Posted: 2/12/2017 12:42:31 AM EDT
| Taking a good friend (hopefully something more in the future) on a Valentines date. Should it be a single rose or an entire bouqeut? |
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Just go out and have a good time. Don't overdo the v-day cliches. If you want to get her flowers do it sometime out of the blue and have them sent to her work.
A bouquet of roses on Valentine's Day is just a little predictable if you're looking to woo this girl. |
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87 roses and tell her you did this for a living
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It doesn't matter how many roses. A rose on Valentines is a rose.
Also, I understand the idea of going slow with someone you are interested in but unsure about, but if you want there to be something more, Valentine's Day is "do or die" territory. If you are out together on Valentine's Day, that is something.  If you can't step up and say that you want it to be something more, then either you don't really want it to be more, or she will get the message that you don't really want it to be more. Being married over fifteen years, Valentine's is a pretty meaningless event for us.  For a beginning relationship where you are still trying to figure each other out, it matters.  Step and and tell her you care.  If not, both of you should just move on. Maybe not, but good luck. ETA - Question for the women...whoops.  Good luck any way. |
Seriously? Â The flowers are out. Â You need to impress her with this:
 Dick In A Box (ft. Justin Timberlake) - Tribute [with Lyrics] |
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i dunno man--if the two of you are going out on V-day, then there isn't any playing coy about the whole thing. unless you deliberately misled her, she should be quite aware of your romantic attraction.
i'd be inclined to have fun with it--indulge in all the valentine's trappings, but in a lighthearted, pressure-free way rather than as an investment aimed at accruing dividends of pussy. |
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i dunno man--if the two of you are going out on V-day, then there isn't any playing coy about the whole thing. unless you deliberately misled her, she should be quite aware of your romantic attraction. i'd be inclined to have fun with it--indulge in all the valentine's trappings, but in a lighthearted, pressure-free way rather than as an investment aimed at accruing dividends of pussy. I admit I'm no Warren Buffet, but I thought all investments were aimed at acquiring pussy? |
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No roses. Any cheese dick and buy a rose or two. Write her a note that explains why you appreciate her and her good qualities. Nothing too over the top. It'll be a shot to the arm for her confidence. She will appreciate it....or tell you to FOAD.
LOVE IS A GAMBLE SOMETIMES. |
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No roses. Any cheese dick and buy a rose or two. Write her a note that explains why you appreciate her and her good qualities. Nothing too over the top. It'll be a shot to the arm for her confidence. She will appreciate it....or tell you to FOAD. LOVE IS A GAMBLE SOMETIMES. JFC, no fucking notes . |
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Look up the thread on that Daniel guy. Wear better pants than him.Â
Skip the flowers. But make damn sure she knows you're attracted to her, more than friends, sooner rather than later. It's disrespectful to her and to yourself if you're hiding how you feel like that. |
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https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/105576/friend-zone-couple-instagram-145151.JPG Don't be this guy, op. Good luck. Got-dayum. |
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https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/105576/friend-zone-couple-instagram-145151.JPG Don't be this guy, op. Good luck. Holy fucking shit. That's got to be a joke, right? |
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Id say a single rose is safe. Its pretty customary to give a rose on Valentine's Day.
If I was going out with a girl that I had no intentions of dating, sleeping with, etc....but just a nice night out with friends or something, I'd have no problems giving her a rose just because of the day/occasion. Hell, most restaurants give the women roses when they arrive for dinner on Valentine's Day. A whole bouquet on the other hand.... |
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Russel Stover black history month assortment heart  Russell Stover - SNL |
Op, you been friend zoned a lot? I'm going to go out and assume you have. Just want to see are you also a "nice guy" ?
Are you chubby? Do you claim to be a better dresser than others? Do you whine about girls always liking douche bags? Let's talk head gear, what's your go to hat? |
| Sounds like you know each other well, so perhaps this type of gesture isn't too much. However, if it's your first date I'd look at something very simple (may be a rose) or better yet something unconventional. Delivery is just as if not more important than what you might give her. |