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Quoted: /media/mediaFiles/sharedAlbum/476-342.gif "I'm a slut who whored around too much and now I need an idiot cuck to settle down." View Quote Why do cucks have to be idiots? Let your wife get pregnant from some other dude, make him pay child support, live a life of luxury off the payments while skipping out on child duties. Or eat the cream pie after it’s made for a tasty dessert |
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Quoted: pretty much nice guy = guy who thinks treating women in a traditional manner (buying them dinner, gifts etc) works in Current Year aka beta simp provider View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: My experience indicates that nice guys very often finish first, surrounded by a loving family. My perception is that the language has changed. If you dig into it, it turns out that the definition (for the most part) of "a nice guy" for Boomers and Gen X is VERY different from the pop-culture definition of "a nice guy" today for Millennials and Zoomers. Nice Guy way back in the day: courteous, polite, respectful, but not a pushover. Economically self-sufficient and independent. Looking for a life partner for a long-term relationship based on mutual respect. Nice Guy today: worships women, treats them like queens, would lick their boots if asked, and somehow thinks this leads to her being his willing sexbot and companion. pretty much nice guy = guy who thinks treating women in a traditional manner (buying them dinner, gifts etc) works in Current Year aka beta simp provider this is interesting because I'm nearly 50 and Way Back When I Was Dating in the 80s and 90s it was expected that the man pays for dinner, drinks, movie tix, etc. Not saying it was right, or that's how it should be, it's just the way it was. Today I could see how some women would think "I'll just use this guy for free food/etc" and not realize it's manipulative and exploitative. |
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as I said in another thread, it's not that those women want Bad Boys, it's that they want an exciting man -- and Bad Boys are exciting. Too many young men today were raised by single moms who raised them to be placid, quiet, and unexciting, basically chicks with dicks.
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Quoted: as I said in another thread, it's not that those women want Bad Boys, it's that they want an exciting man -- and Bad Boys are exciting. Too many young men today were raised by single moms who raised them to be placid, quiet, and unexciting, basically chicks with dicks. View Quote Yep. Bad boy behavior overlaps the behavior of an interesting man pursuing his mission. PUA “games” mimics the same behavior to create the illusion of high value. |
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A 5/10 with crazy eyes.
Will be pregnant living in an Albama trailer park after a brief stint in the scat porn industry in no time. |
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Quoted: Why do cucks have to be idiots? Let your wife get pregnant from some other dude, make him pay child support, live a life of luxury off the payments while skipping out on child duties. Or eat the cream pie after it’s made for a tasty dessert View Quote Attached File |
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Quoted: Every now and then you meet a man who wins at life without treating others like shit. I've met one of the richest men in Montana and he was nice as hell. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: nice guys finish last, ie divorce court Every now and then you meet a man who wins at life without treating others like shit. I've met one of the richest men in Montana and he was nice as hell. Niceness isn’t the key factor. Spine is. |
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Quoted: this is interesting because I'm nearly 50 and Way Back When I Was Dating in the 80s and 90s it was expected that the man pays for dinner, drinks, movie tix, etc. Not saying it was right, or that's how it should be, it's just the way it was. Today I could see how some women would think "I'll just use this guy for free food/etc" and not realize it's manipulative and exploitative. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: My experience indicates that nice guys very often finish first, surrounded by a loving family. My perception is that the language has changed. If you dig into it, it turns out that the definition (for the most part) of "a nice guy" for Boomers and Gen X is VERY different from the pop-culture definition of "a nice guy" today for Millennials and Zoomers. Nice Guy way back in the day: courteous, polite, respectful, but not a pushover. Economically self-sufficient and independent. Looking for a life partner for a long-term relationship based on mutual respect. Nice Guy today: worships women, treats them like queens, would lick their boots if asked, and somehow thinks this leads to her being his willing sexbot and companion. pretty much nice guy = guy who thinks treating women in a traditional manner (buying them dinner, gifts etc) works in Current Year aka beta simp provider this is interesting because I'm nearly 50 and Way Back When I Was Dating in the 80s and 90s it was expected that the man pays for dinner, drinks, movie tix, etc. Not saying it was right, or that's how it should be, it's just the way it was. Today I could see how some women would think "I'll just use this guy for free food/etc" and not realize it's manipulative and exploitative. I'm sure the norm was to exclusively date one person at a time, and it was unusual to date multiple people. That's changed. It's best to assume they're dating multiple guys, because that's no longer unusual. Don't forget, they're strong and independent, they can afford their own dinner/drinks etc. "Chivalry" is dead. ETA: IMO, it's the Internet and especially dating apps which fundamentally change how dating was from the 80s/90s to how it is now |
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Quoted: Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. |
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Quoted: as I said in another thread, it's not that those women want Bad Boys, it's that they want an exciting man -- and Bad Boys are exciting. Too many young men today were raised by single moms who raised them to be placid, quiet, and unexciting, basically chicks with dicks. View Quote Keep in mind too that many women were not raised by strong fathers or any fathers. They have little to no frame of reference for what a strong man actually is. Its pretty easy to misinterpret an asshole as a strong man if you have no reference frame. |
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Quoted: Love has to go both ways. All the affection, attention and investments have to be reciprocated. I am done being the one who gives more and gets nothing in return. I am done being with somebody and feeling alone. I want someone who makes the efforts. Someone who matches my investments. Someone who cares and isn’t afraid to show it. View Quote She's already sown the seeds of the destruction of her new plan. |
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Quoted: GD "Monday Morning Quarterbacking" in the psychology and sociology realms. Everyone's an expert and no one has any credentials. Always entertaining View Quote |
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She wants that flat hat, white framed sunglasses, Ed hardy wearing bro dick so bad she can taste it.
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Quoted: I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. |
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Quoted: No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. Diagram that out for me. |
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Quoted: No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. inb4 she's in her 30s and still perpetually single |
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Quoted: Just a bunch of guys expressing their opinions, generally based on their personal experiences. But, hey, your condescension is appreciated and duly noted. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: GD "Monday Morning Quarterbacking" in the psychology and sociology realms. Everyone's an expert and no one has any credentials. Always entertaining 87% of the time the rage comes from people who haven't dated in decades People who haven't dated since the apps become mainstream |
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. Diagram that out for me. Talk to your single female coworkers in their 20s and 30s about their nights and weekends more. Their stories will make it more clear to you than hearing it from a single guys perspective |
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It must look like an Arby’s sandwich with extra horsey sauce down there.
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Quoted: 2/3 of women (it's the same for men) are overweight or obese...she's above average View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: She isn't that attractive. She is average at best. 2/3 of women (it's the same for men) are overweight or obese...she's above average That alone utterly blows the curve. It has made the average "girl next door" type into a much higher valued commodity. |
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Quoted: Why do cucks have to be idiots? Let your wife get pregnant from some other dude, make him pay child support, live a life of luxury off the payments while skipping out on child duties. Or eat the cream pie after it’s made for a tasty dessert View Quote Attached File |
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Attention whore skank looking for validation. Actions speak louder than words. She'll sucker in a simp, flirt with guys and girls right in front of him, and shortly after start cheating on him.
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Quoted: Keep in mind too that many women were not raised by strong fathers or any fathers. They have little to no frame of reference for what a strong man actually is. Its pretty easy to misinterpret an asshole as a strong man if you have no reference frame. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: as I said in another thread, it's not that those women want Bad Boys, it's that they want an exciting man -- and Bad Boys are exciting. Too many young men today were raised by single moms who raised them to be placid, quiet, and unexciting, basically chicks with dicks. Keep in mind too that many women were not raised by strong fathers or any fathers. They have little to no frame of reference for what a strong man actually is. Its pretty easy to misinterpret an asshole as a strong man if you have no reference frame. We keep using the words “nice” and “strong” to signify way more than what the word simply means. A felon is strong. A simp is nice. A good, successful, husband-material man is both nice and strong. IMHO, this is all about failing to make a nuanced and complete analysis of individuals across multiple spectra. That’s how men and women select mates with whom they end up dissatisfied. |
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Quoted: Talk to your single female coworkers in their 20s and 30s about their nights and weekends more. Their stories will make it more clear to you than hearing it from a single guys perspective View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. Diagram that out for me. Talk to your single female coworkers in their 20s and 30s about their nights and weekends more. Their stories will make it more clear to you than hearing it from a single guys perspective Which has what to do with the article or the author? |
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Quoted: I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. View Quote It's not necessarily unreasonable, it's just comical. She's basically complaining that the bad boys treat her like she treats the nice guys. That's what really pisses her off. She said she's tired of being the only one to give more and receive nothing in return. That's how she treats the non-bad boys. They give more and in return she gives them apathy. I find that hilarious. It's poetic justice. But I also doubt her "commitment" to any of her rules and boundaries. Women always make exceptions for men that turn them on, and we know what kind of men turn her on. She's freely admitted to it. How many times has she given herself this speel in the past? How well did it stick then? |
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Quoted: In my uneducated guess, I would think she has some sort of trauma or abuse in her past that leads her to seek out abusive or manipulative men who end up using her. That is assuming the men she's refering to are in fact abusive, manipulative or whatever.. Her needing to write it out as an affirmation to remind herself not to commit self harm tells me she has some form of addiction to it and a low sense of worth. She'll transform herself best she can, get someone who treats her well and will begin to doubt her worth and question why she deserves happiness. At the first sign of trouble she'll think she's going to be abandoned again and will act out by texting the stable of men she has to receive attention, which will lead to sex. Then she'll be caught in a cycle of guilt, substance abuse and low self esteem, that will lead to a break up. Then she'll go fuck around again, then read her affirmations, and go find a new nice guy to play psychiatrist, maybe get herself knocked up for sure to lock him in. View Quote I'd bet on this scenario. |
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Quoted: That alone utterly blows the curve. It has made the average "girl next door" type into a much higher valued commodity. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: She isn't that attractive. She is average at best. 2/3 of women (it's the same for men) are overweight or obese...she's above average That alone utterly blows the curve. It has made the average "girl next door" type into a much higher valued commodity. I think it’s fucking awesome. American women should continue to binge eat until I turn into Kate Beckinsale. I mean, relatively speaking, as women get uglier, I’m getting more beautiful as I age. |
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Anyone consider she did not mean any of this at all?
She is a "Relationship Expert" posting online in the hopes of getting more followers. I think it is MOST likely that she is writing what she perceives her target audience wants to read. She could write something to TELL those women what to do, or as a "Relationship Expert," she can make it about her to give it a nice spin. It worked didn't it? |
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Quoted: I'm sure the norm was to exclusively date one person at a time, and it was unusual to date multiple people. That's changed. It's best to assume they're dating multiple guys, because that's no longer unusual. View Quote Yeah, back then it kinda was. If you were dating two chicks, then each was in the very early stages of the dating relationship and you were trying to figure out which one to stick with and which to kindly and gently dump. (Excluding cheaters, of course, but that's not dating.) |
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Quoted: Keep in mind too that many women were not raised by strong fathers or any fathers. They have little to no frame of reference for what a strong man actually is. Its pretty easy to misinterpret an asshole as a strong man if you have no reference frame. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: as I said in another thread, it's not that those women want Bad Boys, it's that they want an exciting man -- and Bad Boys are exciting. Too many young men today were raised by single moms who raised them to be placid, quiet, and unexciting, basically chicks with dicks. Keep in mind too that many women were not raised by strong fathers or any fathers. They have little to no frame of reference for what a strong man actually is. Its pretty easy to misinterpret an asshole as a strong man if you have no reference frame. good point. The best parental advice I ever was told was "You set the example for your kids in what a Good Man is. Be the kind of man you want your son to become; be the kind of man you want your daughter to date/marry." |
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Quoted: No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Sounds like she realized what most women realize at some point or another. Maybe it just took her a bit longer. To realize SHE is the problem and not the guys she is into dating? No, she hasn't figured out that yet. Maybe, maybe not. She wrote about establishing boundaries and expectations, about not allowing herself to be used and manipulated and deceived. I think those are a good start. Don’t we council men here to do the same thing? I don't see anything particularly unreasonable about that list. She's after something more substantial than a casual hookup. No. She’s after a future commitment while meeting her current sexual needs with casual hookups. can we get an MS Paint of this? |
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Quoted: She does give examples. Such as late night texts. Which she discounts as always booty calls. It looks like she can’t tell the difference between a late night text from a loser who played video games all day vs a guy that just finished a 16-hour work day and finally has time to talk. Both feed her hypergamous nature but she’s not self aware enough to understand why and identify the difference. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: This right here... she says she can see toxic men and the red flags from a mile away, yet no examples. Whatsoever. . She does give examples. Such as late night texts. Which she discounts as always booty calls. It looks like she can’t tell the difference between a late night text from a loser who played video games all day vs a guy that just finished a 16-hour work day and finally has time to talk. Both feed her hypergamous nature but she’s not self aware enough to understand why and identify the difference. I actually thought about that, and you have a point - but that's really painfully obvious. And that's where I'm mentioning the examples. Like you mention a dude that sits around playing video games all day, or the dude that works 16 hours. Which ironically both are red flags. What woman wants an unemployed dude that sits around playing video games all day, or the exact opposite the dude that puts his entire life into work with zero time for a partner or family? |
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Quoted: I think it’s fucking awesome. American women should continue to binge eat until I turn into Kate Beckinsale. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: She isn't that attractive. She is average at best. 2/3 of women (it's the same for men) are overweight or obese...she's above average That alone utterly blows the curve. It has made the average "girl next door" type into a much higher valued commodity. I think it’s fucking awesome. American women should continue to binge eat until I turn into Kate Beckinsale. |
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Quoted: Anyone consider she did not mean any of this at all? She is a "Relationship Expert" posting online in the hopes of getting more followers. I think it is MOST likely that she is writing what she perceives her target audience wants to read. She could write something to TELL those women what to do, or as a "Relationship Expert," she can make it about her to give it a nice spin. It worked didn't it? View Quote yes, that's been discussed. Try to keep up. |
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Quoted: 87% of the time the rage comes from people who haven't dated in decades People who haven't dated since the apps become mainstream View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: GD "Monday Morning Quarterbacking" in the psychology and sociology realms. Everyone's an expert and no one has any credentials. Always entertaining 87% of the time the rage comes from people who haven't dated in decades People who haven't dated since the apps become mainstream Just because there’s apps, do you have to use them? Because even with the young people I know who use apps to get dinner paid for, they still rely on in-person meetings of friends of friends to get boyfriends and girlfriends. I’ll never date again, but if I were looking for a man, I’d use in-person social networking 80s style to do do it. I’d go do things where men are like the range and classic car meetups. I just don’t get this idea that now apps are the only way to meet a love interest. Maybe I’m very old and out of touch. |
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Quoted: I think it's fucking awesome. American women should continue to binge eat until I turn into Kate Beckinsale. I mean, relatively speaking, as women get uglier, I'm getting more beautiful as I age. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: She isn't that attractive. She is average at best. 2/3 of women (it's the same for men) are overweight or obese...she's above average That alone utterly blows the curve. It has made the average "girl next door" type into a much higher valued commodity. I think it's fucking awesome. American women should continue to binge eat until I turn into Kate Beckinsale. I mean, relatively speaking, as women get uglier, I'm getting more beautiful as I age. So your attractiveness is like home values rising relative to inflation? |
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Simp Realises He's Being Used Failed To Load Title not a neckbeard, well dressed, has money moving traditionally will get him laid etc...but he's also getting used it's just the cost benefit of the time/money/effort he could get laid without simping too |
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Quoted: Yeah, back then it kinda was. If you were dating two chicks, then each was in the very early stages of the dating relationship and you were trying to figure out which one to stick with and which to kindly and gently dump. (Excluding cheaters, of course, but that's not dating.) View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: I'm sure the norm was to exclusively date one person at a time, and it was unusual to date multiple people. That's changed. It's best to assume they're dating multiple guys, because that's no longer unusual. Yeah, back then it kinda was. If you were dating two chicks, then each was in the very early stages of the dating relationship and you were trying to figure out which one to stick with and which to kindly and gently dump. (Excluding cheaters, of course, but that's not dating.) More than two, in fact. But the difference was that a date involves sock hops or ice cream, not anal. Big difference. |
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Her manifesto reads like a crack head saying they're totally not smoking any more crack.
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Quoted: So your attractiveness is like home values rising relative to inflation? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: She isn't that attractive. She is average at best. 2/3 of women (it's the same for men) are overweight or obese...she's above average That alone utterly blows the curve. It has made the average "girl next door" type into a much higher valued commodity. I think it's fucking awesome. American women should continue to binge eat until I turn into Kate Beckinsale. I mean, relatively speaking, as women get uglier, I'm getting more beautiful as I age. So your attractiveness is like home values rising relative to inflation? Well duh. Do you think I’d get “prettier” as I get older any other way? It’s weird to be old and consistently sexier than 18 year olds. It’s not because I’m special, it’s because they’re absolutely hideous. |
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Quoted: Just because there’s apps, do you have to use them? Because even with the young people I know who use apps to get dinner paid for, they still rely on in-person meetings of friends of friends to get boyfriends and girlfriends. I’ll never date again, but if I were looking for a man, I’d use in-person social networking 80s style to do do it. I’d go do things where men are like the range and classic car meetups. I just don’t get this idea that now apps are the only way to meet a love interest. Maybe I’m very old and out of touch. View Quote No better place to find late 50s empty-nester with a beer cut making pop culture references from the late 90s while talking about middle-management woes |
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It works for men too. The pathetic little faggots they’re turning out now make the old dudes look like Odin.
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Quoted: No better place to find late 50s empty-nester with a beer cut making pop culture references from the late 90s while talking about middle-management woes View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Just because there’s apps, do you have to use them? Because even with the young people I know who use apps to get dinner paid for, they still rely on in-person meetings of friends of friends to get boyfriends and girlfriends. I’ll never date again, but if I were looking for a man, I’d use in-person social networking 80s style to do do it. I’d go do things where men are like the range and classic car meetups. I just don’t get this idea that now apps are the only way to meet a love interest. Maybe I’m very old and out of touch. No better place to find late 50s empty-nester with a beer cut making pop culture references from the late 90s while talking about middle-management woes new balance and jorts are sexy af |
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