[ARCHIVED THREAD] - problem i am having. (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 6/6/2005 1:27:21 PM EDT
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Ok i could not bear to post under my real account because a few of you guys know me in real lifehas Its really frustrating, and my girlfriend thinks its her and that i am not turned on by her. The problem isn't as bad if i am on top, but if she is on top or giving me head it just never happens. i am kinda embarrassed to talk to a doctor about something like this seems trivial compared to others problems? |
i have actually tried that helps but doesn't seal the deal. I have been under some stress and sometimes i will have a few drinks. Maybe thats making things worse? |
So instead your going to post on a public forum and ask advice from strangers who more than likely have no expertise in this arena. If it is that bad go see a doctor and/or stop fucking like rabbits for a while. |
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I’m sorry for being so mean before in the previous post. I just did a web search on men’s health issues specifically dealing with ejaculation problems. I was pointed to an article in Men’s Health magazine that dealt with this very phenomenon. I’d always thought that prime causes for problems like these were always rooted in every-day stressful activities, too much alcohol/caffeine intake, or common fatigue – but surprisingly the article said that you are teh ghey and to hurry up and give me your girl's phone number so that she can start being serviced by a real man. I’m serious here Precious, best to break up with her now before she starts seeking solace in those close around you, because that always ends badly. |
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Just to toss out some info nobody's mentioned yet, If you're on any of several types of anti-depressants (Paxil, Zoloft, Luvox and Celexa) this may be causing it. It's a well known side-effect to most Anti-D's....... Wellbutrin is one that seems to NOT cause this. If you're taking any kind of meds, tell your doctor about this. It's very common and isn't something wrong with YOU... |
In case you hadn't noticed Watson, there just so happens to BE several doctors ON this board.  Think before you post chastising the guy for asking for help, genius. |
That is the problem, like drinking and driving don't mix, neither does sex and alcohol. |
. You'll be a hiney pirate in no time.
Dang when I had that "problem" in my younger years the women loved it!  It could be a lot of things, talk to a doctor since he will know what to ask. GR |
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I had a friend that was bipolar... he said depression can really affect one's ability to... 'finish'. Stress on a similar note can do it also. I on the other hand have no problem finishing. Though, one time, with one girl, I had just the right amount to drink that I was going for a long time... ME LOVE YOU LONG TIME!! She got a little frustrated that she couldn't get me to finish easily... |
Maybe you're with the wrong sex... 
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BTDT. Two words: FAKE IT. Or several words: when you f**k, do it just to remind her who has the dick. I am not kidding. Pound her into a state of insensate, multiorgasmic gratitude, twitch, moan, kiss, express appreciation and then wank the following day. Or pound her mercilessly, until she is a breathless worshiper at the shrine of your manhood, and retire from the field in open and acknowledged possession of your precious seed. Women are often viscerally appreciative of a totally self-possessed man who allows them to ride the toy pony as a token of his love, rather than his need. Count your lucky stars that your wife/gf's contribution to the "He blew his load on the bedspread when I took my shoes off" conversation at the beauty parlor will be "My guy f****d me till I couldn't walk, then said 'Let me know when you're ready to go again.'" A huge part of being a man is dealing with things without complaint. This is one situation where dealing with it like a man gets you an upgrade to first class, at no cost. Don't worry about it. Just use your Permasharp(tm) sword for her benefit, and cop a nut on your own time. It's worthwhile. |
Too bad that statement is too long for a sigline - I think it's perfect! 
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That's a funny way for a anti-depressant to work. "I hate my life I want to die.... *Pops a few Zoloft pills*..... YAY I FEEL HAPPY NOW! I should have sex! WHAT?!?! My dick doesn't work!!    *depressed again*"
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| Time to watch this little gem of a movie, it discusses your very same topic. 40 days and nights |
Bad grammar can be suprisingly amusing, especially in a pirate voice: "Avast, me hearties, loose the condoms!" |
its not really a problem when i am on top and in charge, it actually works out pretty good for her. the problem is when she wants to be on top or when she goes down on me. |
Patty
Im glad you said that and not me. 
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