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Posted: 11/19/2008 5:09:25 PM EDT
i'd like to hear some opinions from someone else other our friends, so heres the story. i'll start off with i got married @ 18,  divorced @ 24.  after divorce, started traveling all over the place bull riding in rodeos, sportfucking, and living the single life. now @ 32, multiple injuries keep me from competing full time, so i just do a few county fairs and whatnot, figured i was time to settle down, well about a year ago the customer service chick who we do maintenence for got a divorce, and couple months later we started dating. she seemed like a real sweet gal, i told her about my past, all the rodeos, sportfucking, and other crazy shit i've done, to be up front because i felt it was gettin a little serious. well bout a month later, SHTF!!  she's accusing me of fucking everything that walks, every time i go have a beer with the boys i'm fucking someone and have not done anything like that,  not to mention, her dildo ex husband is still in love with her and i have deal with that shit, tellin everyone of her friends he's gonna kick my ass. WTF??? (I could take him)  well i know i broke the law of gettin my pie and paycheck in same place, and should have knew better, but oh well. The one thing is if i eject i'll still have to deal with her @ work. (wont be pretty) am i just whining as some say or do a reason to bitch???      well i may have dug my own grave here  with yall,  but hell let me have it,   eager to see what yall got to say
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:11:40 PM EDT
[#1]
If she doesn't trust you, there really isn't anywhere for the relationship to go but down.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:12:09 PM EDT
[#2]
You know what to do
 


Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:13:37 PM EDT
[#3]
explain to her that you wanted to be honest with her, that is why you told her.  Explain that you are not that guy anymore.  Explain that if she keeps this shit up you are hitting the fucking road.  FIN
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:13:42 PM EDT
[#4]
This one is simple.

She's fucking the Ex and is feeling guilty about it so she's taking it out on you so she wont feel as bad as she does.

Oldest trick in the book.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:16:10 PM EDT
[#5]
Needs moar paragraph and proper sentence structure.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:18:09 PM EDT
[#6]




oooooooohhh new one. havent seen that pic before
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:19:01 PM EDT
[#7]
Responses 3 and 4 seem to be the most plausible.  

Try answer 3, and if it fails, it is because of answer number 4.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:20:50 PM EDT
[#8]
Straightforward, calmly, and in very few words.

Tell her that relationships are built on trust, and without that, you do not feel comfortable or right about continuing a relationship with her.

Sounds like she is very insecure, and prone to a lot of drama.

Do not give her "drama".  Give her integrity.

Just tell her that you're gonna roll on down the road and get out of her hair.

And do not give in.  Because she will try to get back with you.  She's messing with your head, trying to get more commitment out of you.  

Bad ju-ju here.  Drop it, and stay away from it.  Not worth it.

ETA Female opinion here.
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Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:23:48 PM EDT
[#9]
you said it
never get your honey: where you get your money
you are screwed either way
plus she still got it going on with the x

look for work , you can't win............
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:25:47 PM EDT
[#10]
Sounds like the beginning of a wonderful marriage...

Psst... eject...

Do it for the children!
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:26:36 PM EDT
[#11]
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:28:39 PM EDT
[#12]
RUN FOREST RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:29:37 PM EDT
[#13]
Some things are not meant to be told.  You fucked up.  Now, make it clear to her that you were never the type to be unfaithful and that you won't be to her.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:34:14 PM EDT
[#14]
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:42:57 PM EDT
[#15]
ifindthatparagraphsandpunctuationhelpwhentryingtoexpressmythoughtsyoushouldcheckitoutsometime
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:43:39 PM EDT
[#16]
Quoted:
This one is simple.

She's fucking the Ex and is feeling guilty about it so she's taking it out on you so she wont feel as bad as she does.

Oldest trick in the book.


This. She pulled the oll fuck the ex behind the new guys back routine.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:45:05 PM EDT
[#17]
I believe I would give her ex a tune up, just before I told her to keep all the Drama.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:50:27 PM EDT
[#18]
Quoted:
ifindthatparagraphsandpunctuationhelpwhentryingtoexpressmythoughtsyoushouldcheckitoutsometime


Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:50:45 PM EDT
[#19]
Quoted:
i'd like to hear some opinions from someone else other our friends, so heres the story. i'll start off with i got married @ 18,  divorced @ 24.  after divorce, started traveling all over the place bull riding in rodeos, sportfucking, and living the single life. now @ 32, multiple injuries keep me from competing full time, so i just do a few county fairs and whatnot, figured i was time to settle down, well about a year ago the customer service chick who we do maintenence for got a divorce, and couple months later we started dating. she seemed like a real sweet gal, i told her about my past, all the rodeos, sportfucking, and other crazy shit i've done, to be up front because i felt it was gettin a little serious. well bout a month later, SHTF!!  she's accusing me of fucking everything that walks, every time i go have a beer with the boys i'm fucking someone and have not done anything like that,  not to mention, her dildo ex husband is still in love with her and i have deal with that shit, tellin everyone of her friends he's gonna kick my ass. WTF??? (I could take him)  well i know i broke the law of gettin my pie and paycheck in same place, and should have knew better, but oh well. The one thing is if i eject i'll still have to deal with her @ work. (wont be pretty) am i just whining as some say or do a reason to bitch???      well i may have dug my own grave here  with yall,  but hell let me have it,   eager to see what yall got to say


Next time less history.. more mystery..

Eject...
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:53:18 PM EDT
[#20]
Quoted:
explain to her that you wanted to be honest with her, that is why you told her.  Explain that you are not that guy anymore.  Explain that if she keeps this shit up you are hitting the fucking road.  FIN


Yep, time for a no bullshit conversation to end either the problematic situation, or the entire arrangement.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:53:51 PM EDT
[#21]


Quoted:




oooooooohhh new one. havent seen that pic before


My reaction too!  




 
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:56:02 PM EDT
[#22]
EJECT!EJECT!EJECT!
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 5:56:22 PM EDT
[#23]
EJECT!EJECT!EJECT!
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:03:07 PM EDT
[#24]
Actually, that's worth saying twice.




ETA; or six times, as it were...
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:06:08 PM EDT
[#25]
...sportfucking...


Que?  Is there a nation league for this?  Perhaps with a chapter in the Midwest?  Are there divisions? What sort of gear and training will I need to get started?
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:17:05 PM EDT
[#26]
Get out NOW !!
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:18:34 PM EDT
[#27]
damn, some of yall have no mercy in here....one reason i guess i love this place
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:22:54 PM EDT
[#28]




+1. That's all she wrote.



 
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:23:58 PM EDT
[#29]
Quoted:
...sportfucking...


Que?  Is there a nation league for this?  Perhaps with a chapter in the Midwest?  Are there divisions? What sort of gear and training will I need to get started?


no leagues, no training, no rules,   he with the most points wins....only gear needed is condoms.....lots of them    lol
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:26:52 PM EDT
[#30]
Jealousy stems from one projecting their own behavior on someone else.

EJECT EJECT EJECT
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:29:28 PM EDT
[#31]
Quoted:
This one is simple.

She's fucking the Ex and is feeling guilty about it so she's taking it out on you so she wont feel as bad as she does.

Oldest trick in the book.


My first thought too.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:29:51 PM EDT
[#32]
Quoted:




oooooooohhh new one. havent seen that pic before



+1!

Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:30:49 PM EDT
[#33]
Quoted:
EJECT!EJECT!EJECT!



You can say that again!  Oh wait, you already did.  
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:30:54 PM EDT
[#34]
Can someone post the .gif from Tombstone........"Well............bye"
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:36:07 PM EDT
[#35]
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:37:45 PM EDT
[#36]
Go back to sportfucking.
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:40:16 PM EDT
[#37]
SUCKS TO BE YOU.....
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 6:41:54 PM EDT
[#38]
well, for one, you are gay for riding bulls. For 2, SIIHPAPP
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 7:24:55 PM EDT
[#39]
Your first name don't start with an "S," does it?


Link Posted: 11/19/2008 7:27:00 PM EDT
[#40]
Quoted:
Your first name don't start with an "S," does it?




no
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 7:31:22 PM EDT
[#41]
If you have to ask, you already know what you need to do...





Link Posted: 11/19/2008 8:05:14 PM EDT
[#42]
tell her......no knobbers no loyalty
Link Posted: 11/19/2008 8:08:28 PM EDT
[#43]
just kiddin
Ive done it ........twice....it ant worth it
Link Posted: 11/20/2008 4:26:54 AM EDT
[#44]
Quoted:
Quoted:
Your first name don't start with an "S," does it?




no


OK, thought there was a chance I knew you for a sec (the stories wouldn't have matched up, so I would have known it was a BS/fun post then is all).
Link Posted: 11/20/2008 4:32:05 AM EDT
[#45]
Link Posted: 11/20/2008 4:41:00 AM EDT
[#46]
Women are like Democrats... you can tell what they're really doing by what they accuse YOU of doing.
Link Posted: 11/20/2008 4:44:36 AM EDT
[#47]


Cool, a T-33 ejection pic.  I've never seen that one here before.  

And for the OP:

Odd timing.  You tell her your history and a month later she de-compensates.  Something happened, and while it could be the reflexive hive "dirty whore's fucking somebody" answer, it could be something else.  It'd be interesting to know what.

Jane




Link Posted: 11/20/2008 5:12:13 AM EDT
[#48]
Link Posted: 11/20/2008 5:17:02 AM EDT
[#49]
Get your resume ready.
Link Posted: 11/20/2008 5:21:39 AM EDT
[#50]
wow, theres a bunch of new eject pictures on this thread!

Obviously if shes telling her friends that her ex is gonna kick your ass, theres a problem. Even if you can take him, its not worth the problems.

Dont worry i can still read and understand your post, im not a grammer nazi like everyone else here. Must be a cowboy thing
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