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3/19/2014 12:09:10 PM EDT
So it's been a rough day, one of my aunt's whom I hardly see anymore had her husband pass away last night. I use to be real close to them, then I moved got married, and for the last several years rarely saw them. I get a call stating that his guns were left to me, I know that he knew I enjoyed guns but thats only because my mother was always telling him what I bought.  So my mother starts reading the list of guns out to me and it starts with 1861 Enfield .577 cal, Winchester Matching #M1 Garand, Inland M1 Carbine matching #s, Colt 1917 Da 45 revolver, Colt Huntsman 22 cal, 1916 Colt 1911, FN Browning 1910 32ACP, 52-70 Sharps Carbine, and some various Taurus Handguns. As you can see there is some great guns in this collection, and more importantly History. My issue is my aunt is a wonderful woman, has some slight mental disability, and while he left her some money it wasn't a ton unless there is a life insurance policy my mother hasn't found "executer of his will". I am thinking maybe I should get the guns, check there conditions sell them and give her the money. I will def keep one gun "don't know which one" but I just have a conflicted feeling like I am taking advantage of family member whom means something to me. Now if this was some other family members it would be F them, heck yeah.
3/19/2014 12:11:22 PM EDT
[#1]
They are yours. Give her some money if you want.
3/19/2014 12:12:03 PM EDT
[#2]
He left them to you not your aunt, I don't see that as you taking advantage of her. I can assume he wanted then to go to someone who would appreciate and enjoy them as much as he did instead of just selling them.

If you wanted to keep those with sentimental value and sell the rest so you can give her some money that is your right but it isn't an obligation.
3/19/2014 12:13:33 PM EDT
[#3]
Your uncle left you a wonderful gift. Enjoy them for a few months and decide then how you can best help your aunt.
If that means selling most of them so be it. With a little time you will have a clear head for what is the right thing to do.
3/19/2014 12:14:56 PM EDT
[#4]
See how the estate shakes out, how well your Aunt is going to be provided for, and then follow your conscience. My condolences for your family's loss.
3/19/2014 12:16:44 PM EDT
[#5]
Keep something that means something to you and that you can use. Do what you will with the rest.



3/19/2014 12:18:03 PM EDT
[#6]
He wanted you to have them.
3/19/2014 12:18:58 PM EDT
[#7]
If you are able, maybe there is something you can do for her, without selling the guns.

Pay her property taxes this year?
Start paying her electric bill every month?
Pay for / do some needed home improvements?
Replace her car?

Help an old lady out. Win/Win
3/19/2014 12:21:02 PM EDT
[#8]
Very personal choice. No right or wrong.
3/19/2014 12:23:18 PM EDT
[#9]

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If you are able, maybe there is something you can do for her, without selling the guns.



Pay her property taxes this year?

Start paying her electric bill every month?

Pay for / do some needed home improvements?

Replace her car?



Help an old lady out. Win/Win
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This.



 
3/19/2014 12:29:24 PM EDT
[#10]
Thank goodness he left them to you. It sounds like you are ready and willing to do the right thing.

3/19/2014 12:31:32 PM EDT
[#11]
They are left to you so keep them.  If you feel the need to help her then by all means help her out in some way, but he wanted you to have those guns, so keep them.
3/19/2014 12:33:37 PM EDT
[#12]
It doesn't seem like you are doing wrong accepting guns that were left to you. If you do decide to sell some of them you could give her the money. You don't have to make a snap decision though. For now I would graciously accept them.
3/19/2014 12:36:06 PM EDT
[#13]
He left them to you because he didn't want them to be sold. If he wanted them covered into cash and left to his wife, that's what he would have done with them. He wanted someone he loved to continue to appreciate them. You gotta keep them.
3/19/2014 12:37:10 PM EDT
[#14]
You're a good man, OP.
3/19/2014 12:40:49 PM EDT
[#15]
Sorry about your aunt's husband.

This has nothing to do with your aunt. The guns are yours.

Helping the aunt out is a separate and distinct issue.
3/19/2014 1:36:25 PM EDT
[#16]
I'm of a mindset that he left you the firearms... therefore you have the right to do with them what you want.


And if what you want to do is keep some you like and sell the rest to help provide for his widow, it is your right to do so.