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6/12/2013 9:29:08 AM EDT
Whatever happened to the sanctity of the handshake?

It used to mean something...respect, trust, an unspoken promise.
It used to be used to seal a deal between two adults before lawyers and signatures were needed.

Nowaday it means nothing at all. Almost like a formality when you meet someone. Or worse yet, it has evolved to a freaking half hug between two males. I hate HUGS! Esp from another guy. That is just gay...gay gay gay gay.....GAY!

6/12/2013 9:33:20 AM EDT
[#1]
Guys my age (I'm 21) are the worst.  They try these weird handshakes, so I just wolf stare them until they give me a traditional handshake.
6/12/2013 9:37:54 AM EDT
[#2]
If they look you in the eye and aren't limp handed you are dealing with a man. Handshakes are how you get the measure of another man.

I'm also open to the brohoof but that is less common outside of the brony community.
6/12/2013 9:39:04 AM EDT
[#3]
Quoted:
Whatever happened to the sanctity of the handshake?

It used to mean something...respect, trust, an unspoken promise.
It used to be used to seal a deal between two adults before lawyers and signatures were needed.

Nowaday it means nothing at all. Almost like a formality when you meet someone. Or worse yet, it has evolved to a freaking half hug between two males. I hate HUGS! Esp from another guy. That is just gay...gay gay gay gay.....GAY!



0bama happened
6/12/2013 9:39:33 AM EDT
[#4]
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.
6/12/2013 9:39:52 AM EDT
[#5]
Many folks' word means nothing. I experience this on a regular basis on EE here and several other places. Even when you call people out on their lack of integrity they shrug it off or get all pissy.
6/12/2013 9:41:21 AM EDT
[#6]


It has been said that contracts are designed for lawyers to break, but a handshake is The Word of God.
6/12/2013 9:41:58 AM EDT
[#7]
I blame lawyers and boomers. And boomer lawyers.
6/12/2013 9:42:42 AM EDT
[#8]
6/12/2013 9:46:44 AM EDT
[#9]



Quoted:


Guys my age (I'm 21) are the worst.  They try these weird handshakes, so I just wolf stare them until they give me a traditional handshake.


Hard-O

 



Wolfstare dude? Really?






6/12/2013 9:47:47 AM EDT
[#10]
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


fucking 13ers
6/12/2013 9:48:41 AM EDT
[#11]
When my wife was a RA in college she introduced me to the guys in her dorm.  All but one of them had a dead fish handshake.  Just sad.
6/12/2013 9:49:21 AM EDT
[#12]



Quoted:


Many folks' word means nothing. I experience this on a regular basis on EE here and several other places. Even when you call people out on their lack of integrity they shrug it off or get all pissy.


This. Use to be a person was only as good as their word, now .....



 
6/12/2013 9:49:27 AM EDT
[#13]
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


No..really? I mean...REALLY???
6/12/2013 9:50:58 AM EDT
[#14]
don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers


6/12/2013 9:50:59 AM EDT
[#15]
+1 for a full of fuck post.



DP




Quoted:



Quoted:

I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.



yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.



Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.




fucking 13ers






 
6/12/2013 9:52:37 AM EDT
[#16]



Quoted:


I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.



yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.



Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


This post really makes the "NERD" part of your username pop. Makes sense now.

 
6/12/2013 9:54:10 AM EDT
[#17]
Quoted:

Quoted:
Guys my age (I'm 21) are the worst.  They try these weird handshakes, so I just wolf stare them until they give me a traditional handshake.

Hard-O  

Wolfstare dude? Really?




Really.  If the stare doesn't work, I blade at 45 and piss on them to assert my dominance.  Wanna see?
6/12/2013 9:54:17 AM EDT
[#18]



Quoted:


I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.



yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.



Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


How do you deal with door handles, gas pumps, and money? I`ve never heard of handshake injuries. Does watching the Josie Wales scene with Ten Bears give you fits?

 
6/12/2013 9:54:44 AM EDT
[#19]
"Alpha" Bullshit killed the handshake.

The finger shake. The hand crusher. The wrist twister. etc..

Also casual Friday. There is less formality in the world.
6/12/2013 9:55:16 AM EDT
[#20]
Quoted:

Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.

This post really makes the "NERD" part of your username pop. Makes sense now.  


6/12/2013 9:56:27 AM EDT
[#21]
I like a nice firm handshake, and I hug my best friend of 15 years, and my father...guess I'm gay.
6/12/2013 9:56:42 AM EDT
[#22]



Quoted:



Quoted:




Quoted:

Guys my age (I'm 21) are the worst.  They try these weird handshakes, so I just wolf stare them until they give me a traditional handshake.


Hard-O  



Wolfstare dude? Really?










Really.  If the stare doesn't work, I blade at 45 and piss on them to assert my dominance.  Wanna see?


Nah, I'm good. I'd imagine y'all get pretty good at pissin on boys down in C.S.
6/12/2013 9:57:25 AM EDT
[#23]
Quoted:

Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.

How do you deal with door handles, gas pumps, and money? I`ve never heard of handshake injuries. Does watching the Josie Wales scene with Ten Bears give you fits?  


I have no problems dealing with any of those. I'm not a germ phobic person. I do however have clients who have injuries done to their hands from handshakes and "hand squeezing" at the local high school. In the past I've also had some asshole squeeze my hand overly hard. I did resist the urge to punch him in the face during the assault though. (No, I didn't press charges, but I was out of work for a week from a join injury completely unpaid)

6/12/2013 9:57:35 AM EDT
[#24]
Quoted:
If they look you in the eye and aren't limp handed you are dealing with a man. Handshakes are how you get the measure of another man.

I'm also open to the brohoof but that is less common outside of the brony community.





6/12/2013 9:58:43 AM EDT
[#25]
Quoted:
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


fucking 13ers


6/12/2013 9:59:28 AM EDT
[#26]
Quoted:
Whatever happened to the sanctity of the handshake?

It used to mean something...respect, trust, an unspoken promise.
It used to be used to seal a deal between two adults before lawyers and signatures were needed.

Nowaday it means nothing at all. Almost like a formality when you meet someone. Or worse yet, it has evolved to a freaking half hug between two males. I hate HUGS! Esp from another guy. That is just gay...gay gay gay gay.....GAY!



What ever you do, don't become a biker!
6/12/2013 10:00:20 AM EDT
[#27]
along the same lines, what ever happened to eye contact when discussing something?  I talk to quite  a few folks for my work, and I've noticed more and more that younger generations talk to me while staring off in another direction, down at the ground, or while ooogling their smartphone.  I was always taught when someone was speaking to you, you look them in the eye.
6/12/2013 10:00:52 AM EDT
[#28]
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I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


fucking 13ers




I grew up being taught to give a nice firm handshake. The problem is when people abuse it and cause pain or injury. I've already learned my lesson from personal experience as well as though some of my clients now. Including a big construction worker who found out someone else can squeeze his hand harder. He didn't work for quite some time.
6/12/2013 10:02:03 AM EDT
[#29]
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


Yeah..... About that?
6/12/2013 10:02:53 AM EDT
[#30]
Quoted:
Quoted:

Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.

How do you deal with door handles, gas pumps, and money? I`ve never heard of handshake injuries. Does watching the Josie Wales scene with Ten Bears give you fits?  


I have no problems dealing with any of those. I'm not a germ phobic person. I do however have clients who have injuries done to their hands from handshakes and "hand squeezing" at the local high school. In the past I've also had some asshole squeeze my hand overly hard. I did resist the urge to punch him in the face during the assault though. (No, I didn't press charges, but I was out of work for a week from a join injury completely unpaid)



Here, I got something for you.

6/12/2013 10:03:32 AM EDT
[#31]



Quoted:



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Quoted:

I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.



yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.



Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


This post really makes the "NERD" part of your username pop. Makes sense now.  







Graphic design?



I can actually understand the fear of injuring your hands if your job revolves around it. My cousin wrecked his motorcycle and broke his hand. Couldn't design for about a month and a half.




But I've never heard of someone being injured during a handshake. That's interesting.





 
6/12/2013 10:04:05 AM EDT
[#32]
Quoted:
Whatever happened to the sanctity of the handshake?

It used to mean something...respect, trust, an unspoken promise.
It used to be used to seal a deal between two adults before lawyers and signatures were needed.

Nowaday it means nothing at all. Almost like a formality when you meet someone. Or worse yet, it has evolved to a freaking half hug between two males. I hate HUGS! Esp from another guy. That is just gay...gay gay gay gay.....GAY!



do you get an erection when men hug you?

If so, it might be gay.
6/12/2013 10:04:23 AM EDT
[#33]
Quoted:

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I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.

This post really makes the "NERD" part of your username pop. Makes sense now.  



Graphic design?

I can actually understand the fear of injuring your hands if your job revolves around it. My cousin wrecked his motorcycle and broke his hand. Couldn't design for about a month and a half.

But I've never heard of someone being injured during a handshake. That's interesting.

 


Clinical Massage Therapist
6/12/2013 10:06:43 AM EDT
[#34]
Handshake = hand sanitizer  ASAP.
6/12/2013 10:08:08 AM EDT
[#35]
Quoted:
Whatever happened to the sanctity of the handshake?

It used to mean something...respect, trust, an unspoken promise.
It used to be used to seal a deal between two adults before lawyers and signatures were needed.

Nowaday it means nothing at all. Almost like a formality when you meet someone. Or worse yet, it has evolved to a freaking half hug between two males. I hate HUGS! Esp from another guy. That is just gay...gay gay gay gay.....GAY!



Couple weeks ago a guy I hadn't seen in quite awhile wanted to do that.  
I told him get the fuck away from me Bill, I don't do the ghetto chest bump handshake.
6/12/2013 10:09:55 AM EDT
[#36]
My handshake is like my penis. The longer you shake it, the firmer it gets.
6/12/2013 10:11:11 AM EDT
[#37]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Whatever happened to the sanctity of the handshake?

It used to mean something...respect, trust, an unspoken promise.
It used to be used to seal a deal between two adults before lawyers and signatures were needed.

Nowaday it means nothing at all. Almost like a formality when you meet someone. Or worse yet, it has evolved to a freaking half hug between two males. I hate HUGS! Esp from another guy. That is just gay...gay gay gay gay.....GAY!



do you get an erection when men hug you?

If so, it might be gay.


My dad hugs me...I'm just not comfortable with someone completely enveloping me. Kinda like my space and given my training/work experience....I like people to be about three steps away. This is all just personal preference though.

Not gonna answer your question....

6/12/2013 10:11:56 AM EDT
[#38]
I shake people's hands who do me something as a favor or just for me.

At home depot, guy cut some wood for me on their saw table.  Shook his hand, he was all surprised and smiled.  Never take a person for granted, you might encounter them again.
6/12/2013 10:13:46 AM EDT
[#39]

But I've never heard of someone being injured during a handshake. That's interesting. - I screwed up the quote

 

Cindy McCain in a sling from handshake

AOTA Handshake safety
6/12/2013 10:14:42 AM EDT
[#40]
I like hugs, gives me the chance to pat down the other guy/gal for weapons. :-)
6/12/2013 10:17:28 AM EDT
[#41]
I knew a guy that would give you a sort of woman's handshake. He was afraid of hurting
you by accident. It was a real concern as he could easily do it. He would bend nails just

to work out his fingers. An intense guy who could turn your hand bones to chips, but he

was a very nice and polite type of guy.
6/12/2013 10:17:39 AM EDT
[#42]
Wasn't the origin of the handshake to check each other for blades in medieval times?
6/12/2013 10:17:52 AM EDT
[#43]
Injured from a handshake? You've gotta be kidding me.
6/12/2013 10:17:55 AM EDT
[#44]
Quoted:
Guys my age (I'm 21) are the worst.  They try these weird handshakes, so I just wolf stare them until they give me a traditional handshake.


I have done the same.
6/12/2013 10:20:04 AM EDT
[#45]
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


Let me guess.  You probably fist-bump, don't you?
6/12/2013 10:21:36 AM EDT
[#46]



Quoted:


I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.



yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.



Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


Dear Lord, the faggotry continues.



 
6/12/2013 10:23:28 AM EDT
[#47]
Quoted:
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

yes, I've turned down handshakes from people as well and pass it off as though I didn't even see their hand there by looking to the side and starting to talk about something. I've mainly done that with people I don't know or simply don't trust.

Physical handshakes pass germs, spread disease, and there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


fucking 13ers


took the words right out of my mouth
6/12/2013 10:26:25 AM EDT
[#48]
A sacred oath also means nothing now.
I.E. : Chairman Maobama took an oath to defend the Constitution.
So much for that.

When I took a similar  oath to join the USAF, I actually took it seriously.





The Ol' Crew Chief
6/12/2013 10:28:37 AM EDT
[#49]



Quoted:


A sacred oath also means nothing now.

I.E. : Chairman Maobama took an oath to defend the Constitution.

So much for that.



When I took a similar  oath to join the USAF, I actually took it seriously.
The Ol' Crew Chief


I still remember when a man's word was his bond.  When a handshake was as good as a contract.



Too rare nowadays.



 
6/12/2013 10:29:02 AM EDT
[#50]
Quoted:
I don't even like doing handshakes so I never initiate them. I don't know where your hands have been, and don't want some asshole hurting one of my fingers or hand which would put me out of work for days. My hands are my life.

there are actually a huge amount of injuries every year from it on a fragile part of the body. It's far past time to end the practice with people you don't trust.


Easy solution to that. If their handshake is too aggressive, just stomp their instep with your high heels!

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