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Piccolo, sadly, this phenomenom is not limited to overseas HAMs. I've got about 1K QSOs on LOTW. Of those, only 289 have confirmed with QSLs. The vast majority of my contacts have been in the States. The same ratio applies to my QRZ account. eQSL is even worse. During our state QSO party, I made over thirty contacts. At least a third of those were on 20 meters. Yet not one of them has confirmed on eQSL. This is preventing me from getting my eWAS for 20 meter phone, BTW. I completely understand where you are coming from and share your frustration.
The ones I like are the guys that tell me they're woking me on 1100 watts. You can betyou will get no confirmation from them whatsoever. They have $99,874.11 for a huge linear amp yer do not have thrity cents for a stamp.
Then there is the other side of the coin. I QSO'd a wonderful southern belle and I paper and eQSL'd her. Then I snooped and found she really had no account there and had a couple of hundred eQSLs waiting. I wondered why until I opened the mailbox abnd got the prettiest little home made QSL card I have ever seen. I looked her up and found out she is quite active in the ham community and old school in that she paper qsls people.
I got Colorado QSO and I knew it was a retired old guy. He was pretty wary and said he had no QSL cards. So I sent him one of mine anyway along with a nice letter and $3 for postage explaining to him that even a note with his call sign and other pertinant data of the QSO would be greatly appreciated.
Two weeks later guess what came? A nice home made QSL card and a thank you note.
There are hams out there with old rig they keep running somehow that are on fixed incomes and on SSB you have to try and listen and think. Is this guy old and can't afford postage, etc? You have to try being sensitive to who you are dealing with. Or at least try.
Still, it is as annoying as hell. It seems the poorer the state the faster they QSL. ME, MI QSL'd me on paper inside of 3-4 days. I happened into a WV net one night and mentioned I could use a QSLfor my WAS project. Two days later about 3 or 4 cards from WV showed up.
Oregon? SOme guy ran on and on about how he'd get one right out to me. HA! Fat chance!
WAS three or four times is what the award ought to read.