT
My opinion, Wait. If she waits for you and stays true, than you know you picked a winner. I know you are thinking that if you lose her you will never feel this way again about another woman. That is simply not true.

You will change a lot in that year, so will she. Wait and see if things are the same, or better when you return.

Again, IMHO...

Eric
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:27:06 PM EDT
Run Forrest, RUN!!!!

J/K

Seriously, this is the wrong place to ask. You may get one or two real serious responses. I would say at your age and with you deploying, chances are not very good that it will work out. However, no two people are alike and no two situations are alike. Consider any good advice you may get, weigh the odds according to what YOU know, and try to make the best decision you can, then stick with it. No matter what you decide, it is you who must live with the consequences, either way.

JMHO.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:27:26 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:27:50 PM EDT

Originally Posted By MrClean4Hire:
Judging from your posts on here yes, get a vasectomy first.


Do it for the children.



Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:28:46 PM EDT
Don't. When you're ready to get married, you will.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:31:16 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her



A ring on her finger won't make the difference of her waiting a year for you.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:32:36 PM EDT
create a troll account and have him marry her.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:38:37 PM EDT
If she loves you as much as you love her, then she will be glad to wait another year.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:40:32 PM EDT
No.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:44:08 PM EDT
Yes, marry her.

<----------enjoys reading the disasterous divorce threads.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:47:30 PM EDT
Depends.

Do you EVER want pussy again in your life? A Blow Job?

Then Stay single.


Q: Why does a woman smile on her wedding day????


A: She knows she's given her last blowjob.

SG
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:47:57 PM EDT
Seriously, what is the upside? Why sign away your rights and property? Marriage has nothing to do with love and everything to do with money.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 8:49:16 PM EDT
No.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:05:30 PM EDT
your 22 you have your whole life ahead of you so I say no.

and for the record im 24.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:09:47 PM EDT
We need a pic.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:11:40 PM EDT
You only live once!
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:18:13 PM EDT
Yeah just let her go. You are still young. You can find another girl. Besides she will cheat on you if you leave for a year, married or not.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:23:21 PM EDT
Uh, I was in a very similar situation a year ago when I was 22 and I found the woman that I wanted to marry. Too bad she had to suck all that dick down in Central America. Wrong again!
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:27:52 PM EDT
DON"T DO IT!!! You'll be better to wait and see if she is still there when you get back. Who the hell knows what she is up to when you take off.
Link Posted: 1/11/2006 9:41:24 PM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
What do you think, I have found a woman I love and in late 2006 I will be leaving for a while, I am thinking that before I leave I have to make a decision I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her?

I am pretty young 22 but I really think I love this lady??????????????



Never get married until you learn to use proper puncuation
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 12:22:29 AM EDT

Originally Posted By ZootTX:
When you start asking ARFCOM whether you should get married, its time to take a step back, turn the computer off, and go outside for a while. A VERY long while.



LOL. +2,000...
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 12:42:08 AM EDT
STUDY THE MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Its the best indication of what is instore for you
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 12:55:50 AM EDT
If you need to ask, the answer is NO.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 1:00:38 AM EDT
I remember alot of your old posts about "girls"....

You shouldnt.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 1:54:41 AM EDT
No.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 2:48:13 AM EDT

Originally Posted By lippo:
If you have to "think" about it...don't do it.




+1
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 2:56:46 AM EDT
Big NOOOOOOOOOOO
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 3:33:22 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Mmanwitgun:

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her



A ring on her finger won't make the difference of her waiting a year for you.



Best advice you'll get.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 3:57:41 AM EDT
No you are young, and what makes you think she will wait if you are married? You seem unsure that she would wait if you are not married. If the woman will not wait without the ring, why in the hell would you think she will WITH the ring.

If it is true love and you are really for each other don't rush into anything. If you rush you will loose out big time. It is easier to loose a GF than a Wife.

Frankly you should concentrate on setting yourself up financially BEFORE thinking about getting a wife.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 4:14:14 AM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
What do you think, I have found a woman I love and in late 2006 I will be leaving for a while, I am thinking that before I leave I have to make a decision I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her?

I am pretty young 22 but I really think I love this lady??????????????



If she loves you she will wait. It is better for her to wait on a boyfriend and mess up and cheat/leave him/whatever than a husband. Being married makes it a LOT more complicated to break up dating makes it a phone call to break up and you start over instantly.

If she loves you she will wait. If she does, she may be worth marrying.

GR
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 4:20:20 AM EDT
Well,.........If I were "You" I would.



J/K Mirage is a big step.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 4:25:35 AM EDT
If your basing your choice on soley on what we tell you, defiently don't marry her.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 4:26:22 AM EDT
If you have to ask that question - NO
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 4:31:12 AM EDT
... Not yet

... I you both really love each other, the bond will stand the test of time. Shoot for marriage only after a good year of courtship. As it stands now, you probably haven't seen her with her "hair down" yet. Get to really know her before proposing. Do a background and credit check. Get some character references - I'm serious.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 4:31:54 AM EDT
That woman will wait for many years if you and her are mature enough AND if y'all are right for each other.

I suggest that you do not get married at this time.

CMOS
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 5:19:03 AM EDT
Temptation is a very strong influence. A year is a long time considering the ages of you two. Marriage is a huge commitment,requiring a lot of work and communication. It only takes a second to remove a ring. It is impossible to know how she will react, given the absolute fact that temptation will surround her. At first she will shrug it off because she would be newly married, but as time goes on she will become more and more suseptible to the advances of others. When you return, ask people that know her whether or not she has dated anyone else etc. Remember....You will be gone for a year, and whether or not she loves you will not change a " bad choice" she may have made while you were gone. I found out that after I married my ex, she had an affair on me while I was in Parris Island. Had I checked with people before I married her,I would have kicked her to the curb.Protect yourself!
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 5:24:33 AM EDT

Originally Posted By 1911greg:
What do you think, I have found a woman I love and in late 2006 I will be leaving for a while, I am thinking that before I leave I have to make a decision I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her?

I am pretty young 22 but I really think I love this lady??????????????



Late 06?? Dood, PLEASE let me borrow that crystal ball of yours
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 5:24:38 AM EDT
Don't ask us. That is a situation where you need to talk to your family and your priest/preacher/whatever you have. Ask people that really know the both of you. Don't ask a bunch of opinionated people that don't really know you as well as needed for such advice. Myself included.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 5:40:42 AM EDT
Most people aren't ready for marriage until about age 30.
Link Posted: 1/12/2006 5:42:21 AM EDT

Originally Posted By lippo:
If you have to "think" about it...don't do it.



+1

You won't have to ask the question "should I" when it is the right person.
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