Roger checking in from Tooele, Utah. New to the forum, and needing to return to Masonry. Simple story. Turned 18, planning to leave for the Navy as soon as school was out. Months before my 18th birthday my Dad and Grandpa convinced me being a Mason would help my path. As such, the first Monday after my 18th birthday my petition was accepted and I was found worthy to begin my path. I passed as an EA early, accepting the work required. Took a bit longer for FC, and a respectable time for being raised as a MM. My Grandpa oversaw that. Sadly, that Lodge in Alma, Kansas has been closed. In 1992, my Dad moved. He took my membership with him and I became a member of the #79 Corinthian Lodge in Burlingame, Kansas for many years. After my 25th year, life pulled me in a few directions that left no time or money for Lodge. And my membership has lapsed.
These past few months have been hell for me. In July I found out my Dad had cancer and little time left. While still a member of that Burligame Lodge, he attended elsewhere after moving away, and continued until attaining the 32nd degree in Scottish Rite. Dad passed 7 Sept. And was laid to final rest the 12ths. The Masonic Rites were performed the evening before at the visitation. Ironically, I live within walking distance of my local Lodge. I sought information about transferring membership 11 years ago, just as they went dark for the summer, and then let it slide. The MOMENT, I heard from my Dad he was ill, I decided I needed to return. And am currently letting the two Lodges communicate on my behalf.
I have forgotten so much of the work. I am ashamed to admit. I had many brothers on the ships I was on, and found help in times I needed it in between. At times I feel like I did waiting for my petition to be approved. Joining this forum, for other reasons, finding this sub forum is as much a sign to me as things my late uncle and now my Late Dad had to say in their final days. I stand here again naked and destitute...