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So Lady Sonia isn't really interested in me and just takes my
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It’s pretty well documented that it changes sexual expectations. She’s not entirely wrong.
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Quoted: It happens. Ready, willing, waiting, and wanting woman in the other room, dude opting to sit in front of the computer cranking it instead. As for “rewiring your brain”, think of a similar comparison for all the “likes” and approval folks get from FB and dating sites and so forth. Rather than accomplishing real world activities and making real world connections, they keep coming back for those little dopamine hits they get as the IG heart count increases. It’s why phone addictions and FB addiction and so forth are things. Same with porn, only porn is probably more intense due to the orgasmic element that’s usually absent from those other platforms. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I know a guy who claims he was addicted to porn, he even wrote 2 books about it. I always wondered what "addicted" meant? Like he was up late at night watching porn and pounding it rather than being with his wife? It happens. Ready, willing, waiting, and wanting woman in the other room, dude opting to sit in front of the computer cranking it instead. As for “rewiring your brain”, think of a similar comparison for all the “likes” and approval folks get from FB and dating sites and so forth. Rather than accomplishing real world activities and making real world connections, they keep coming back for those little dopamine hits they get as the IG heart count increases. It’s why phone addictions and FB addiction and so forth are things. Same with porn, only porn is probably more intense due to the orgasmic element that’s usually absent from those other platforms. No doubt, but a lot of people (both men and women) are exceptionally selfish, terrible lovers. Sex is easy, even great sex is easy. Making a long term relationship work takes effort. It helps men in particular when their selection process for a mate amounts to more than picking out the cutest puppy in the pet store window. |
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Quoted: Ready, willing, waiting, wanting is great unless the sex is boring. His idea of fun sex and her's might be miles apart. Maybe he wants to switch between twelve different positions with the lights on and a few toys. Her idea of risque is taking off her flannel night gown before she gets into bed (with the lights off) When you start avoiding family, friends, work because you are locked in your den watching porn for hours on end then yes you have a problem. ETA: Good friend of mine is married to a woman who is twelve years his elder. When she turned 50 she said, "I'm done with sex" He was only 38. No sex, no handjobs, no blowjobs, nothing. My wife suggested she let her husband have a sex surrogate. She said, "I would but I know him and he could not keep from developing feelings for the other woman so no" Translation: I know he would quickly realize what is lacking in our marriage and I'd be kicked to the curb He is now 52 and hasn't had intimate contact w/ his wife in 14 years. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: I know a guy who claims he was addicted to porn, he even wrote 2 books about it. I always wondered what "addicted" meant? Like he was up late at night watching porn and pounding it rather than being with his wife? It happens. Ready, willing, waiting, and wanting woman in the other room, dude opting to sit in front of the computer cranking it instead. As for “rewiring your brain”, think of a similar comparison for all the “likes” and approval folks get from FB and dating sites and so forth. Rather than accomplishing real world activities and making real world connections, they keep coming back for those little dopamine hits they get as the IG heart count increases. It’s why phone addictions and FB addiction and so forth are things. Same with porn, only porn is probably more intense due to the orgasmic element that’s usually absent from those other platforms. Ready, willing, waiting, wanting is great unless the sex is boring. His idea of fun sex and her's might be miles apart. Maybe he wants to switch between twelve different positions with the lights on and a few toys. Her idea of risque is taking off her flannel night gown before she gets into bed (with the lights off) When you start avoiding family, friends, work because you are locked in your den watching porn for hours on end then yes you have a problem. ETA: Good friend of mine is married to a woman who is twelve years his elder. When she turned 50 she said, "I'm done with sex" He was only 38. No sex, no handjobs, no blowjobs, nothing. My wife suggested she let her husband have a sex surrogate. She said, "I would but I know him and he could not keep from developing feelings for the other woman so no" Translation: I know he would quickly realize what is lacking in our marriage and I'd be kicked to the curb He is now 52 and hasn't had intimate contact w/ his wife in 14 years. Fuck that, I would quit. |
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Quoted: Ready, willing, waiting, wanting is great unless the sex is boring. His idea of fun sex and her's might be miles apart. Maybe he wants to switch between twelve different positions with the lights on and a few toys. Her idea of risque is taking off her flannel night gown before she gets into bed (with the lights off) When you start avoiding family, friends, work because you are locked in your den watching porn for hours on end then yes you have a problem. ETA: Good friend of mine is married to a woman who is twelve years his elder. When she turned 50 she said, "I'm done with sex" He was only 38. No sex, no handjobs, no blowjobs, nothing. My wife suggested she let her husband have a sex surrogate. She said, "I would but I know him and he could not keep from developing feelings for the other woman so no" Translation: I know he would quickly realize what is lacking in our marriage and I'd be kicked to the curb He is now 52 and hasn't had intimate contact w/ his wife in 14 years. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: I know a guy who claims he was addicted to porn, he even wrote 2 books about it. I always wondered what "addicted" meant? Like he was up late at night watching porn and pounding it rather than being with his wife? It happens. Ready, willing, waiting, and wanting woman in the other room, dude opting to sit in front of the computer cranking it instead. As for “rewiring your brain”, think of a similar comparison for all the “likes” and approval folks get from FB and dating sites and so forth. Rather than accomplishing real world activities and making real world connections, they keep coming back for those little dopamine hits they get as the IG heart count increases. It’s why phone addictions and FB addiction and so forth are things. Same with porn, only porn is probably more intense due to the orgasmic element that’s usually absent from those other platforms. Ready, willing, waiting, wanting is great unless the sex is boring. His idea of fun sex and her's might be miles apart. Maybe he wants to switch between twelve different positions with the lights on and a few toys. Her idea of risque is taking off her flannel night gown before she gets into bed (with the lights off) When you start avoiding family, friends, work because you are locked in your den watching porn for hours on end then yes you have a problem. ETA: Good friend of mine is married to a woman who is twelve years his elder. When she turned 50 she said, "I'm done with sex" He was only 38. No sex, no handjobs, no blowjobs, nothing. My wife suggested she let her husband have a sex surrogate. She said, "I would but I know him and he could not keep from developing feelings for the other woman so no" Translation: I know he would quickly realize what is lacking in our marriage and I'd be kicked to the curb He is now 52 and hasn't had intimate contact w/ his wife in 14 years. “Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” ??1 Corinthians? ?7:5? ?ESV?? |
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I'm guessing her man expects her to do more than lay on her back now and she's upset she now has to put some effort into it
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Quoted: So using the statement that watching porn causes brain damage, then Why does first person real sex not cause brain damage. Cause as it's happening most people see themselves as the characters in a porn. View Quote It's an extension of masturbating will cause hair to grow on your hands meme. Pre-internet masturbation warnings. this is all anti-masturbation propaganda. |
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So they’ve upped the ante from “you’re going to go blind” to this?
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Quoted: Yeah, yeah, I know. It's FaceBook : https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/369122/C8EA81AE-9651-4174-81EE-FA4DDE621B5F_png-2031691.JPG Soooo look at those "likes". Appears to be 27 crazy cat ladies in the making. View Quote Nick |
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Quoted: It's so easy and accessible. The instaneous pleasure that you can get from it beats having to put in the work with your spouse. It becomes a habit after while and you lose interest with the real thing and prefer the virtual. Its no different than doing drugs. You enjoy the euphoria so much and it becomes an escape from reality that you do everyday and then it becomes habit and you lose interest in reality almost entirely. View Quote Dudes are that lazy they'd rather watch 2 people fuck and crank out a knuckle baby to it when a craving hits, rather than boff their girlfriend/fiance/wife? Lose interest in reality? They must have hands as soft as the pussy they pass up in favor of pronhub... Calloused hands as rough as tree bark and porn vs vag? Vag wins every time. The only way I could see that being viable, passing up sex for pron is if dudes a desk pilot and has hands as soft/softer than a womans... Or frigid/puritan spouse that sees it as a tool of manipulation/form of punishment/procreation only/lazy/has issues/insecurities masked with that bullshit feelz nonsense..."I just don't feel sexy/beautiful" "I have a headache." Pull that bottle of Excedrin extra strength out then. |
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Quoted: Ready, willing, waiting, wanting is great unless the sex is boring. His idea of fun sex and her's might be miles apart. Maybe he wants to switch between twelve different positions with the lights on and a few toys. Her idea of risque is taking off her flannel night gown before she gets into bed (with the lights off) When you start avoiding family, friends, work because you are locked in your den watching porn for hours on end then yes you have a problem. ETA: Good friend of mine is married to a woman who is twelve years his elder. When she turned 50 she said, "I'm done with sex" He was only 38. No sex, no handjobs, no blowjobs, nothing. My wife suggested she let her husband have a sex surrogate. She said, "I would but I know him and he could not keep from developing feelings for the other woman so no" Translation: I know he would quickly realize what is lacking in our marriage and I'd be kicked to the curb He is now 52 and hasn't had intimate contact w/ his wife in 14 years. View Quote Just. Damn. That dude either has like zero money… Or he has a shit ton of money and doesn’t want to pay that frigid bitch alimony after he divorced her. I think at some point my job description would have changed to include working late at night, and I would be out at some bar trying to jump on any woman who had a pulse. |
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ETA: Good friend of mine is married to a woman who is twelve years his elder. When she turned 50 she said, "I'm done with sex" He was only 38. No sex, no handjobs, no blowjobs, nothing. My wife suggested she let her husband have a sex surrogate. She said, "I would but I know him and he could not keep from developing feelings for the other woman so no" Translation: I know he would quickly realize what is lacking in our marriage and I'd be kicked to the curb He is now 52 and hasn't had intimate contact w/ his wife in 14 years. View Quote lol my first wife pulled that shit within 1 year of getting married, in her mid-20s! Kicked her to the curb, then upgraded. I do not wish her any ill, but I must confess that I do keep a bottle of champagne in the fridge just in case I hear she was run over by a city bus. |
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Too funny.
Reminds me of when my 1st ex said I was "cheating" on her because I had a few magazines I'd "use" every now and then! Bitches be crazy, yo! |
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Quoted: Dudes are that lazy they'd rather watch 2 people fuck and crank out a knuckle baby to it when a craving hits, rather than boff their girlfriend/fiance/wife? Lose interest in reality? They must have hands as soft as the pussy they pass up in favor of pronhub... Calloused hands as rough as tree bark and porn vs vag? Vag wins every time. The only way I could see that being viable, passing up sex for pron is if dudes a desk pilot and has hands as soft/softer than a womans... Or frigid/puritan spouse that sees it as a tool of manipulation/form of punishment/procreation only/lazy/has issues/insecurities masked with that bullshit feelz nonsense..."I just don't feel sexy/beautiful" "I have a headache." Pull that bottle of Excedrin extra strength out then. View Quote Excedrin tension headache is a miracle worker |
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A guy is having sex with his wife and says to her.
"Oh Im sorry did I hurt you?" She says "No why" He says "I thought you moved" |
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Quoted: Too funny. Reminds me of when my 1st ex said I was "cheating" on her because I had a few magazines I'd "use" every now and then! Bitches be crazy, yo! View Quote Honestly, Some women are very, very, very proud of keeping their spouse fulfilled... and to them porn is a slap in their face... They take that shit personally...and not lightly... beyond an insult... in a way that's a good thing, especially if she takes care of herself/maintains her looks/physique and has a strong sex drive that matches or exceeds yours. |
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Lol, bullshit.
Karen (usually fat) complaining about what other people do/see, not her business. "it's not normal or real". Whatever, lame/lazy/uptight/fatty. Some of us do fuck like that. |
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Quoted: Excedrin tension headache is a miracle worker View Quote Yup. I have a difficult time with the happy wife happy life crowd that constantly moans about how their ol lady isn't in the mood/has headaches and can't figure out 2 Excedrins, a cold compress, dark room and go one further to introduce foreplay by gently massaging the base of her head/neck, temples, back...and viola. Porn star in heat. Like Jesus christ bro, you've got 10 15 20 years on me and take that lame excuse and not even try?! |
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Quoted: A guy is having sex with his wife and says to her. "Oh Im sorry did I hurt you?" She says "No why" He says "I thought you moved" View Quote Attached File |
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It is a very common misunderstanding/misconception to think that a porn addict can be satiated with real sex and thus the addiction conquered.
That's just not how the addicted brain works. It may allow the person to extend the time intervals between acting out but it will not cause the brain to heal and undo the dysfunctional wiring. As an example, I know of a man in recovery now that for most of his marriage, he was able to conceal his addiction to porn and message parlors from his wife. He viewed porn on a regular basis and only allowed himself to visit a massage parlor exactly once a year. His wife is very attractive and they had an active sex life. The amount of "normal" sex he had did not enable him to overcome his addiction. To the addicted, porn is just the mechanism the brain uses to satisfy the demand for dopamine release, like food/alcohol/drugs to others. Geez, there's so much more to this and yes, I've over simplified for brevity. BTW, I'm not a medical expert but I'm 51 and my porn addiction started at age 13. My recovery process started when I hit rock bottom in 2010. |
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Probably fine in moderation but sadly most humans don't really do moderation well and tend to over indulge
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She's right.
Just like cellphones and addictive apps have lead to a generation of pussies with super low testosterone levels who only know how to converse with other humans via "apps" and they don't know how to address an envelope, change a spare tire. These are the 25 year olds demanding everyone gets cancelled. |
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Quoted: Porn is incredibly addictive, usually more so than alcohol and drugs. It has been shown by neurologists and neurosurgeons that the brain of a porn addict and cocaine/heroin addict look nearly identical when scanned. Porn is also viciously defended by the vast majority of GD and those who seek to profit from it. Bottom line is by viewing porn on a regular basis, you are remapping the neuro-pathways of the brain's pleasure center almost exactly as if you were snorting coke or shooting up heroin. Your ignorance or denial of this does not change fact. Much more I could say but this is GD. View Quote Exactly. You can tell who has a bit of knowledge in this thread vs who is totally ignorant on the subject. |
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Quoted: I should feel ashamed that I know who that is. But for some reason, I feel pride. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: So Lady Sonia isn't really interested in me and just takes my $49.95 a month for herself !?! I should feel ashamed that I know who that is. But for some reason, I feel pride. |
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Quoted: Porn is incredibly addictive, usually more so than alcohol and drugs. It has been shown by neurologists and neurosurgeons that the brain of a porn addict and cocaine/heroin addict look nearly identical when scanned. Porn is also viciously defended by the vast majority of GD and those who seek to profit from it. Bottom line is by viewing porn on a regular basis, you are remapping the neuro-pathways of the brain's pleasure center almost exactly as if you were snorting coke or shooting up heroin. Your ignorance or denial of this does not change fact. Much more I could say but this is GD. View Quote True, but I refuse to stand in the way of anyone’s self-destructive tendencies/habits unless it’s one of my kids. Make Darwin Great Again! TC P.S.—On topic: The Karen in question undoubtedly caught hubby jerking off and is pissed. The fact that she hasn’t had sex with him for 15 years (and wasn’t that motivated when she was doing it) notwithstanding. |
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Her husband would rather jack off than deal with that. That's what that means.
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Quoted: So using the statement that watching porn causes brain damage, then Why does first person real sex not cause brain damage. Cause as it's happening most people see themselves as the characters in a porn. View Quote It does. The retarded shit I’ve done to try to get laid is proof. Marriage is number one on the list. TC |
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Quoted: No. Your watching of the porn and addiction hurt your sex wife. Don't blame that on porn. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: She’s not wrong. Porn hurt my sex life with my wife, which drastically affected our marriage. Don’t be fooled about the supposed lack of consequences. No. Your watching of the porn and addiction hurt your sex wife. Don't blame that on porn. Is that what we are calling mistresses these days? |
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Look up Nikolaas Tinbergen's study on supernormal stimulus. See if you can figure out how it applies.
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Quoted: Maybe if more chicks rocked thier men like pornstars do, we wouldn't look at it. "I'm a 4-expected-to-treated-like-a-10, and gunna give you the hottest totally silent missionary ONLY with the lights off, except when I'm tired or have a headache, oh and BJs make my jaw hurt, so dont ask" = What no guy wants to hear. Wonder why crazy girls even get the time of day when we risk having our houses burnt down and our pets cooked in stew pots? Because most of them are absolute freaks in the sack. View Quote Attached File TC |
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How Porn Is Destroying You and Our Country Thanks @SBR_Slut |
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Quoted: It is a very common misunderstanding/misconception to think that a porn addict can be satiated with real sex and thus the addiction conquered. That's just not how the addicted brain works. It may allow the person to extend the time intervals between acting out but it will not cause the brain to heal and undo the dysfunctional wiring. As an example, I know of a man in recovery now that for most of his marriage, he was able to conceal his addiction to porn and message parlors from his wife. He viewed porn on a regular basis and only allowed himself to visit a massage parlor exactly once a year. His wife is very attractive and they had an active sex life. The amount of "normal" sex he had did not enable him to overcome his addiction. To the addicted, porn is just the mechanism the brain uses to satisfy the demand for dopamine release, like food/alcohol/drugs to others. Geez, there's so much more to this and yes, I've over simplified for brevity. BTW, I'm not a medical expert but I'm 51 and my porn addiction started at age 13. My recovery process started when I hit rock bottom in 2010. View Quote You’re acting like every person who watches porn can be classified as an addict, which isn’t any more true than saying every person who eats food is addicted to it. |
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Quoted: This is the ignorance part I was referring to. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Porn is incredibly addictive, usually more so than alcohol and drugs. It has been shown by neurologists and neurosurgeons that the brain of a porn addict and cocaine/heroin addict look nearly identical when scanned. Porn is also viciously defended by the vast majority of GD and those who seek to profit from it. Bottom line is by viewing porn on a regular basis, you are remapping the neuro-pathways of the brain's pleasure center almost exactly as if you were snorting coke or shooting up heroin. Your ignorance or denial of this does not change fact. Much more I could say but this is GD. I remember when we went a week without power and all the porn addicts were going through withdrawal and puking everywhere. Dude, you are posting nonsense. I don’t care what some bullshit college research says. To compare porn to heroin is moronic. |
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Quoted: It happens. Ready, willing, waiting, and wanting woman in the other room, dude opting to sit in front of the computer cranking it instead. As for “rewiring your brain”, think of a similar comparison for all the “likes” and approval folks get from FB and dating sites and so forth. Rather than accomplishing real world activities and making real world connections, they keep coming back for those little dopamine hits they get as the IG heart count increases. It’s why phone addictions and FB addiction and so forth are things. Same with porn, only porn is probably more intense due to the orgasmic element that’s usually absent from those other platforms. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I know a guy who claims he was addicted to porn, he even wrote 2 books about it. I always wondered what "addicted" meant? Like he was up late at night watching porn and pounding it rather than being with his wife? It happens. Ready, willing, waiting, and wanting woman in the other room, dude opting to sit in front of the computer cranking it instead. As for “rewiring your brain”, think of a similar comparison for all the “likes” and approval folks get from FB and dating sites and so forth. Rather than accomplishing real world activities and making real world connections, they keep coming back for those little dopamine hits they get as the IG heart count increases. It’s why phone addictions and FB addiction and so forth are things. Same with porn, only porn is probably more intense due to the orgasmic element that’s usually absent from those other platforms. Ready, willing, waiting and wanting 300 pound woman? This all sounds like the whole guns cause crime argument. |
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Porn is pushed heavily in our society to further break down the social bonds that are necessary for strong and healthy families.
It makes men weaker and reduces the value of women to a few holes and pushes everyone down a slippery slope (phrasing?) of more and more degeneracy. |
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Quoted: Exactly. You can tell who has a bit of knowledge in this thread vs who is totally ignorant on the subject. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Porn is incredibly addictive, usually more so than alcohol and drugs. It has been shown by neurologists and neurosurgeons that the brain of a porn addict and cocaine/heroin addict look nearly identical when scanned. Porn is also viciously defended by the vast majority of GD and those who seek to profit from it. Bottom line is by viewing porn on a regular basis, you are remapping the neuro-pathways of the brain's pleasure center almost exactly as if you were snorting coke or shooting up heroin. Your ignorance or denial of this does not change fact. Much more I could say but this is GD. Exactly. You can tell who has a bit of knowledge in this thread vs who is totally ignorant on the subject. No, he is describing a mentally ill person that blames porn for his problems. If it isn’t porn it is gambling or alcohol or whatever. No personal responsibility. |
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