Posted: 2/3/2003 9:29:44 AM EDT
| Have any of your significant others had it done? If so were there any problems, physical, mental, good, bad ect.? |
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#1 Girlfriend wanted boob job, I said I would rather she not. She dumped me, turned into a slut, screwed my exbestfriend and quit her job. She started stripping for a living, I must say she made a good living. All in the course of 8 months. She is on her 2nd husband. #2 Girlfriend we had been dating for a couple of weeks and we were still just getting to "know" each other. Her breasts felt like fake boobs and I asked her how long she had had them one morning after a touching session. She freaked out and said I was rude and how dare I blah blah. I said I was sorry if I offended her and she said "get out". So I did, she called acouple of days later and said she was sorry and her outburst was linked to her LOW self esteem. I said BYE BYE. That is my experince with fake boobs first hand so to speak. I myself think it is silly. |
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I suggest you not get them. Oh, wait I mis-read your post. If it is for her self esteem then you could do something about and make a much better relationship. If she is determined to do it then you should make an effort to find out what her thinking is that has prompted her decision. But to answer you question some I know didn't like it others thought it was great. No one I know destroyed a relation over it. |
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My wife has always admired other women's breasts and wants larger ones herself (for herself, I don't care). However, she states that she won't get surgery done because she doesn't want to lose the feeling in her nipples... something about the nerves being cut during the surgery. She says that she'll try Bloussant (or something like that that increases size "naturarlly") after we have one more baby, but she doesn't want to chance messing up the nursing. Anyways, just my 2cents. |
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Every time a woman I know gets a boob job, her relationship with her husband/boyfriend goes downhill fast. All kinds of issues. Suddenly other men are much more interested in her, suddenly she feels 'hotter' than she was before. The real important stuff, like the actual relationship goes down the toilet. Seen it several times. All the women in question obviously had some deep-seated issues that they thought new boobs could cure. I would question the motivation of someone who wants a boob job. Self-esteem? New boobs won't grant that on anyone. |
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Mann, Fake tities suck! Major turnoff. As long as she's got boobs I'm happy. Don't really matter 'boudt the size. I'm more into big asses and legs myself. My girl does'nt have super big boobs but they're "palmable" so I'm happy. Her big ole' trunk makes up for it![:D] edited to add: and no they're not mosquito bite titties either! |
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: They look fine, but not nearly as soft. Aviator Correct. Also, the scars are difficult to hide. They can install them through the belly button if you want to avoid scars that show Just an observation (I'm not a Doctor and I don't want to play one here), but I think they can install them through the brain cavity also--after removing the brain. [whacko] |
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: They look fine, but not nearly as soft. Aviator Correct. Also, the scars are difficult to hide. They can install them through the belly button if you want to avoid scars that show Just an observation (I'm not a Doctor and I don't want to play one here), but I think they can install them through the brain cavity also--after removing the brain. [whacko] I think that is the only way to install, based upon those women I have met with them. |
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My sister in law had a flat chest. And as a result, low self esteem. (her words, not mine) She wanted to get a augmentation since she was 18. At 25, she did. Then she started wearing all those tight fitting sweaters, low cut tops and bikinis to show off her "investment". Within a year, she had a stroke. A blood clot (doctor presumed it was from the implant process) let loose and put her in the hospital. While in the hospital, it was noticed she had a hole between two of the chambers in her heart. Requiring open heart surgery. Now she has a scar right between her boobs. She doesn't wear low cut shirts anymore, and her bikinis are more conservative now. I often wonder if it is bitter irony or poetic justice. To her, everything is about appearance. She is a very shallow person. And a bit#h to begin with. All that money to improve her looks, and she can't show them off. As for the question if I like them (on other womenz)? Like Sir Mixalot says...."Silicone parts are made for toys"... that's fine with me. They are fun to play with. Kinda firm, but still soft enough to titty-fuck. (is that out of line?) |
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Quoted: This makes me think ... Can you buy the actual implants? I think it would be nice to have one - kind of like a stress ball to squeeze when I'm thinking. [:D] A friend of mine let me check out one of her bra inserts...which are more or less the same. She is a gold star member of the IBTC & has thought seriously about getting augmentation. After about 15 minutes of me squishing/poking it she was "quit screwing around & give me back my tit!" She won't listen to me re surgery... FrankenTits are a major turnoff as far as I'm concerned. Much rather be with a gal with mosquito bite A cups than some silicon-sister [:X*] I will add the I agree with MisterGreens. If done for reconstruction after surgery then I have no problem....done because her assclown boyfriend/husband likes 'biguns'=bad. |
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my experience- my ex-fiance was 5'5", but her figure was so beautifully proportioned that everyone thought she was 5'8. perfect B cup for her frame. that was then. for reasons that i won't go into, i left her. 2 years later, we got back together, and the first time i saw her, i thought she had shrunk. having photographed topless dancers for over 10 years, i know what a good augmentation looks like, and hers was the best i have ever seen. (navel process) the problem was that she has a small frame, and had gone from B to full D. this made her body look compressed. like 5'2" compressed. i think my best friend summed it up well when he said "you know, i used to look at amy and think she was all-around gorgeous. now, i look at her and all i think is 'nice rack.'" now, don't get me wrong. she loved them. hell, in a way, i loved them. she WAS more confident, but there were some problems. for example, amy is right handed. this meant that when she was doing her post-procedure massage, she focussed more on her left breast than her right. the practical outcome of this was that her right implant never 'dropped'. it looked normal, but stayed far too firm. and there were the usual issues. based on her experience, and all of my friends who have had implants, here are a few things to think about: a woman usually gains around 10-15 pounds of body fat as the body adjusts. she will normally be VERY moody for about 2-3 weeks afterward. this is biochemical, and not a problem if you and she realize what is happening. DON'T GO OVERSIZE! this can cause back problems, and can actually detract from her overall figure. (see above) massage evenly. (see above) navel is the way to go. trust me. or, if not me, trust my friend sean who ran 'the yellow rose' in austin for a few years. don't go cheap. some places in dallas are offering the procedure for $3,000. most of those feel like baseballs. you get what you pay for. i don't want to make it sound all bad. if a woman thinks that implants will make her more confident, they probably will. but make sure that this is what she REALLY wants. one more thing. often, attractive women think that their attractiveness is its own entity, and when guys are attracted to 'it', the guys are not really attracted to her. be forewarned that implants will only aggrivate this problem. hope this helps a little. |
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My wife had hers done 20 years ago and never had a problem. I have provided anesthesia for these types of cases (some 500+ cases). Its a very safe proceedure with very little side effects. They can be inserted through a nipple incision, at the base of the breast, or through a small incision in the arm pit(the prefered method) You do not normally lose feeling in your nipples. I gave the anesthesia for many of the exotic dancers in the Va. Beach area. Most of the women who have them are very happy with the results. There was a big stink a few years ago concerning auto Immune disease secondary to the silicon used in the fake breast. This was BS, and was proven not to be a cause of auto immune disease, just another suie to get rich scheme. Usually when you see a real skinney women with big boobs you can bet they're fake. later DA |
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As long as they're done right they look pretty good but they look funny when the girl is laying on her back. They don't feel right either when you're grabbing a handful. I can appreciate why a woman who has had a mastectomy or has otherwise been disfigured whould want one, but I wouldn't otherwise encourage anyone to have it done. Too many [url=http://www.siliconeholocaust.org/]nasty[/url] side effects are possible. [b]Warning:[/b] the page that link directs you to is safe, but the photos page it links to does contain some disturbing pictures. You can also go to the FDA page [url=http://www.fda.gov/cdrh/breastimplants/]here[/url]. |
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Man, IMHO... They suck. They look great atheistically if the doctor did a good job and the girl picked the right size for her frame. Otherwise, they feel like crap. I've dated 3 women with implants... I was always displeased. They may look great, but unless they had a great doc and spend some real $$$$, they are crap. My opinion. |
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Marraige is very healthy, She is beautiful the way she is to me. She says she has allways wished to be a little bigger and a little firmer. Her idea not mine. I Love her no matter. I've allways been happy with hers, and thought they were great! She just wants to go from a b cup to a full c cup. She's 5' 6" and nice build. That will make them a little bigger and for lack of a better word "perky" which is what she wants. Doc says best way is through the nipple, saline filled, under the pec muscle, which will leave no scar, plenty of breast material on top for natural feel, and safer than through the belly button or arm pit, and no noticable scar. Thanks for all the responses. More if you got them. As for pic.s mabey I'll post a link to before and afters. Just as a follow up. Thanks Kev |
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I dated a stripper at Dirty Dans in San Diego, she was the little sister of a friend of mine. She was a petitte 5'4" 105 lb girl with the nicest set of breasts known to man. She was not a slut or a nut case, she was a 23 year old who was stripping to make tuition and spending money for college. Her titties were as fake as Santa Clause. |
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Quoted: I dated a stripper at Dirty Dans in San Diego, she was the little sister of a friend of mine. She was a petitte 5'4" 105 lb girl with the nicest set of breasts known to man. She was not a slut or a nut case, she was a 23 year old who was stripping to make tuition and spending money for college. Her titties were as fake as Santa Clause. WHAT? [:O] Santa is FAKE?!!!?? [>Q][>Q][>Q][>Q][>Q] Say it ain't so! |
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Quoted: A friend of mine let me check out one of her bra inserts...which are more or less the same. She is a gold star member of the IBTC & has thought seriously about getting augmentation. After about 15 minutes of me squishing/poking it she was "quit screwing around & give me back my tit!" She won't listen to me re surgery... FrankenTits are a major turnoff as far as I'm concerned. Much rather be with a gal with mosquito bite A cups than some silicon-sister [:X*] I will add the I agree with MisterGreens. If done for reconstruction after surgery then I have no problem....done because her assclown boyfriend/husband likes 'biguns'=bad. Amen!! I hate faker tats. |
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I'm more of an ass and leg man anyway. I like my breasts natural and unless she is totally flat chested, size is not important to me. Most fakes look fake. Nothing more sexy than what God gave a woman. Ditto on all the stories about implants messing up relationships. My friends wife was an attractive but flat chested woman who got implants when her friend did. Her husband told her he would rather not have her get them and she blew him off and got a title loan on "their" truck to pay for them. The relationship went rapidly downhill from that point and they were divorced within a year. |
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Quoted: #2 Girlfriend we had been dating for a couple of weeks and we were still just getting to "know" each other. Her breasts felt like fake boobs and I asked her how long she had had them one morning after a touching session. She freaked out and said I was rude and how dare I blah blah. I said I was sorry if I offended her and she said "get out". So I did, she called acouple of days later and said she was sorry and her outburst was linked to her LOW self esteem. I said BYE BYE. LMAO!~ The same thing happened to me! Chick came over to my place, we got hot and heavy...making out up agaist the wall, hands on boobies. I was shocked by how "firm" they were. She was a thin black girl and they were way too firm. (no crying game, I checked that first) I asked her if they were implants and she got all pissed off. I said see-ya and we never spoke again. I took that as a yes... Mabey it was the same chick, Hampton roads is a small town. |