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7/9/2004 3:41:36 PM EDT
This is the first time I have ever made a post such as this.  

Some of you may recall my thread on my younger brother who is retiring due to health reasons.  It just got worse this week as he has been diagnosed with an advanced case of cirrosis of the liver.  It was touch and go this week and he almost died.  Like most of us, he refused to go to the hospital until he was knocking on deaths door.

After 30 years of working hard and drinking hard, he is now paying the piper.  For those of you living the life I beg you to reconsider for my brother is only 48.  

If one thing can be said about my brother he has always been the easiest going person alive with a giving nature that goes beyond the norm to almost a fault.  He literaly would give the shirt off his back.  

I ask for your prayers and am at a loss of words at the saddness I feel.

Tj

Update  Intensive care, this AM massive hemmoraging!  I'm on my way back to KY after getting home last night.
7/9/2004 3:44:39 PM EDT
[#1]
Done.  You have my sympathy, I lost my best friend and the closest thing I'll ever have to a brother 2 weeks ago.  He had liver cancer and pancreatic cancer, was only 38 years old.

The Lord will take good care of your brother, have faith.
7/9/2004 3:44:57 PM EDT
[#2]
Will keep you both in prayer.

I've never understood the desire to purposefully and intentionally destroy ones own liver.
7/9/2004 3:45:09 PM EDT
[#3]
Sent!


Semper Fi
7/9/2004 3:45:17 PM EDT
[#4]
Done. My father is in the same boat as your brother.

Hang in there friend,
CH
7/9/2004 3:54:28 PM EDT
[#5]
Prayer sent on his, & your families behalf.
7/9/2004 3:56:07 PM EDT
[#6]
Well Tom, old friend, you know that you can count on me.

I will also have my Sunday school class pray for him and your family.

God answers prayer.
7/9/2004 3:56:10 PM EDT
[#7]
Done. My family and I wish you the  best and your brother too.  
7/9/2004 3:58:19 PM EDT
[#8]


Sorry to hear that, TJ.
7/9/2004 3:59:41 PM EDT
[#9]
Done.  Please accept my prayers for you and yours.  raf
7/9/2004 4:09:51 PM EDT
[#10]
thoughts for you & your brother
7/9/2004 4:13:54 PM EDT
[#11]
Done. God bless, and take care.
7/9/2004 4:44:34 PM EDT
[#12]
Done.
7/9/2004 4:51:26 PM EDT
[#13]
Sorry TJ. I will pray for you brother.
IM is always open.
7/9/2004 4:55:53 PM EDT
[#14]
ok
7/9/2004 5:07:54 PM EDT
[#15]
we'll be praying for him and for ya'll as well.  
7/9/2004 8:07:23 PM EDT
[#16]
Prayers on the way.
7/9/2004 8:09:47 PM EDT
[#17]
... Sorry to hear this TJ, take care bro
7/9/2004 8:10:52 PM EDT
[#18]
Wow. I have a cousin who's 48 who just got diagnosed w/ cirrhosis of the liver, though it's still in the early stages (whatever that means).


Prayers inbound.
7/9/2004 8:16:18 PM EDT
[#19]
Bill
I will get my Mom to get her prayer network going.
One calls two and they call two each........................They end up with about 500 all going at the same time time.

Powerfull stuff!
7/9/2004 8:19:26 PM EDT
[#20]
I'm in.
Godspeed my friend.
M
7/9/2004 8:22:04 PM EDT
[#21]
We'll pray as well.  
7/9/2004 8:24:54 PM EDT
[#22]
Sent in the Name of Christ, The only King.
7/9/2004 8:32:51 PM EDT
[#23]
Done.
7/9/2004 8:33:44 PM EDT
[#24]
Prayer sent.
7/10/2004 1:49:11 AM EDT
[#25]
Prayers sent.
7/10/2004 3:16:23 AM EDT
[#26]
Hey, Tom - Greywolf here.  I'll add my prayers as well, my friend.

Is there a specific "limit" on alcohol that Doctors say is too much and might cause these sorts of problems?  I mean, if a person has one drink every evening, is that borderline, or is it only when people have a lot more on average that these problems can crop up?
7/10/2004 4:46:54 AM EDT
[#27]

Quoted:
Hey, Tom - Greywolf here.  I'll add my prayers as well, my friend.

Is there a specific "limit" on alcohol that Doctors say is too much and might cause these sorts of problems?  I mean, if a person has one drink every evening, is that borderline, or is it only when people have a lot more on average that these problems can crop up?



My brother was never a hardcore fifth of wiskey a day kind of alcoholic and did not party down more than like once a week.  He consumed about a six pack a day but every day.  We're talking classic construction worker showed up for work everyday for 30 plus years. His condition may have been excellerated due to back and knee problems and the taking of pain meds which are just as bad as alcohol and in combination worse.  

Pain meds and alcohol even Ibuprohen is a deadly mix.  I actually knew a girl who had complete liver failure after trying to do herself in with two bottles of wine and a bottle of motrum.  She almost succeeded.

Tj
7/10/2004 5:00:58 AM EDT
[#28]
Done.  Best wishes to your brother and the family.
7/10/2004 5:14:05 AM EDT
[#29]
I'm so sorry to hear the news, TJ!  Prayers sent for your brother and his family, and for you and your family as well.
7/10/2004 5:27:05 AM EDT
[#30]
Man sorry to hear it. I'm still praying for him and you. Good luck.
7/10/2004 5:31:43 AM EDT
[#31]
Done...
7/10/2004 5:45:31 AM EDT
[#32]
Done..... God bless you all.
7/13/2004 4:10:28 AM EDT
[#33]
My brother has just be upgraded to critical and off to be by his side again.

Your prayers and good wishes have been appreciated.

Tj
7/13/2004 4:19:00 AM EDT
[#34]
God's blessing are being prayed for.

I hope things work out for the better, TJ.

7/13/2004 6:02:20 AM EDT
[#35]
Just found this thread, prayers outbound, TJ.
7/13/2004 6:03:21 AM EDT
[#36]
Prayer on the way....
7/13/2004 7:45:09 AM EDT
[#37]
Prayer sent.
7/13/2004 8:03:23 AM EDT
[#38]
prayer sent
God Bless you and your family
7/13/2004 8:11:22 AM EDT
[#39]

Quoted:
Just found this thread, prayers outbound, TJ.



Same here.  Done and done, take care bro.