Posted: 9/28/2009 7:17:11 PM EDT
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Hmmm, I don't know. Is she flirty with you, or does it just 'feel' like friends? If ya'll are really good friends, why mess up the status quo by asking her out? Hate to see a good friendship get awkward b/c someone has feelings and the other doesn't. Been there, done that. Ow. 
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I vote that you already asked her out and got your answer. If she changes her mind then it's up to her to ask you out or make the first move.
You know how it's tough sometimes to get up the courage to ask a chick out? Sometimes it's tough for a chick to tell a nice guy that she's not interested in him. Saying "I'm not dating" is much nicer than "I'm not dating you". Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your datability, just means that she doesn't think the two of you would be a good fit. Nothing wrong with that. I sure hope you're not paying for all these meals together. Friends don't use each other for anything other than company. ETA, is she showing any signs that she's changed her mind and is trying to make the first move? |
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I'm not a woman, but I would say back off a little from your friendship. I don't even hang out with my friends that much, and I live with my best friend. Mainly though, so to give her some perceptive on how she might feel about you. Right now, she gets all she wants out of just a friendship from you.
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