Posted: 4/11/2014 6:16:25 PM EDT
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Good Afternoon Brothers,
Last night I was inducted and have started my journey of Freemasonry. After the ceremony, I was assigned an EA trainer and I have an issue I hope to have clarified. My trainer is retired and has said the only time he cannot impart the lessons is during the afternoon 30min either side 4 o'clock. I work full time 8-5, have 3 children under 4, and currently have additional household duties due to my wife's broken foot, he is aware of my situation. I've suggested meeting early in the morning prior to work from 6 or7 to 8am, but he doesn't get up until 9am, he isn't interested in lunch time meetings (I've offered to buy), or anytime before 430pm (only possible if I take lunch at the end of day) which means he is only available from 5pm on. On top of all of this, he lives 25min away and hasn't responded to ideas of meeting halfway at a restaurant/diner or other mutually beneficial location. Is his lack of availability an attempt to see how determined I am at acquiring knowledge, is it a customary practice to see how far a trainee with go to learn? We are to have a discussion tomorrow regarding scheduling of meetings, if the above results of our previous discussion hold, would it be taken the wrong way if I make a request to the secretary to reassign me to another trainer? My heart is true and my intentions are to learn, I'm wondering if he is trying to shake me out or otherwise is making training more difficult that it already is. Highest Regards, Freefire |
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Ask for a new coach. I don't push new brothers to learn the work. I do expect them to make the effort but I will make myself available as much as possible to help them learn the work.
Is he amenable to talking on the phone? I've done that with a few guys that travel a lot. |
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Congratulations Brother. Your coach should work with you, not against you. Lots of times the lodges will ask the retired guys to mentor because they have a lot of spare time. Apparently this older Brother has to much on his plate. Please forgive him and seek the advice of the Secretary. He should get you a mentor who is able to work when you can. |
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Good news, after meeting in person, he offered to meet in the mornings ~630, additionally he agreed to telephone refreshers when scheduled conflict or when a roadblock encountered. Thank you both for the suggestions and support. good. it's your job to seek him out for education and his job to be as available as possible. i wish phones were an option here, would have made mine much easier to get done. |
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good. it's your job to seek him out for education and his job to be as available as possible. i wish phones were an option here, would have made mine much easier to get done. Quoted:
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Good news, after meeting in person, he offered to meet in the mornings ~630, additionally he agreed to telephone refreshers when scheduled conflict or when a roadblock encountered. Thank you both for the suggestions and support. good. it's your job to seek him out for education and his job to be as available as possible. i wish phones were an option here, would have made mine much easier to get done. You can't do it by phone? Doesn't seem like that would violate an obligation? |
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Good news, after meeting in person, he offered to meet in the mornings ~630, additionally he agreed to telephone refreshers when scheduled conflict or when a roadblock encountered. Thank you both for the suggestions and support. good. it's your job to seek him out for education and his job to be as available as possible. i wish phones were an option here, would have made mine much easier to get done. You can't do it by phone? Doesn't seem like that would violate an obligation? i asked the same thing and was told outright.... phones can be listened in on and there should be considered public. i think a lot of that comes from the days of party lines. face to face, mouth to ear is all we allow here. no cipher books, no written work at all. |
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Great news brothers, after many early mornings and late nights, I'm happy to announce I was raised to the degree of Master Mason last week. My earlier trepidation was unfounded, and though the course of training I realized my trainer was more like my late grandfather and time training reminded me of him.
Its amazing to be part of such a wonderful fraternity bonded by shared experiences and belief. |
