[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Eject? (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 7/8/2013 8:01:33 PM EDT
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So the new "Girlfriend" does not like my EX texting me about what dog food I feed our dog as he is not eating over there. Before that she did not like me texting my EX as to how good OUR Son looked in the parade. Before that She did not like me texting my EX on the divorce settlement. Good God Almighty We have a son together. And I can't stand my EX wife. But will communicate with her on a professional level. |
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So the new "Girlfriend" does not like my EX texting me about what dog food I feed our dog as he is not eating over there. Before that she did not like me texting my EX as to how good OUR Son looked in the parade. Before that She did not like me texting my EX on the divorce settlement. Good God Almighty We have a son together. And I can't stand my EX wife. But will communicate with her on a professional level. If you have to ask, then pull the cord! How long have you been dating this chick? Sounds like she may have a jealous problem. How old is she? EJECT! |
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Quoted: Quoted: So the new "Girlfriend" does not like my EX texting me about what dog food I feed our dog as he is not eating over there. Before that she did not like me texting my EX as to how good OUR Son looked in the parade. Before that She did not like me texting my EX on the divorce settlement. Good God Almighty We have a son together. And I can't stand my EX wife. But will communicate with her on a professional level. If you have to ask, then pull the cord! How long have you been dating this chick? 4 months Sounds like she may have a jealous problem. How old is she? 48 EJECT! Agreed |
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Don't text, it's suspicious. Call and speak in front of the GF so she knows what's going on. Texting is not "professional". My ex wife is known to "enhance" what actually transpired in a conversation, and is as gossipy as an old spinster. I have chosen to deal with that via text and e-mail as much as possible to enhance the signal to noise ratio, so to speak. At the very least, it is written down so it can be shown if there are any questions about what was discussed. Also, it gives me pause to write down only what needs to be communicated and not call her all the things that are floating around right at the tip of my tongue. That woman knows how to push buttons! It may not be professional, but it works for me in my situation. At least the OP can show his GF what was written so he can remain above-board with her IRT communications with the EX. How the GF reacts to this is completely on her. |
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Yeah sounds like she has jealousy issues. Absurd ones. If shes your ex there is a reason for that. The new one shouldn't feel threatened. The fact you two have a kid means that you guys will have to communicate on some level for many years to come.
I'd sit her down, ask her what her fears are and then try to dispel them. If she can't cope with civil interaction with your ex, it may be time to eject. |
| At first I was gonna say she should eject, because an ex is supposed to be an ex, i.e. dead to you.. Then reading is fundamental and I saw the kid stuff, so, yeah.. I'd probably eject. You got a kid with the ex, that's not gonna change, and communicating with her will be unavoidable while the kid grows. |
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http://i1185.photobucket.com/albums/z341/GrinPhotoDump/Gifs%20and%20Images/su27airshowukrainelw7.gif My gosh, did he live? What about the people on the ground? |
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http://i1185.photobucket.com/albums/z341/GrinPhotoDump/Gifs%20and%20Images/su27airshowukrainelw7.gif My gosh, did he live? What about the people on the ground? Both crew got out and survived and are now in prison, about 86 people on the ground in the crowd, men women and children were killed and by the looks of the pics of the aftermath they were unrecognizable not completely anatomically attached. |
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http://i1185.photobucket.com/albums/z341/GrinPhotoDump/Gifs%20and%20Images/su27airshowukrainelw7.gif My gosh, did he live? What about the people on the ground? Both pilots punched out and survived. Pilot got 14 years in prison while co-pilot got 8. Around 80ish people killed with hundreds more injured. There's a bunch of videos on the crash, be warned, there are body parts all over the place. |
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I was going to post some stuff about explaining to the GF about the fact that with that kid in your life there will be communication with the EX, things are better for the kid when the parents are not at each others throat. I would assume that you would of all ready done that so eject. |
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She sounds insecure. How old is she and how long have you been together? She needs to understand you have a son and need to keep the lines of communication open with your ex. If this relationship has potential and you care for her, like someone else said, talk to your ex rather than texting as it seems secretive. If you do this and she still can't handle it, time to move on.
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