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Posted: 6/7/2016 11:22:53 PM EDT
I'm in shambles, my world just fell apart in the blink of an eye

ETA:  Anyone live in Raleigh area?  Could use a range buddy sometime this week
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:23:28 PM EDT
[#1]
How old are you?





Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:24:02 PM EDT
[#2]
Why?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:24:25 PM EDT
[#3]
That sucks bud.  Things will get better.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:24:48 PM EDT
[#4]
What did you do wrong?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:02 PM EDT
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No it didnt. Get out and have fun, slay some tail.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:27 PM EDT
[#6]
That blows dude
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:33 PM EDT
[#7]
Keep your head up, OP. Eventually you will look back upon this day and see nothing but the start of a new-found freedom.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:39 PM EDT
[#8]
That sucks. Man up. Move on.



Clearly it wasn't meant to be.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:42 PM EDT
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This.

Not because I am being an ass, I am genuinely curious.

Things will get better.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:26:06 PM EDT
[#10]
Lots of women.  Get another one.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:26:15 PM EDT
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What did you do wrong?
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He dated a woman for 4-years without popping the question. Most won't even make it 2-years. Women have a much shorter shelf-life than men do, and they don't care to waste it away. Good news is there are plenty more.
 
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:26:32 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:02 PM EDT
[#13]
At least you didn't lose half your shit.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:17 PM EDT
[#14]
You'll be ok.  Think of it as an opportunity once the cloud of despair dissipates.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:29 PM EDT
[#15]
Did you plan on marrying her?



I know a few people over the years that the chick broke it off b/c he didnt propose after 2 years. I know a woman that said if she didnt have a ring within a year she gone. But she also said she wanted a long engagement.
 
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:46 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:50 PM EDT
[#17]
I married my wife after six weeks of knowing her. That was 35 years ago. I still have her. After 4 years you should have sealed the deal. It will suck for a while then it will be as if it never happened.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:28:49 PM EDT
[#18]
When you grow up you'll see she did you a huge favor!!  Now go fishing and chive on young'un
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:29:01 PM EDT
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He dated a woman for 4-years without popping the question. Most won't even make it 2-years. Women have a much shorter shelf-life than men do, and they don't care to waste it away. Good news is there are plenty more.
 




I'm at 6 years with my GF. No plans to get married in the next 5-6 years.

Head up OP, get your mind right and move forward.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:29:26 PM EDT
[#20]
Congrats
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:29:37 PM EDT
[#21]
Sleep with her: sister(s) if she has any and as many of her friends as possible.

Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:05 PM EDT
[#22]
You'll live...
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:13 PM EDT
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I married my wife after six weeks of knowing her. That was 35 years ago. I still have her. After 4 years you should have sealed the deal. It will suck for a while then it will be as if it never happened.
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Were you at Ft. Riley?

 
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:14 PM EDT
[#24]
Feel better dude. In the mean time there's only one thing you've got to do.





Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:17 PM EDT
[#25]
Are you gonna answer questions or?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:20 PM EDT
[#26]
Come back OP
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:55 PM EDT
[#27]
Grit your teeth.  Keep diggin.  Day by day brother.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:58 PM EDT
[#28]
Yeah.. it sucks.  Go to a bar, tell your story to the hottest girl there, its a panty dropper.  Drop said panties.  Fuck contents in said panties.  Kick contents of said panties out of home once said panties have been reapplied.  

Wash, rinse, repeat.

Its the summer of OP!

Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:02 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:12 PM EDT
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+1 Don't Fo. We've been down that road before and it's not fun.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:17 PM EDT
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Or this....................http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1875676_Friend_just_killed_himself___.html
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:50 PM EDT
[#32]
Someone get to his place and hide the nail guns

ETA: It's always the darkest just before dawn...
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:32:11 PM EDT
[#33]
Maybe she did you a favour but you can't see it right now.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:32:25 PM EDT
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Thread title says, "ask me anything."

Provision of answers to questions was never guaranteed.  
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:32:29 PM EDT
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I lost more then that in mine that's for fucking sure.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:33:10 PM EDT
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Is she good and crazy in the sack?

If no, disregard

If yes, what's her number?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:34:05 PM EDT
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Ask me anything.  I'm not gonna fucking answer, or return to this thread, but go ahead and ask.


Txl
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:34:28 PM EDT
[#38]
This is bullshit...
He didn't say console him

He didn't say encourage him

He didn't say give him advice.

He said,"Ask him anything".

Stop fucking up his thread and start asking him shit.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:34:51 PM EDT
[#39]
Tis but a bump in the road.  Chin up and  chest out.   You will carry on.
Eta.  She have a cute friend?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:35:02 PM EDT
[#40]
Why so sad?

Best way to get over a chick is to get under another one.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:35:27 PM EDT
[#41]
You will be fine.  I promise.
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:37 PM EDT
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... No worries. Life picks up from here!
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:51 PM EDT
[#43]
Real woman or Jenner-style?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:52 PM EDT
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This is bullshit...

He didn't say console him



He didn't say encourage him



He didn't say give him advice.



He said,"Ask him anything".



Stop fucking up his thread and start asking him shit.
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where's your question?



 
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:55 PM EDT
[#45]
2 words .... Fruit plate
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:37:02 PM EDT
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Whats the first being single large expense you are going to make?
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:38:01 PM EDT
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You were probably too drunk to see it coming
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:38:08 PM EDT
[#48]
When was the last time you two did it?

Was it good, or dead fish-ish?

Did you see any warning signs?

Is she perhaps banging your best friend?

Bummer for you.

Chris
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:38:10 PM EDT
[#49]
Question for the OP-


How happy and relieved should you feel that this happened after 4 years rather than after 4 children???
Link Posted: 6/7/2016 11:38:50 PM EDT
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Why no pics on page one? ARF must judge!
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