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3/17/2012 2:34:12 PM EDT


Good friend of mine committed suicide last night.
We were just drinking and carrying on 2 weeks ago at another friend's wedding. 2 fucking weeks ago.
He seemed normal, no history of suicidal anything.
Last labor day the whole group of us was in TN partying. He brought us moonshine.

Guy leaves behind 2 kids and a girlfriend, a son and a daughter, 5 and 7 IIRC.

Prayers for the Morgan family, if you are a praying type, would be welcome.

I don't know what to say or do.
3/17/2012 2:35:24 PM EDT
[#1]
Prayers outbound.
3/17/2012 2:35:39 PM EDT
[#2]
Condolences to the family and you.
3/17/2012 2:35:41 PM EDT
[#3]
3/17/2012 2:35:48 PM EDT
[#4]
sorry guy.
3/17/2012 2:38:11 PM EDT
[#5]
My brother did the same about a year ago. Its tough. Make sure to take care of yourself and find someone to talk to if you need to. Prayers for you and the family.



ETA: Be there for the family if you can. You don't need to say or do anything, just be there. Thats what people want, someone there. If they want to talk, talk. You'll know what to do and when to do it.

3/17/2012 2:39:15 PM EDT
[#6]
Condolences
3/17/2012 2:42:22 PM EDT
[#7]
Sorry about your friend.



Lots of stress in life these days.


 
3/17/2012 2:44:21 PM EDT
[#8]
Sorry for your loss.
3/17/2012 2:47:02 PM EDT
[#9]

 
3/17/2012 2:49:09 PM EDT
[#10]
Sorry for your loss
3/17/2012 2:50:02 PM EDT
[#11]
May he RIP.  I will pray for him and especially his kids.
3/17/2012 2:51:41 PM EDT
[#12]
Sorry to hear it.

3/17/2012 2:53:55 PM EDT
[#13]
Often those who are very troubled seem the most composed. He must have been hurting very much. Sorry for your loss and for those who knew him.

In before the shitbags.
3/17/2012 2:57:18 PM EDT
[#14]
3/17/2012 2:58:51 PM EDT
[#15]
I'm sorry for your loss of a friend.
3/17/2012 2:59:26 PM EDT
[#16]
Quoted:


Good friend of mine committed suicide last night.
We were just drinking and carrying on 2 weeks ago at another friend's wedding. 2 fucking weeks ago.
He seemed normal, no history of suicidal anything.
Last labor day the whole group of us was in TN partying. He brought us moonshine.

Guy leaves behind 2 kids and a girlfriend, a son and a daughter, 5 and 7 IIRC.

Prayers for the Morgan family, if you are a praying type, would be welcome.

I don't know what to say or do.


3/17/2012 2:59:55 PM EDT
[#17]
you sometimes just dont know
3/17/2012 3:00:22 PM EDT
[#18]
Man, that is just so sad.  When your own head is your worst enemy it must be the worst feeling in the world.  
 
3/17/2012 4:24:41 PM EDT
[#19]
Thanks all.

Shawn was a good guy, and a gun guy too. Definitely no Obama fan either.
I have fond memories of us doing things we shouldn't be doing, most involving fire or guns.

Shit happens, but I think everybody would accept an accident more than a suicide.

I can't criticize anyone's actions, as I'm not in their shoes, but man, 30 is too young to just check out like this. Especially with young children.

Another friend seems to think it was some anti depressants or other mood altering medications + alcohol most likely.
3/17/2012 4:27:55 PM EDT
[#20]
Been there. Sucks out loud. I might, MIGHT be able to understand if they had some horrible, invariably terminal disease, but no. Both of the friends I knew who did that, did it over a woman.
3/17/2012 4:30:32 PM EDT
[#21]
3/17/2012 4:32:34 PM EDT
[#22]
Sad to hear.  I feel bad for his children.  

3/17/2012 4:33:30 PM EDT
[#23]
Losing a friend this way is a hard thing.  You'll be in my thoughts.

Jane
3/17/2012 4:34:01 PM EDT
[#24]
Prayers on the way.
3/17/2012 4:35:52 PM EDT
[#25]
Prayers outbound

3/17/2012 4:37:49 PM EDT
[#26]
Sorry to hear that.  Try to be there for his wife and kids.  They'll need help dealing with it, and in turn, you helping them will help you deal with it.

Bad news all around.
3/17/2012 4:38:08 PM EDT
[#27]
Condolences.
3/17/2012 4:39:08 PM EDT
[#28]
Prayers sent.  Some people hide it very well.  

My best friend from my teenage years died after he decided not to kill himself and the shotgun went off into his shoulder.  The only thing I'm glad of was the last time I saw him, I told him that he was the best friend I could ever have.
3/17/2012 4:41:51 PM EDT
[#29]
Horrible thing to deal with

But deal with it you must.

No I'm not talking like Yoda on purpose either.
3/17/2012 4:42:00 PM EDT
[#30]
Prayers said for the kids and gf.
3/17/2012 4:42:06 PM EDT
[#31]
Condolences. Praers sent.
3/17/2012 4:43:07 PM EDT
[#32]
Pre-cooked food for the family. Things like a big-ol-lasagana they would just need to heat up. I doubt shopping and cooking are first on her priority list right now.
3/17/2012 4:44:13 PM EDT
[#33]
aw jeez.

Godspeed, Shawn. I hope you find the peace that you weren't able to find in this life.
3/17/2012 4:48:47 PM EDT
[#34]
My best friend in the entire world killed herself a few years ago.


I took it VERY hard.

It does get easier over time though, so keep your head up.

My condolences..
3/17/2012 4:59:02 PM EDT
[#35]
Prayers sent to the family and you.



Six years ago my father lost his job and admitted he was a few thoughts away from committing suicide. Still chokes me up thinking of "what if." I cannot fathom what it would be like to deal with such a tragedy.

Stay strong.
3/17/2012 5:06:39 PM EDT
[#36]
3/17/2012 5:07:04 PM EDT
[#37]
My thoughts are with you and his fam.

Sometimes, you just never know what's going on in someone's head.
3/17/2012 5:13:00 PM EDT
[#38]
I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.
3/17/2012 5:18:43 PM EDT
[#39]
Sorry for your loss.



I wonder how many are caused by anti depressants?  


 
3/17/2012 5:22:17 PM EDT
[#40]
That sucks. Sorry for your loss.
3/17/2012 5:24:38 PM EDT
[#41]
Went through that 1.5 years ago,,  it get better, but still hurts.  Best wishes.
3/17/2012 5:25:56 PM EDT
[#42]
Sorry to hear that
 
3/17/2012 5:26:13 PM EDT
[#43]
This stuff doesnt make sense, my group of friends growing up, yes we split ways. Ive had a few OD and a few end it years later. Im sorrry.
3/17/2012 5:42:05 PM EDT
[#44]
Sorry for your loss OP.

Seems like the folks who will go through with it are the ones who never say a word to anybody.
3/17/2012 5:46:15 PM EDT
[#45]
A very good friend of mine rubbed himself out years ago.  I never picked up that anything was bothering him.  

Left behind 3 daughters and wife.

Guess I'm not meant to understand.


Sorry for you and your friend and his family.

GD