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10/30/2011 1:12:53 PM EDT
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10/30/2011 1:22:33 PM EDT
[#1]
Time to pay up!
10/30/2011 1:34:52 PM EDT
[#2]
Hell, you're already doing better than 99.99% of the rest of the guys I knew in the Army who went through divorce proceedings. I don't think I ever heard of anyone else doing as well as you apparently have, excepting that one guy whose wife tried killing him with a knife in front of about six witnesses at a unit function––And, I don't know for sure if that story was even true.

From the sound of things, you've come out quite well, and I'd continue to listen to my lawyer, while being very careful to keep my chain of command informed as to his advice and the status of your situation. Make sure you don't blindside them with anything, and that they're aware of everything. Hell, I'd request an open door with the commander every week, just to keep him apprised of what was going on.

Sounds like your ex was one for the record books, and that your lawyer is someone I'd keep in the Rolodex to refer anyone else I knew who deserved help in a divorce from.
10/30/2011 1:49:53 PM EDT
[#3]
Too many acronyms. STBX?
10/30/2011 1:54:33 PM EDT
[#4]
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10/30/2011 2:01:03 PM EDT
[#5]
Well, if the STBX is AWOL and WOM, but you're ITC and your daughter is AIS, then you should TTAL.


See? Made up acronyms are hard as fuck to figure out.  

Those above all mean something, but I've already forgotten them.
10/30/2011 3:31:55 PM EDT
[#6]
Your attorneys are full of shit, they don't calculate child support, the court does and if the other person refuses to hand over supporting documents, they can set a figure to pay in it's place until they do come up with it.

So she is contacting your last two units, whoopdedoo, exactly how are they going to garnish your income if your current CO knows what is going on along with JAG? And both your CO and JAG if need be need to be made aware of what is happening and you should have all supporting documents to back it up.
10/30/2011 3:38:06 PM EDT
[#7]
( She gets UE and GI Bill BAH)


What is UE, and why does she get GI Bill BAH?  Are you out of the Coast Guard?  Other than that, you owe her part of your BAH until the divorce is final.

The rest sounds like a civil matter and does not involve the military at all.

10/30/2011 4:49:22 PM EDT
[#8]
delete.