Posted: 5/5/2017 11:44:07 AM EDT
If you connected with? a woman on all levels but the sex was horrible would you date her?   
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Nope. A while after my divorce, I dated a woman who I connected with on many levels. I thought she was a keeper. Then we had sex. She just laid there. No emotion or reaction. I ended that relationship the next day. |
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If you connected with? a woman on all levels but the sex was horrible would you date her? No, But. Remain "friends" let her think that you are a standby cock. Women love having a few of those around, steal a toothy blowjob from her every now and again. Then harvest her friend pool. Easy poon, delivered. I knew a gal when I lived in Seattle. She was cool and rowdy with a stripper body but a face like Lady Gaga. We hung out, went to the club's together, she introduced me to all of her much hotter friends. I got more tang than a fucking space station. Oddly enough were still great friends 20 years later. Only true plutonic friend I've ever had. Much like a shark and one of those little suckerfish. She helped me find the food to hunt, I kept the predators away from her. A mutual relationship. |
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Doubtful you will get her to change much. Well, meth. You could pretty much bend her will like a pretzel and probably destroy her as a human for a good long time using dopamine surges to rewire reward pathways and risk assessment thinking. But that would be wrong. Sociopathic.
As for pork chops, either
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Did you try choking her... either that or telling her what a turn on it is that she seems dead while you do it? Quoted:
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Nope. A while after my divorce, I dated a woman who I connected with on many levels. I thought she was a keeper. Then we had sex. She just laid there. No emotion or reaction. I ended that relationship the next day.
But no, I did not. I did, however, tell her she fucked like a dead fish.
You can probably find the Night Crew thread when that happened. It was hilarious. 
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OP, the answer is no. You will come to long for really good sex, and the only option is for you to stray. And that will kill off the relationship, too, but with more bloodshed.
Really fell for a woman a few years ago. She was awesome, beautiful, funny, smart, everything. I was in love. But when it eventually got to the bed stage, she was like a victim ... she just lay there with her eyes closed like I was raping her or something. No amount of kissing and tenderness would thaw the ice. I had to wonder if she had either been molested at an early age, or if she was just never taught that sex is fun. I edged away from her, even though I still think about her from time to time. Heard that she has married and been divorced twice now, and I strongly suspect sex is the culprit. You just gotta have a woman who will joyfully roll in the hay with you. |
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As a young man, an old timer gave me this advice: "Pussy is just a warm place to (fill in the blank)" At the time, there seemed to be wisdom in that Hell sometimes I pull out and finish myself off all over her face 
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Did you try choking her... either that or telling her what a turn on it is that she seems dead while you do it? Quoted:
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Nope. A while after my divorce, I dated a woman who I connected with on many levels. I thought she was a keeper. Then we had sex. She just laid there. No emotion or reaction. I ended that relationship the next day. 
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| Have you tried talking to her about what you like? Some girls are shy or less experienced and unless you tell them what you like or like to do how can you expect them to be pleasers. Had this issue several times then I got wise and talked to her about it and things changed for the better. One girl was so shy she could not have sex completely naked and would have to keep her bra on. If you do not talk to her about it how can she know she is bad or not pleasing you. |
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Have you tried talking to her about what you like? Some girls are shy or less experienced and unless you tell them what you like or like to do how can you expect them to be pleasers. Had this issue several times then I got wise and talked to her about it and things changed for the better. One girl was so shy she could not have sex completely naked and would have to keep her bra on. If you do not talk to her about it how can she know she is bad or not pleasing you. Lights on , yes, it is going in your mouth, buttplay at the ladies discretion. You are expected to have riding skills and you better be able to arch your back. I didn't spend all that time learning how to make a woman come to fuck a dead starfish. Grow up, if a girl has that many hangups she can do that shit somewhere else. |