I have a KT P-11... I carried it for a year or so before I got my XD-9 Subcompact. The only times I have ever had any problems with light primer strikes were with CCI Blazer and Wolf. Not a ton of problems, mind you, but less than 10 rounds out of maybe 1200+/- rounds.
CCI is known for hard primers, as is Wolf. I want to say I've never had a misfire with Speer Gold Dot (also CCI primers) but I think the GD loads have a more sensitive primer, specifically for this reason in a self defense situation. I dont usually shoot Federal, but I did shoot a box or two, and had no problems. I want to say Federal and CCI might be using the same primers now... as they are both owned by ATK IIRC.
The Wolf I had more problems with than the Blazer. Quite a few second hammer strikes to get them to go bang. I can remember one dud that I "tap, rack, banged" out while plinking one day. I was happy that when it happened I TRBd the dud out without a second thought, then continued shooting without missing a beat--proof that if you practice, you WILL do what you trained to do.
I usually shot Winchester value packs for practice--Never had a light strike. I did have two "duds" that didnt go off, even with multiple trigger pulls.
One of my friends shoots Silver Bear JHP and Brown Bear FMJ (what can I say...hes a cheap ass) and its worked fine for him... for many rounds.
My P-11 was stone cold reliable with Speer 124gr +P GD, Winchester USA JHP, and Federal EFMJ--even FILTHY dirty it worked well. Never had a FTFeed, FTFire, or FTE with any defensive ammo. Trusted my life to it for a while, but the trigger made it a "belly" gun to me. I wanted more accuracy... hence the XD (very happy with it). I think the trigger pull is holding back these little pistols--they are shooters if you practice with them. The only "fluffing and buffing" I did was polishing the feed ramp alittle. Take it out and run some FMJ through it...break it in.
I'm probably going to sell my P-11... but I have a brand new Comp-Tac Pro Undercover kydex holster that probably wont go with it. The belt clip finally gave way when I tried to hard to put my holster on in a hurry in my truck one day--sent it back under warranty to Gregg and got a brand new one back. I had my XD by then, so the holster has only been tried on once or twice. If any of you guys are interested drop me a line, and I'll see what I can work out.
Good luck fellas!
Edited to add a PS: Kel-Tec does not recomend a steady diet of +P loads, but says they will work fine. They also say that +p+ rounds shouldn't be used-- like Win Ranger 127gr +P+. I shot some of the Ranger and it worked fine, but I think it accelerated the wear of the gun, particularly the springs.