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6/8/2005 11:12:55 AM EDT
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6/8/2005 11:14:18 AM EDT
[#1]
Do you enjoy being around her?  


6/8/2005 11:14:55 AM EDT
[#2]
6/8/2005 11:16:08 AM EDT
[#3]
This is why we date. To find out this sort of thing. She probably feels the same way about you.

Time to give HER the chance to find somebody right for her. (And someone right for you as well.)
6/8/2005 11:16:10 AM EDT
[#4]
No offense, but it sounds like you aren't sure what you want.  Maybe it is better for her to find someone else.

Since you said the last one screwed you over, is this one your "rebound"?  
6/8/2005 11:16:54 AM EDT
[#5]
I had a friend who a gf that lead him on.  He flew to Thailand to visit her, and she dumped him at the end of the trip, and he had to fly back home with her parents.  It really sucked for him.
6/8/2005 11:17:46 AM EDT
[#6]
Believe me, you will know when their is chemistry.
6/8/2005 11:17:57 AM EDT
[#7]
It all depends on where you are at in your life.

Would you rather be by yourself or with her?

6/8/2005 11:19:25 AM EDT
[#8]
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6/8/2005 11:19:58 AM EDT
[#9]

Quoted:
It all depends on where you are at in your life.

Would you rather be by yourself or with her?

www.beautyhabit.com/media/olivina.hand.lotion.2.jpg



So is this the one you recommend?

6/8/2005 11:22:37 AM EDT
[#10]
Just talk to her man.

Be honest and spit out what you're feeling. It's the best way. You might even spark or kindle something in her by showing how you feel about the situation.  


6/8/2005 11:25:37 AM EDT
[#11]
I honestly don't have ANY lotion in my house anywhere.

Let me just be the first to say chafing is a bitch.

6/8/2005 11:33:31 AM EDT
[#12]
If you're asking, you already know the answer.
6/8/2005 11:34:20 AM EDT
[#13]
well your posting this so that says something.  Make a decision its not that hard, if you are happy then keep doing what your doing. Not rocket science.
6/8/2005 11:35:55 AM EDT
[#14]
You know the drill  "blah, blah,  worthless without pics, blah, blah"
6/8/2005 11:38:57 AM EDT
[#15]
Look, to help a brother out, hook me up with her, then you can dump her for cheating.


I'll take one for the team.




6/8/2005 11:39:03 AM EDT
[#16]
Dumbest thread ever.

Yer asking life changing advice from strangers and many who are 14 years old and younger (chronologically and mentally)???

6/8/2005 11:43:03 AM EDT
[#17]
You don't have to have alot in common with someone to have good conversation and alot of fun.  I didn't have alot in common with my wife when we first started dating but it was a joy to be with her.  Twelve years later its better than ever.

So, I recommend you dump her all ready.  If your not having fun she's not having fun.  Breaking up would be the best thing for the both of you IMHO.

Shok
6/8/2005 11:45:17 AM EDT
[#18]
A new girlfriend might just be a way to deal with various other problems.
6/8/2005 11:46:15 AM EDT
[#19]
I need more info before I can give an answer. These questions will help BOTH of us:

1. What do you like about her?
2. What don't you like about her?
6/8/2005 11:47:00 AM EDT
[#20]
Based on all the very detailed things you've told us about her.....I'd say dump her  
6/8/2005 11:49:57 AM EDT
[#21]
Keep her around as back up while you start dating others. U know us men always looking for a better catch.
6/8/2005 11:50:00 AM EDT
[#22]

Quoted:
I dont want to burn my bridges because she is a nice girl and treats me pretty well (actually cooks)
but sometimes it just feels like we have nothing in common and nothing to talk about.
I like to joke around alot but it seems like she never tries to make me laugh.

I am hoping I didn't rush into this one because I was kinda lonely after the last one screwed me over.

I am leaving in a couple weeks for about 5 weeks, so thats another issue, yeah it would be nice to have something at home waiting but then again i might be thinking about that and it might screw up my focus.

But then again i wouldn't want to lead her on then just break up when i get back

I just feel shitty about the whole situation



If she is a good cook and doesn't treat you like shit then she is a keeper. Women that can cook are an endangered species these days.
6/8/2005 11:53:42 AM EDT
[#23]
[richarddawson] ARFCOM seeeeezzzzzz [richarddawson]



DUMP HER!!!!!!
6/8/2005 11:54:18 AM EDT
[#24]
I find that people tend to be more forgiving and realistic as they get a little older.  Doesn't mean you are settling for less, you just figure out what the important things are.
6/8/2005 11:55:25 AM EDT
[#25]
you should just start banging whores off of el cajon
6/8/2005 11:55:58 AM EDT
[#26]

Quoted:
Keep her around as back up while you start dating others.
U know us men always looking for a better catch cootch.



Fixed it
6/8/2005 12:02:14 PM EDT
[#27]

Quoted:
I need more info before I can give an answer. These questions will help BOTH of us:

1. What do you like about her?
2. What don't you like about her?



she treats me good, makes food does woman stuff, she is not one of those womans lib types, lets the man do man things, understands the military, cool with guns,

2. Complains about little stuff, kinda serious, gets mad about my little jokes, seems to make everything into a test almost like i am competing for her or something?
6/8/2005 12:05:42 PM EDT
[#28]
I need pics for my recommendation.  
6/8/2005 12:06:58 PM EDT
[#29]
How old is she?
6/8/2005 12:08:37 PM EDT
[#30]

Quoted:
How old is she?



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6/8/2005 12:09:37 PM EDT
[#31]
If you're taking candidates for a serious (married) relationship, get out now...

Or, as Norm on "Cheers" said, just find some bitch you can't stand and buy her a house...

If you're just hanging out for fun, go with it...but keep it wrapped because she'll end up preggers and you'll be hooked like a trout.

You will probably not get used to each other either, little cracks in a relationship turn into big crevasses as you both grow in different directions.

just my humble .02, nothing more...
6/8/2005 12:11:45 PM EDT
[#32]

Quoted:

2. Complains about little stuff, kinda serious, gets mad about my little jokes, seems to make everything into a test almost like i am competing for her or something?



At the very least, you have established, without a  doubt, the person in question is a FEMALE.
Good start.
6/8/2005 2:47:27 PM EDT
[#33]

Quoted:

Quoted:

2. Complains about little stuff, kinda serious, gets mad about my little jokes, seems to make everything into a test almost like i am competing for her or something?



At the very least, you have established, without a  doubt, the person in question is a FEMALE.
Good start.



lol YEAH thats all woman
6/8/2005 2:55:22 PM EDT
[#34]

Quoted:
I dont want to burn my bridges because she is a nice girl and treats me pretty well (actually cooks)
but sometimes it just feels like we have nothing in common and nothing to talk about.
I like to joke around alot but it seems like she never tries to make me laugh.

I am hoping I didn't rush into this one because I was kinda lonely after the last one screwed me over.

I am leaving in a couple weeks for about 5 weeks, so thats another issue, yeah it would be nice to have something at home waiting but then again i might be thinking about that and it might screw up my focus.

But then again i wouldn't want to lead her on then just break up when i get back

I just feel shitty about the whole situation



Make sure you have another lined up before you become alone.
Unless you want to be alone.
6/8/2005 3:08:54 PM EDT
[#35]

Quoted:

Quoted:
Do you enjoy being around her?  



Hmm i mean i spend alot of time with her and its enjoyable its just i know other girls and it seems like i have alot of fun with those girls?




That's your biggest problem right there. You're immature.

I could give you some tips that are virtually gauranteed to work and make your relationship better. However it's like you're not ready to handle a serious relationship. So have fun drifting!

6/8/2005 3:34:18 PM EDT
[#36]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:
Do you enjoy being around her?  



Hmm i mean i spend alot of time with her and its enjoyable its just i know other girls and it seems like i have alot of fun with those girls?




That's your biggest problem right there. You're immature.

I could give you some tips that are virtually gauranteed to work and make your relationship better. However it's like you're not ready to handle a serious relationship. So have fun drifting!




how so?
6/8/2005 3:53:37 PM EDT
[#37]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:
Do you enjoy being around her?  



Hmm i mean i spend alot of time with her and its enjoyable its just i know other girls and it seems like i have alot of fun with those girls?




That's your biggest problem right there. You're immature.

I could give you some tips that are virtually gauranteed to work and make your relationship better. However it's like you're not ready to handle a serious relationship. So have fun drifting!




how so?



When you decide that you want to work on your relationship instead of drifting from girl to girl because "I have fun with these other girls", then you're on the road to being mature about relationships. However as long as you keep up with the 'grass is greener' thinking, you're pretty much doomed to failure.
6/8/2005 4:53:32 PM EDT
[#38]

Quoted:
I dont want to burn my bridges because she is a nice girl and treats me pretty well (actually cookshaveI like to joke around alot but it seems like she never tries to make me laugh.




You've got one that doesn't talk?  I wish I could find one that would shut her trap for ten minutes!

Guys want three things from a woman - food, sex, and silence.  Sounds like you're getting all three, so keep her!
6/8/2005 5:13:13 PM EDT
[#39]
It doesn't matter what you want to do she's most likely pregnant and hasn't told you yet.
www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?b=1&f=5&t=356131
6/8/2005 5:19:06 PM EDT
[#40]

Quoted:
Just talk to her man.

Be honest and spit out what you're feeling. It's the best way. You might even spark or kindle something in her by showing how you feel about the situation.



+1

Comm is always important no matter what the situation.
6/8/2005 5:20:22 PM EDT
[#41]

Quoted:
It doesn't matter what you want to do she's most likely pregnant and hasn't told you yet.
www.ar15.com/forums/topic.html?b=1&f=5&t=356131



Sheesh, after reading that, I'm assured my diagnosis is correct. Immature.