Posted: 10/30/2015 5:39:21 PM EDT
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Anyone use a online dating websites?
Are they worth the money? I'm looking at eharmony, but its not free and would hate to waste the money. Are there any good dating website, or are they all a joke? |
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Plentyoffish.com will get you laid op.
Just dont bring the crazy to your pad or she will know where you live. Dating sites dont generally attract the cream of the crop as those girls wont he hurting much for dates anyways. Free sites are going to attract even less than stellar prospects for long term relationships if thats what you are looking for. Just keep that in mind and you might be ok. |
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Are you at least not repulsive looking, have your shit together, and can carry on a conversation with a little humor?
If so, get off the computer and get out there in the real world and talk to women. You're competing against metrosexuals who pluck their eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. Unless you wear skinny jeans... |
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they are all kind of a joke. ok cupid and pof are free. I would personally recomend using meetup.com it is not a dating site but it will get you out of the house with a better chance of meeting women irl Lol. I once joined a singles group on Meetup.com. Never attended any meetings, but one day a message was spammed out to everyone, forbidding members from asking each other out on dates, because it was making some people uncomfortable. There's sometimes gun groups on there as well. Craigslist or Adult Friend Finder can work alright for hookups. |
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Lol. I once joined a singles group on Meetup.com. Never attended any meetings, but one day a message was spammed out to everyone, forbidding members from asking each other out on dates, because it was making some people uncomfortable. There's sometimes gun groups on there as well. Craigslist or Adult Friend Finder can work alright for hookups. Quoted:
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they are all kind of a joke. ok cupid and pof are free. I would personally recomend using meetup.com it is not a dating site but it will get you out of the house with a better chance of meeting women irl Lol. I once joined a singles group on Meetup.com. Never attended any meetings, but one day a message was spammed out to everyone, forbidding members from asking each other out on dates, because it was making some people uncomfortable. There's sometimes gun groups on there as well. Craigslist or Adult Friend Finder can work alright for hookups. you don't join the singles groups you join the groups that do shit you want to do. the charity/volunteer meetups are crawling with nice women |
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Are you at least not repulsive looking, have your shit together, and can carry on a conversation with a little humor? If so, get off the computer and get out there in the real world and talk to women. You're competing against metrosexuals who pluck their eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. Unless you wear skinny jeans... No ones ever called me a metro before. Ive done both and couldnt be happier |
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No ones ever called me a metro before. Ive done both and couldnt be happier http://www.kifaruforums.net/attachment.php?attachmentid=19617&stc=1&d=1433807003 Quoted:
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Are you at least not repulsive looking, have your shit together, and can carry on a conversation with a little humor? If so, get off the computer and get out there in the real world and talk to women. You're competing against metrosexuals who pluck their eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. Unless you wear skinny jeans... No ones ever called me a metro before. Ive done both and couldnt be happier http://www.kifaruforums.net/attachment.php?attachmentid=19617&stc=1&d=1433807003 Let me be the first. METRO 
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No ones ever called me a metro before. Ive done both and couldnt be happier http://www.kifaruforums.net/attachment.php?attachmentid=19617&stc=1&d=1433807003 Quoted:
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Are you at least not repulsive looking, have your shit together, and can carry on a conversation with a little humor? If so, get off the computer and get out there in the real world and talk to women. You're competing against metrosexuals who pluck their eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. Unless you wear skinny jeans... No ones ever called me a metro before. Ive done both and couldnt be happier http://www.kifaruforums.net/attachment.php?attachmentid=19617&stc=1&d=1433807003 Perhaps I worded that improperly. The "guys" he'd be competing against that are wandering the streets are generally devolving away from manhood. If you're a man, in a way that a woman would possibly remember her father in comparison to the little boys that seem to be running around everywhere trying to date these women nowadays, you have a leg up on them. So get out in the real world and work them, rather than try to write a catchy online resume. |
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Baseball bat chick is a maybe, just make sure you use a burner phone, an alias, and stick to a rental car or Uber if taking her anywhere. And by anywhere, I mean nowhere near your house or place of employment.
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Perhaps I worded that improperly. The "guys" he'd be competing against that are wandering the streets are generally devolving away from manhood. If you're a man, in a way that a woman would possibly remember her father in comparison to the little boys that seem to be running around everywhere trying to date these women nowadays, you have a leg up on them. So get out in the real world and work them, rather than try to write a catchy online resume. Quoted:
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Are you at least not repulsive looking, have your shit together, and can carry on a conversation with a little humor? If so, get off the computer and get out there in the real world and talk to women. You're competing against metrosexuals who pluck their eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. Unless you wear skinny jeans... No ones ever called me a metro before. Ive done both and couldnt be happier http://www.kifaruforums.net/attachment.php?attachmentid=19617&stc=1&d=1433807003 Perhaps I worded that improperly. The "guys" he'd be competing against that are wandering the streets are generally devolving away from manhood. If you're a man, in a way that a woman would possibly remember her father in comparison to the little boys that seem to be running around everywhere trying to date these women nowadays, you have a leg up on them. So get out in the real world and work them, rather than try to write a catchy online resume. Why? Ive done the bar scene, hell Im a bouncer. Ive tried the gym, gun stores, i crashed weddings, and dated women that bought lobsters from me off my boat and had ALOT of fun but Id saythat online dating was a great way to meet my wife I never would have meet otherwise (we were 2 hours apart in different states). |
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I can't say anything nice about eharmony, main comment would be "ripoff". Eharmony, not long after I registered for one of their "free weekends" you figure out that's a scam, no photos till you pay them! And if you write someone, you can't get a reply before your free period runs out, however I learned a long time ago not to write someone that didn't have a photo, there's always a reason why they don't have a photo. Some gals will post fake photos, but you can usually tell, too good to be true. So the next day they sent me an offer, a fairly reasonable price for 90 days, OK, this has possibilities I'll give it a try. Right up front I tell them NO AUTOMATIC RENEWAL, under no circumstances renew this unless I tell you to. About a week before its due to run out I get a notification that they renewed it for another 90 days at a very expensive price! They had changed it to auto renew without my consent, apparently that's their normal way of doing business, LOTS OF COMPLAINTS about that. Not only did they change it, they said they couldn't cancel it and I wouldn't get my money back, I fired back an email that if they didn't immediately give me credit I would dispute the charge and they wouldn't get their money anyway, so they did give in and do it, I read several complaints where people didn't seem to know you could get the credit card people involved and had a lot more trouble than I did. Matches: OK, I don't live in a large city, but I'm about 40 miles out of a major metro, I told them I would be willing to travel up to 60 miles MAXIMUM, and for ages, my age and up to 10 years younger. Well, they ignored all of that, right off they were sending me "matches" up to 10 years older and up to 100 miles away. The quality of the matches was poor, I asked for conservative to middle of the road, I asked for white, Hispanic, Asian or native American, thin, athletic or medium build, they sent me black women, liberals, Xtra large, etc, sorry, not interested. Almost nobody they "matched" me to was anything near what I asked for, even at the start. As time went on the matches got worse and worse, sending me women up to 20 or so years older and 1,000 miles away! I came away from Eharmony with a very bad taste in my mouth, it never occurred to me to Google for complaints before I joined, but I did so afterwards and found a lot of the same complaints. Google Eharmony complaints before you sign up with them. At another time I had joined Match.com and was a member for about 6 months, the prices were a lot more reasonable, I did meet a few women through them, I found one really nice gal and not long after I met her I had a major health problem that left me unable to work for about a year, we had just gone out one time and here this nice guy got sick, lost his job and too many things for a new girlfriend to stick around, darn shame, she was really nice, I liked he a lot. |
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Are you at least not repulsive looking, have your shit together, and can carry on a conversation with a little humor? If so, get off the computer and get out there in the real world and talk to women. You're competing against metrosexuals who pluck their eyebrows and wear skinny jeans. Unless you wear skinny jeans... Try living in a true rural area. Not the same as living in a city...... |