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Posted by Skullworks...
What's your gripe with "American Beauty"?
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-White male gun owner is portrayed as an abusive authority freak parent, negligent husband, closet Nazi, and latent homosexual.
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Ah, whereas I saw an abusive authority freak parent, negligent husband, closet Nazi, and latent homosexual who happened to be a gun owner. The gun owner part is not the most important aspect of who someone is.
I bet there's more to you than just being a gun owner, right?
- Denigrates the nuclear family & extols the virtue of a "gay union." The gay neighbors are the only normal & functional characters in the entire film.
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Because all we saw of the gay neighbors was the part of their life that they shared with people outside of their house. Also, we only get to see two families in the movie. Yes, both are dyfunctional, but in different ways. One has a controlling patriarch, and the other has a controlling matriarch.
The film points more to the fact that there is no such thing as a "normal nuclear family." (More on this later.)
No one is normal. There will always be someone who would label you as a freak if they met you.
- The selling and use of illegal drugs is shown in a positive light.
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No. They show the sale and use of drugs. The Lester character is changing a lot of things in his life, and part of this is reliving his youth, where he apparently used pot. As in regards to positive light - if it wasn't for Lester's drug use he wouldn't end up shot by the neighbor.
-Prevailing message that pursuing the American dream inevitably leads one down the path to greed, loveless relationships, and a general lack of fulfillment.
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I disagree as in regards to the American dream. The wife is pursuing an [b]image of what she thinks is the perfect life[/b]. If the American dream is just an image, then yes you're right. In my mind the pursuit of something that is just an image will result in "a general lack of fulfillment."
To me the American dream is to make the best of who you are, to excel in all that you do. It's not a question of having a color coordinated house with a white picket fence and elevator music playing during dinner, or to portray an image of having a perfect life. That shit is just a glossy surface.
American Beauty, to me, said that image doesn't count unless you are happy. Obviously the wife had the image of perfection, but she wasn't really happy.
The Lested character comes to the conclusion that life should be enjoyed, it's not supposed to be some Calvinistic nightmare. He sees that though his family might appear perfect to the casual observer, it's become disfunctional, and he tries to change this. His wife, on the other hand, only has the image of perfection to cling to, and is not willing to admit that something is wrong (instead she blames everything on Lester once he no longer meets her image of perfection.)
Lester tries to win back his family as it already is loveless and dysfunctional. He wants to change it, he wants [b]them[/b] to be happy again. So in that sense the message is opposite to what you received.