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[Dale Gribble] That was beautiful. [/Dale Gribble] I'm with you all the way on this. The rule is that no one answers the door without me there, and then I open the door. I've never opened the door without my Kimber behind my back or my hand on a snubby .38. It's just good policy. KA3B. You did good. R. |
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HAHA because of this I have a Air light Snubby .357 on order |
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Stupid adult should be with the kid at ALL times-and I mean within arm's reach. It would only take but a second for someone to grab the kid and run. And if the adult was there (Like he should have been) he surely would have seen the sign.... |
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The "kid" is a little bitch for even coming back.
I sold door-to-door back in the day, and if I got a door slammed in my face (and I did, trust me) it didn't mean "get daddy and come back, because the bad mans was mean to me", it meant hit the next friggin house, this one's a lost cause. |
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The dad is an asshole for not teaching his son the facts of life.
If you're a door-to-door salesmen, you are by definition imposing on the lives of other's for your own gain. One should expect that not everyone will offer a smile and a pat on the ass. Some people hate to be interrupted. Part of being an adult is to learn to deal with it. The father should have told his son that poor treatment goes with the territory. Instead, the only lesson he gave his son is that it's okay to be an asshole, to impose on others, and to demand that others listen to you. In effect, he is teaching his son that the world owes him something. The dad is also an idiot for trying to force the door open. He could have easily wound up dead. I'd have stuck my Glock right in his friggin' face. |
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If your kid want's to play soccer why don't YOU pay to support his team? Why do you feel that I, and the rest of the people your kid bothers, should overpay for candy to support his recreation? |
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Yeah I get pretty sick of the kids selling crap that is marked up 5x. I had one kid who was *really* pushy selling magazines. I said "no way, see ya" but my dumbass wife decides to be a nice stupid chick and but some magazines. After she read the fine print she found out she got screwed, and luckily the place had an 800 # to call to cancel your order within a day of placing it so she did.
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Why don't you get a life? If you don't want the $1 candy bars or the popcorn or the cookies or the wrapping paper - or whatever then be an adult and say 'NO'. It's not hard and it means the same thing in a variety of languages in case the kid is an illegal or something. Don't want to get out of your easy chair to answer the door? Then don't. But don't bitch like you got sand in your vagina because some kid is showing initive and trying to work to EARN his money based on the American principal of FREE Enterprise. I'd much rather have the kids sell something (anything) rather than just go around begging at stop lights and the post office (I seen this and I hate it). I have a personal philosophy of buying something of what the kids are selling. That reenfoces the work ethic. I'll NEVER just give 'because' (i.e. begging), that would send the wrong message. When I was a kid I sold stuff for a variety of reason (some personal - sometimes for my class or Scout troop) so I return the favor now I'm an adult. Personally I think KA3B was 100% correct in his actions. He chooses not to have soliciters come to his home, and that is his right. Any kid who goes there and doesn't heed the sign deserves the rude treatment (another life lesson). |
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Recently put up a No Trespassing sign on my porch because of arseholes like this.
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You're wrong Forest,
Support your own son's team activities. Period. I didn't invite you to my house. You are teaching your kid it's ok to be rude. Go away and get the money from parents of the rest of the team. Not your neighbors. You are begging and bothering us for money. Rude. |
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The only person being rude is the asshat (like yourself) that slams doors on the kids - yet doesn't put up a sign saying "no tresspassing" or "No solicitating". It's been the American way since the colonies were founded to have door-to-door sales. It's part of American business and has been for 100s of years. I know socialists like yourself just want the kids to be given money, but there are those of us who want thd kids to earn it and LEARN something while doing it. If you don't want to deal with it then put up a sign or move to your own island. KA3B is doing it the right way - you're just being one of those obnozious neighbors that wants to piss and moan about something when the solution is easy. |
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However you do it is on you.
I would've pointed to the sign and asked the young man if he knew what it meant. If he said "No" then I'd explain it to him. If he said "Yes" THEN I would've shut the door or gone out to find his/her parents (depending on my mood). Gotta give kids a chance if they didn't know something, otherwise they dont learn. |
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Sorry but I feel that these candy sales are just charity in disguise. I would rather an honest request for $1.00 than trying to sell me a $0.75 candy bar for $2.00. I think these candy sales just teach kids that if they want something they have a "right" to beg for it and expect the public to pay. I feel that that is the wrong message to send. If they are old enough, they should earn the $ through REAL work, and if they are too young it is their parents responsibility. Edited to add: Forest, I just saw your reply to Spyda above (you must have posted as I was replying to you), and I find it odd that you accuse him of being a socialist when he says the parents of the kids on the team should pay for the team. It seems that you are the one saying that the public, through candy drives, should pay for the team, and Spyda and I are saying that if these kids want to play they, or their parents, should be the ones to pay. By the way, I have tried to be polite, and I don't feel that the get a life/sand in your vagina comments were called for, but I guess I have seen another side of you now (formerly I was impressed with your technical posts here and on your site) |
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If you had a sign I'd tell my kid not to knock on that door. I'd hope you'd have the mannors to simply say "No" and close the door if you didn't like her asking. I'd never attempt to barge my way into a house because you were "rude" to my kid. I usually have my CCW with me when I answer the door. I don't always have it in easy reach if I don't have it on though. Might have to rethink that. Only once has it even crossed my mind though. Had a grown man hasseling my wife at the door as I am comming down stairs from getting dressed. She looked at me like "help me", as this guy is ratteling on. He can see I'm not pleased to see him as I get there. He starts his speal and I cut him off, "We're leaving... you need to go". He proceeds to get angry and starts spouting off about me being a racist (he's black) and how he sees how I am. For just that quick second he looked like he was about to escalate the issue but he didn't and turned as I closed the door. That little flash of anger made me put my hand at my side but that was the extent of it. You just never know what the temperment of the guy beating your door is. The dad was in the wrong no matter what. Period. He had no right to try and barge in or prevent the door from closing. |
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As I already pissed of Forest I may as well continue my evenings rants and say that while I agree with your (OHGUNNER) post, and I think KA3B was rude to slam the door in the kids face (I personally advocate a "No thank you"") I fail to see how the father was "trying to defend his child". The father just wanted to bitch at KA3B for being rude. I can't see any way that his child needed to be defended, unless we are so concerned about his emotional state after having a door slammed in his face |
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WTF are you supposed to do when an adult male sticks their arm out so you can't close the door to your home? Seriously. IMHO, the father (to quote you) "escalated the situation". You stated that the OP is "obviously a highly emotional, irrational person". If you think that of him, how would you classify the father that decided to revisit the homeowner who just slammed a door in his child's face, goes off on a rant THEN sticks his arm in the doorway to prevent the door from being slammed yet again. You can think the OP was an a-hole for slamming the door in the kid's face but when the father decided to go "defend his child" , he was an idiot to return to a home where the occupants did not want to be disturbed. |
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Aw fuck it.
This door slamming asshole is too far gone to bother with. |
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You guys are splitting hairs to make your argument. In this state your ass would be in jail,where it would belong! You dont open a door carring a firearm to the girl scouts. Then you guys wonder why Dianne Fienstein wants to take your guns away. We are our own worst enemies!!!!!!!
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What part would have gotten me arrested?
The part where I slammed the door in the face of a "kid" or the part where the father was not going away and I was worried about the safety of my wife coming back from the store and meeting this moron or the part where he shoved the door and kept me from closing the door to my house. So you are telling me that you would go back to the house where your child had the door slammed shut in his face, where it was posted "no solicitors please" because you allowed your "kid" to go house to house without explaining to him "the rules of the road" to give me a piece of your mind? I am happy that I live where I live and the police here are nothing like you. Never said my life was in danger. I also said I am an asshole. So what. You arrest people for being an asshole on their own property? I suppose you shoot dogs too. You're right, people don't pay attention. What did the door say to the solicitors face? SLAM! I didn't display anything to anyone dipshit. Did you bother to fucking READ what I have posted? I was 85% behind the door (it swings from the right inside), part of that 85% was where the gun was. I tried to close the door, soccer dad was the one who shoved the door and didn't allow me to close it. All I did was step back, because I didn't know if I was about to get rushed by soccer dad. It's not like I drew down on soccer dad and dared him to come inside, heck, If I could have I would have shut the door and let him go on his merry way while I called the police. Wait, I DID call the police. Now why would I want to punch someone who had just asssaulted me. You don't know jack fucking shit about me, I might be a disabled American Vet who might not be able to throw down because of injuries or some sort of a progressive degenerate disease. Why get into a fist fight when I have a gun in my hand. I also said that I did fuck up by opening the door. Did you bother to read this part?
I even told the police officer that when he came over. Let us know where in Ohio you live so we can avoid and asshole cop like you.
If I was that kids parent,I'd be pissed at you too. What you say occurred would have gotten you arrested in my neck of the woods. I ought to know with over 10,000 arrests under my belt. If a jury would have heard that,more than likely you would have gone down with the ship. You need to calm down and take a look at the big picture. Your life wasnt in danger. You were an asshole to some child. People dont pay attention. I've got a sign that states no tresspassing on my door,yet people still knock on my door. Bottom line, you escalated this situation. You displayed a firearm to a man who was trying to defend his child. If you think you look good in this thread, you have a distorted sense of reality. If your such a bad ass you should have just punched him. Instead you went from 0 to barney fife like a coward. |
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I am all for civility, and agree that KA3B was an ass for slamming a door in a kid's face. I took the defending comment a little more literally, as in defending from a threat. However, once the father got to the door and saw the no soliciting sign he should have turned around and given his kid a vocabulary and/or courtesy lesson himself Actually the more I think about it I guess we aren't being very courteous by having this argument over courtesy |
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Another fucking moron who can't read.
I didn't flash anything at anyone. I was standing in my hallway at my house whit a gun in my hand that was concealed behind the door. Soccer dad is the one who would not allow me to close the door. Had soccer dad not shoved the door no one but me would have known what was in my hand.
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The truely amazing part of this story is you really believe your in the right on this>??
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Obviously we will have to agree to disagree on this matter...Exactly the reason we have a court system.
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thank you!
that kid may now grow up to become something other than a telemarketer. your property, your rules. not the way i would have handeled it, but i see nothing wrong with what you did. |
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Either way it's much better than the firefighters who stand in intersections asking people to fill the boot with money. Bunch of friggin' idiots...
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It's my house you ass.
I'll keep loaded AR15's behind the door and loaded shotguns behind the couch and loaded pistols behind the front door, back door, garage door, nightstand, in my pocket, attached to my lawmower and in the goldfish pond if I want. You sure you have the right forum board? Democratic Underground is to the left.
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Sounds more like your afraid to me......I got lots of guns too....but I dont "almost draw down" on the nieghborhood girl scout!
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He shouldn't have had the pistol? I can't wait to see the shitstorm that results from that statement. |
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How does me having more common sense = being a liberal. Your behavoir is exactly why libs want to take your guns. You were an irresponsible adult with a firearm. You scared a girl scout and her daddy selling cookies?
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OHGUNNER either you are a , or you are retarded. He had every right to slam the door in anyones face, its his house. He has the right to defend himself, he was well with in the law you inbred.
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FUCKING TROLL |
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Who's got that little troll logo. You're going way out there on this one. R. |
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I would take it very personal if someone had hurt my daughters feelings. You never know who you may get upset. In this case, you got off lucky. What if the father was someone crazy who waited for a tactical advantage and decided to take you out with a hunting rifle from 100 yards one day when you stepped out to get your paper? That glock wouldn't help you very much then would it?
It is not wise to handle situations in a manner that would cause them to escalate. More than one person has been killed because they lacked simple manners. One may have "had a right" to be rude, but "being within your rights" won't get them out of the graveyard. "No thank you" would have been a much better way to handle than. I do not understand why people do not use logic more often. There is a time and place for manners, and there is a time and place for being assertive. ETA: Once, we had this 250 lb teen goon come into my house. He was a drug addict, and made a move towards my wife as if he was going to attack her. I put him on his back. That time was a good time to be assertive. |
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Guys like you crack me up. You know the law, you know the Constitution,but you dont know how to apply it correctly....You let your emotions control you,just like a liberal., instead of taking a step back and looking at the facts"like a republican".......
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The original solicitor was male. You sound like the media, rearanging the facts to make your position sound better I am starting to agree more with KA3B that cops like you should be avoided at all costs when you change the facts to suit your purposes/agenda. |
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OHGunner is not a troll. He is advocating thinking with your brain rather than with your testicles.
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You have 10,000 arrest's? - no way, you're a fucking moron! There's no way you could have made an arrest in this situation, without exposing your dept/city/county to a lawsuit. KA3B was defending his property from an intruder, and its obvious his preparation saved him. And I always have a gun when I answer the door. |
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I often do, myself. I keep it hidden behind the door so they can't see it. So far, I have not had to reveal it to anyone. |
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Good job! Although personally I would have pointed out the sign to idiot dad before attempting to close the door. Everything else is fine. |
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