Posted: 1/2/2006 5:11:26 AM EDT
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Hi everyone. Can you please say a prayer for my sister and her two girls? She just lost her only son a few months ago and I'd like for them to be able to start the new year with healing and happiness. Thanks, chelle edited because I put a little too much information into the post and shouldn't have |
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Thank you! I really don't know if my sister will ever get over it. She's just ... she doesn't even look like the same person. For me ... it's very hard because we basically grew up together. I was ten when he was born and his father didn't want him so when my sister insisted that she have the baby, he divorced her. She came to live back home and Tim, my nephew, was like my little brother. But I have faith that he's in a better place and that this was meant to be ... I finally made peace with it. My sister is just so damn angry and so depressed and so ... ready to go be with him. It's scary. So thank you for the prayers. |
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Prayers offered. Some advice, arrange for some professional grief counciling. Better that you do the research for the right doctor, personality & such and pay for the first visit. We as humans are not born with all the tools we need to cope with life. Unless we are taught or conditioned by experience, we don't know how to react. It doen't matter whether it's death, a car accident, an armed encounter, natural disaster etc. if you are not preconditioned to react, your mind can shut down or the individual can act in irrational ways because there is no "program" in the brain for the situation. Classic "deer in the headlights" reaction. Gently lead her to some help and I hope she finds peace in this coming year. |
