Posted: 12/2/2005 12:30:52 AM EDT
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First of all, I want to thank all of the great folks who have been so helpful through out the last half a year or so. My life was in the shitter just six months ago, and with the help my friends and the great people of Arfcom (it's amazing how people you don't even know can make an effect on your life) I have come to grips with my wife of 11 yrs. leaving and taking my son with her. When I decided that it was time to start dating again, I set some perameters for what the next woman in my life for myself and and my son would have to live up to. Qualities that would make it a good relationship for all involved. I never figured that I would find one that met them. Well, guess what, I found her. She loves my son, my family, and me. Yes, she hunts and shoots, gathered cows with me when it was 15 degrees the other day, and most of all she can't stand to be away from me. I feel like the luckiest man in the world. There is alot of cheating and love lost stories posted every week. I just wanted to let everyone know that there is hope out there for the ones that are feeling as low as I was. |
Good for you. Dating is easier when you know what you want in a relationship. Now, don't fuck it up. |
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It is totally over between myself and my sons mother. We get along for his sake and I now feel that it was the best thing for my son, ex, and myself. Is there something wrong with being with someone that makes you happier than you have been in a long time? |
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Your divorce story sounds a lot like mine. Came home to an empty house after a 16 hr shift. I got my son back after 4 days thanks be to God, & I've had him every since. The ex is remarried, but I can't even think about having a new woman yet. I am just enjoying my freedom after putting up with all her crap for 14 yrs. I figure the best way to be is thankful to God for where I am now & not worry about what I don't have or may never have again. I have only been divorced since March 30th of this yr, so I'm still recooperating from the betrayal & trechory of my ex best friend. Your story gives me hope though. Thanks 
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