You obviously started this thread for sympathy, fella, you won't get it from me.
Somehow, I get the feeling that what you call "apoligies" I would call lame ass excuses and running you mouth.
Gun shop owners, cops, and for all I know, the little checkout girl at the Quickie Mart. You seem to have a real problem with authority figures. Quite a leap, comments about police when as far as I can tell, there weren't even any involved. I have a feeling the instant response of the shop owner was in direct correlation to your mouth.
My suggestion would be to give that Kimber to someone who would appreciate it properly and follow simple basic safety procedures. I have a 9mm hole in my leg from just such an individual as you. He "Knew what he was doing" too.
I would also suggest you get your head out of your rear and do some SERIOUS self reflection, or the road ahead is really going to be bumpy.