[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Is This Normal? (Female Question) (Page 1 of 3)
Posted: 8/3/2011 12:15:09 PM EDT
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OK here is the deal, i just graduated high school a couple months ago, and one could say i was in the middle of the road popularity wise. ya know i was cool with all the popular kids because i was into sports football, wrestling but never really hung out with any of them.
But here is the question, the girls that normally wouldn't give me the time of day (Stuck up popular ones) now suddenly seem to be interested in me messaging me on Facebook, wanting to hangout. So arfcom i must ask ,is this normal have any of you ever experienced this? |
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Did you give off an "I don't give a fuck attitude," cause girls are attracted to that. Now that you are out of high school maybe they are testing the waters and there isn't the same gossip/social circles that school created they perceive they have to deal with if they get rejected. ETA: Even if a hot girl acts stuck up they are probably still as insecure on the inside as that fat ugly girl. |
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Why do people come to arfcom to ask things like this? Must be a million forums that would offer better advice on something like that. Want to know whether to buy an Eotech or Aimpoint? Colt or BCM? Arfcom. Questions about girls on facebook? Not arfcom. Questions about girls in general? Not Arfcom. 
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High school was 12 years ago.
I did not have facebook. But in general things change after highschool. If you go to college you will meet new people. Some people you did not hang ott with in high school will become your good friends. Life changes, just enjoy it while it lasts. |
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One rule with women, Never try and figure them out you never will.....
Back to your question,They have probably figured out that there not in highschool anymore and the guys they hung out with were/are losers. I Knew alot of "Popular" kids in highschool who didn't amount to shit after graduation. |
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Getting out of high school can be a little bit of a reality check. Things that used to matter don't matter anymore, things that didn't matter before now matter. The older women get the more they realize there aren't many MEN (I mean MEN) out there in the world. Your stock (anyone who can even change a tire's stock) goes up. |
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Getting out of high school can be a little bit of a reality check. Things that used to matter don't matter anymore, things that didn't matter before now matter. A lot of fresh grads suddenly realize they have no real life and no friends any more. Ot is possible that they are just interested in reviving what they lost. |
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They didn't have Facebook when I was in High School.....heck, my state of the art computer was a Commodore Vic-20. Nice! I would love to have one of those, or a 64, for the nostalgia. The rich guys had Apples, and the rest of us had TRS-80's or Commodores. |
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They didn't have Facebook when I was in High School.....heck, my state of the art computer was a SLIDE RULE. Those rotary phones were heavy. Get smashed in the face with one of those and you were pretty sure the relationship was over. Pretty sure, but sometimes she just liked the musical sound it made when the phone contacted your face. Ma Bell could be a real bitch. |
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One rule with women, Never try and figure them out you never will..... Back to your question,They have probably figured out that there not in highschool anymore and the guys they hung out with were/are losers. I Knew alot of "Popular" kids in highschool who didn't amount to shit after graduation. This. Are you employed and/or looking at going to college? |
Thanks guys for all the reply's, Yes i probably do have very much to learn, and i do plan on "hanging out" with as many of them as possible 
As far as i can tell none of them are crazy, penis chopping,gold digging,std incubators. Just girls that got caught up in the popularity game. Oh yea and should i buy the Colt Hbar or 6920? or build my own? |
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Thanks guys for all the reply's, Yes i probably do have very much to learn, and i do plan on "hanging out" with as many of them as possible
As far as i can tell none of them are crazy, penis chopping,gold digging,std incubators. Just girls that got caught up in the popularity game. Oh yea and should i buy the Colt Hbar or 6920? or build my own? A: Get Laid. B: Buy the 6920. |
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But here is the question, the girls that normally wouldn't give me the time of day (Stuck up popular ones) now suddenly seem to be interested in me messaging me on Facebook, wanting to hangout. So arfcom i must ask ,is this normal have any of you ever experienced this? They're setting you up. You're still just as weird & unlikeable as ever. If you go out with them, you'll likely be accosted by some guy named 'Ogre', forcing you to humiliate yourself in public. The best thing you can do at this point is to wait for the next pie-selling contest in your area. That's when you make your move. |
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One rule with women, Never try and figure them out you never will..... Back to your question,They have probably figured out that there not in highschool anymore and the guys they hung out with were/are losers. I Knew alot of "Popular" kids in highschool who didn't amount to shit after graduation. This. Are you employed and/or looking at going to college? Yes i do have a plan for my life and i am employed. |
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You grew up. You don't look like a gawky kid anymore to them.
When I was in high school, the guys I found attractive were mostly seniors. The ones that were filled out, could grow facial hair successfully, had a more mature demeanor. Women are starting to notice you as a man. That's a good thing. Embrace it. Or them. Or both. lol. |
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Asking Arfcomm for female advice is about as stupid as well...asking Arfcomm for female advice. So I'll lay it out easily for you:
No matter how much you try, you'll never understand the female mind, don't try just accept it for what it is. Now for another piece of friendly advice, friend em all and stick your dick in as many of them as you can, but make sure you use a wrapper. |