I pig tailed it.
My last house I ended up replacing all the switches with illuminated and all covers to brushed stainless.
I got half the house done today, Amazon will bring the rest over the next two days and I'll be done with electric upgrades.
Still not happy I cannot find an illuminated 4 Way handle switch for the top of the steps. I don't like rocker switches but that's all I can find.
Thank you for all the professional guidance. I sleep much better knowing it's all done right. Not just code (fucking wall nuts -lol), but correct. The way a sparky would do his house!
Like somebody said, this place is awesome!