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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:30:05 PM EDT
[#1]
you're better off without her.
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:32:09 PM EDT
[#2]
Move on -- Nothing else to see here
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:34:02 PM EDT
[#3]
Her sister or best friend. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:36:21 PM EDT
[#4]
I'll post the DSM IV definition. It's kinda long. *reads* 17 pages long.. I'm not going to type that. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:39:31 PM EDT
[#5]
Dude she has just let you off the hook. If you had broken up with her, she may have called the cops and told them you beat the shit out of her. Crazy women do shit like that. Stay away from her unless you want to start paying child support and lose your freedom to own guns. What ever you do, don't let her see you with a new woman to early as that may set her off the deep end and start lots of trouble. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:43:16 PM EDT
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Another term is Manic-Depressive. Depressed for months at a time then Manic for weeks. During their manic phases they can engage in risky, irresponsible and self-destructive behavior including unprotected sexual activity with multiple partners, heavy drug use and spending sprees. I've seen countless bipolar patients. They can be a challenge to treat.  Noner, You already know the right thing to do. You can't cure her so please move on. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:44:09 PM EDT
[#7]
I stopped reading at "Meds" Run |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 6:59:01 PM EDT
[#8]
Take it from someone who knows--no matter how good it was, it will get REAL BAD when you marry her. YOU ARE BETTER OFF! GR |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 7:08:53 PM EDT
[#9]
Its 6 months.... its not really a relationship.
Too early into the game. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 7:14:00 PM EDT
[#10]
1.)go to your front window in your house
2.) Open curtain/shades so your neighbors can see you 3.) Yank it out and keep spanking it furiously until you can't beat it no more from soreness or forearm lock. any more advice I can give you just let me know, in the mean time I'll be out looking at the other half of the worlds population looking for poontang. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 7:16:36 PM EDT
[#11]
Have a beer, rub one out, and go trolling for the next one.
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Posted: 7/8/2005 7:29:02 PM EDT
[#12]
bi-polar  u dumbass.....get the hell outta there. 
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Posted: 7/8/2005 9:36:17 PM EDT
[#13]
You can't really blame Noner - anyone who's had a psychotic girlfriend knows how they will absolutely fuck your brains out. That's really hard to give up once you get used to it. Keeping this in mind, I'd be over there tonight talking to her 8 sisters.
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Posted: 7/8/2005 9:45:22 PM EDT
[#14]
I've been in a similar situation. It really sucks bad. My girlfriend used to have huge mood swings (she wasn't officially bi-polar but I really think she might have been). I went out with her for 10 months...did everything for her. I often wasn't happy because I felt I gave to much and didn't recieve anything. (Sounds selffish but trust me I didn't ever get shit...nothing). I thought about breaking it off but I stuck in there. Then in the course of 3 days she decided she hated me and broke it off. I was crushed. I lost 20lbs in 2 weeks...couldn't sleep...couldn't eat. Then just as I was starting to turn around I went after her again. We got together and messed around blah blah she even told me she loved me but wouldn't go out with me again. This went on for almost a month before I just couldn't take it anymore. I stopped talking to her...destroyed everything I had that reminded me of her. Took me a few months to finally even get the to point that I could talk about it. But now I am glad it all happened. It wouldn't have worked out...I would have been unhappy and miserable. I still miss what we had (when it was good) but I no longer miss her.
Love sucks man....I am not trying to be sexist but I honestly believe all women are at least alittle crazy. If it was me I would let it go now. "Suck up your pride admit....you lost her..let her go" - Blink 182. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 9:48:39 PM EDT
[#15]
Get a plain looking girl with her head on straight and leave the MD's alone. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 10:09:42 PM EDT
[#16]
WOW.. six whole months? I've decided to break up with a girl after the second date, and not gotten *around* to it for six months.
There is sanity out there. Find some. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 10:42:17 PM EDT
[#17]
Move on.
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Posted: 7/8/2005 10:43:21 PM EDT
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So actually there are 18 whack Jobs. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:02:26 PM EDT
[#19]
A TON of great replies!
Thanks guys. Her family is f**ked up because both her mother and father are Bi-polar. (genetics) her father is the Business Manager at a Christian school locally. (large) and the mother is a full time crazy wack job that likes to keep her daughters single. All of her girls are virgins. (from 16-26) The girl I was dating was 23 (I'm also 23) none were ever sexually abused, they dont watch TV, or go out to dinner. they are the typical "Waltons" style family. no violence, no problems unless someone comes from the outside. (like me) They all treated me like crap, and I was a major focus of their mood swings. it was great when they were all "high" (on the high side of bi-polar) and they all loved me and would invite me to dinner and such. but when it was low, it was HELLISHLY low. RUN JASON RUN is right. I'm running, and I'm not looking back. but then again, I will miss the purrest relationship I have ever had. (both physically and emotionally) it was Love when it was love, and it was still love when she didnt love me. (yes, I never crossed her "virgin" boundries, but oh yes I surely wanted to.) I'm still in the game, just not with her (or her family) -Jason |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:05:22 PM EDT
[#20]
Time to move on and dont look back
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:12:37 PM EDT
[#21]
This girl will spend the rest of her life adjusting her meds, and may never achieve normalsy . Do you want to live a dysfunctional roller coaster life with her, or move on a find a more normal relationship? You don't really love this woman....you just enjoy banging her. Run.....she has done you a huge favor. A year from now you'll be able to see that very clearly.
Stop banging her before she has offspring. 
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:14:42 PM EDT
[#22]
oops
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:26:52 PM EDT
[#23]
Read the post above again. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:31:13 PM EDT
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:35:28 PM EDT
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I dated one. After we broke it off, she gets knocked up by a coworker 20 years her senior. And then she came back to me asking if I would go to birthing classes and be her coach because the father's wife wouldn't let him do it...he has other children to take care of and from other marriages. Did I do it? NFW. She was also a licensed, clinical psychologist. Working with at-risk children. |
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:39:50 PM EDT
[#26]
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Posted: 7/8/2005 11:46:15 PM EDT
[#27]
And again... |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 12:19:42 AM EDT
[#28]
Damaged goods pal. Stay away.
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Posted: 7/9/2005 12:55:17 AM EDT
[#29]
Take her back, and soon she will be trying to figure out how to make a permanent relationship, like "I have great news --you're going to be a daddy". Notice I didn't say a loving relationship. More like a "monthly child support for the next 18 years, while trying to keep your kid from being totally screwed up by mommy" relationship.
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Posted: 7/9/2005 4:29:23 AM EDT
[#30]
I thought all women where bi-polar
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Posted: 7/9/2005 4:53:18 AM EDT
[#31]
Move to another county or state. That way you are not tempted to hook up with any of them. 
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:09:20 AM EDT
[#32]
The shit women will say never ceases to amaze me. If you think about it, the above statement is gibberish. |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:22:31 AM EDT
[#33]
That's not a family, it's a cult...! |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:24:13 AM EDT
[#34]
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:47:06 AM EDT
[#35]
 SHIT, that brought tears to my eyes
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:51:31 AM EDT
[#36]
Run - now - as fast as you can!!!! You are only setting yourself up for a lifetime of problems if you don't. There are other sane fish in the sea. What if you marry her and decide to have children someday, do you want your children to have to deal with a psycho mom? As a gunowner do you think you need the liability?
She may deserve some sypathy but you don't need the trouble. Move on young man. |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 5:52:35 AM EDT
[#37]
In my experience, this sentence is redundant. |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 6:15:09 AM EDT
[#38]
yep, get one with that new car smell those are sweet  don't forget the undercoating and extended warranty |
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Posted: 7/9/2005 6:28:57 AM EDT
[#39]
Let it go. Get a new Girl Friend and move on.
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Posted: 7/9/2005 12:11:01 PM EDT
[#40]
Ok, now I have to wonder why we're even talking about this. You can't break up with her because you were never "with" her. If she's not fucking you then you're not in a relationship and she's not a girlfriend. She's nothing more than an acquaintance and can be discarded easily. I know that's cold and heartless, but the fact is that "special girl" is special because she has sex with you. Period. You may love her, but that doesn't matter. I've had dogs that I loved, but I wasn't having sex with them. Any girl who tries to latch onto you emotionally but not physically is a leech and needs to be kicked to the curb.The only reason at all for tolerating psycho bullshit from a girl is because Psycho Girl Sex is the best you'll ever run into. Ever. If you aren't getting that, then you're just being used as her Emotional Tampon and you're convienent to have around for driving her places and spending money on her. You're doing the right thing by dumping her. Run away and don't look back. |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:08:16 AM EDT
[#41]
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:16:08 AM EDT
[#42]
It is better to be alone and lonely than to have a female with problems.
Max |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 8:23:20 AM EDT
[#43]
This is the flip chick, right? That might have been a clue. |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 9:07:10 AM EDT
[#44]
You will ultimately be miserable with a crazy woman. No matter how pretty of intelligent she is, her illness will always be just below the surface, and it will fuck your life up. Trust me. Don't try to make it work.
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Posted: 7/14/2005 9:11:09 AM EDT
[#45]
Spoke with her on the phone, and she was thinking that we could still be friends....
after about 10 mins of hearing her talk, and realizing that she's not really in reality right now... IT HIT ME. I AM SUCH A DUMBA$$ why in the world am I talking to a girl about being friends when ALL we were WAS friends in the past. WHY!!! would I want to connect myself with this girl when she's up and down with her MEDS and NOTHING else. I told her that she can email me, and that would be fine, but anything else would be pushing it. Time to Slooooowly step away from the girl, and forget. -Jason |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 9:23:07 AM EDT
[#46]
Run Forest Run!
There are so many more fish in the sea, there is no reason to keep a defective one. And Remember: www.nomarriage.com |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 9:25:07 AM EDT
[#47]
Been there, done that, could not even get her 'normal' family to help despite her truly great potential, left 100%.
Or you could remain faithful yet have 4 GF at once. Regular her, up her, down her, and monthly her. I will simply say that for 2 months after I cut out, I just kept feeling better and was amazed at the weight removed. I realize this condition has many degrees but: RUN FORREST RUN |
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Posted: 7/14/2005 9:39:29 AM EDT
[#48]
That could be true. Its called loss of affects. I seem to have this problem as well, I love my wife and children more then life itself, but I can't FEEL it in my belly like I used to be able to feel it. I lost it in the same incident that made me stop doing drugs. So it was kinda a double edged sword. FYI I lost it before I ever met my wife. |
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Posted: 7/18/2005 1:44:52 PM EDT
[#49]
Been there done that.It was a blessing in disguise.
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Posted: 7/18/2005 1:54:45 PM EDT
[#50]
Move on. It'll be hard because it may seem like you can't be without her, but you'll be doing yourself a service in the end. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and there's probably one waiting for you to put your last name behind her first name.
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