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Posted: 12/22/2005 7:53:36 PM EDT
So, how would you react/what would you do if your wife, for medical reasons (or perhaps mental/emotional) was no longer able to (or told you she didn't want to) have sex with you anymore?

Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:54:27 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 7:54:51 PM EDT by TheRedHorseman]
fuck her sister?
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:55:26 PM EDT
I like ur first response better TRH
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:55:35 PM EDT
Cant have sex as in what? No orgasm? No penetration?
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:55:37 PM EDT
Fuck a nice 18 year old girl?
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:55:48 PM EDT
What do you mean "What if.."

I thought all woman did that once they became a wife
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:56:01 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Greywolf2112:
So, how would you react/what would you do if your wife, for medical reasons (or perhaps mental/emotional) was no longer able to (or told you she didn't want to) have sex with you anymore?




Soo not officially been married, I can say that if it were medical it is one thing if she just didn't want to I say boot to curb. Yo I am gonna see what will be making the trip with me
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:56:09 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Greywolf2112:
So, how would you react/what would you do if your wife, for medical reasons (or perhaps mental/emotional) was no longer able to (or told you she didn't want to) have sex with you anymore?



Its an everyday thing for me. No kidding. What do I do? Watch a lot of porn and use a lot of lotion after that gets old I'm going to take a long walk off a short plank of insanity. If I haven't already. Me after going too long without sex >>>>>>>.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:56:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Kooter:
What do you mean "What if.."

I thought all woman did that once they became a wife




oooo snap
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:56:54 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 8:00:20 PM EDT by GabbasaurusRex]
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?

ETA: Sorry.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:57:03 PM EDT
Make arrangements to get it elsewhere, but stay married. I would be very descreat about it.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:57:13 PM EDT
That depends on the particular circumstance...

Can't due to medical reasons? Stay and honor 'till death do we part'.

Can't because she just doesn't want to? Go find some young hottie to boff.

Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:57:29 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 7:58:38 PM EDT by Zippy_The_Wonderdog]
I have heard of this happening...usually wrecks the marriage if its just a matter of her not wanting to and counseling doesn't prevail.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:57:52 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 7:58:17 PM EDT by bblake00]

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?




But the wheelchair might roll away.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:58:10 PM EDT
I might finally get a good night's sleep...
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:59:18 PM EDT

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?



Now there is a girl who knows how to use her head!!

Link Posted: 12/22/2005 7:59:39 PM EDT
The Shallowness is Deep
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:00:44 PM EDT
This is why the phrase fuck buddies exists.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:01:45 PM EDT

Originally Posted By WesDesRat:

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?



Now there is a girl who knows how to use her head!!




Never ceases to shock me with laughter.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:13:13 PM EDT
3 kids born between 2001-2005...outside the conceptions, I've had to go months at a stretch without it
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:16:57 PM EDT
medical reasons are one thing, but "i don't want to" would make me wonder what else she's got going on.....
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:17:55 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 8:18:23 PM EDT by BuckeyeRifleman]

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?

ETA: Sorry.



my thoughts exactly..
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:18:47 PM EDT

Originally Posted By FieroLoki:
Cant have sex as in what? No orgasm? No penetration?

Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:20:26 PM EDT

Originally Posted By J_Smith:
The Shallowness is Deep



Equal examples: The same could be said of women who leave their man because he decided to sit at home and drink beer all day instead of going to work for months on end. A man has just as much right to leave a woman if she decides that she is just going to wallow in bed all day for months on end and be generally useless.

A man has roles in relationships, a woman has roles in relationships. One that they both share is the mutual pleasure and support of eachother. How many women would stay with their man if he decided to not give it up (assuming such a thing could be done)? How long would it last until the woman got pissed off enough to do something about it?
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:20:30 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 8:20:57 PM EDT by Mauser101]
The way the human body works it's supposed to be the other way around. It's the guy that sooner or later finds it medically impossible to have sex.

EDIT: I like Gabby more every day.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:20:57 PM EDT
From what I've heard from my married friends I thought that was normal. Oh wait, you said couldn't, not wouldn't.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:21:41 PM EDT

Originally Posted By w4klr:
I like ur first response better TRH



by popular demand:

"that's nice dear"

and return to whatever I was doing prior to the interruption
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:24:04 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 8:34:51 PM EDT by Andreuha]
BIG difference between "couldn't because of medical reasons" and "didn't want to." BIG difference.
Edit to add: everything menopause related is medical reason, so any other "don't want to" generally means she's already banging another guy.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:30:39 PM EDT

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?

ETA: Sorry.



See...that is why I love you. You're such a guy at heart.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:32:38 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/22/2005 8:34:58 PM EDT by velocity]
Well, if my wife ever woke up and for some reason the Ol' Shootin Range was shut down for unknown reasons, well, she's got hands and a very lovely mouth.

If she just decided that my rifle is'nt the right kind so I'm no longer allowed at the range, well then, there's other ranges!
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:38:50 PM EDT
There must be a compromise.

I have sexual needs. She MUST fulfill these needs (either orally or introducing a new sexual partner), or give me the freedom to do it however I want to. It works both ways though. If I couldn't give her sex anymore, how could I deny her of that. I'd at least get an implant, take viagra, or strap one if I had to just to satisfy her needs.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:43:11 PM EDT

Originally Posted By Andreuha:
BIG difference between "couldn't because of medical reasons" and "didn't want to." BIG difference.
Edit to add: everything menopause related is medical reason, so any other "don't want to" generally means she's already banging another guy.



+1. Same goes for guys who say they can't go without sex. You can, but most guys don't want too. Even if their wife REALLY can't.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:46:26 PM EDT
Gabby, you're freaking hilarious!
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 8:48:33 PM EDT
I had a good friend whose wife told him, about a year into their marriage, that she was done with sex. Wasn't going to put up with it anymore.

His comment was that he had made a commitment to her and would hold up his end of it even if she would not hold up her end. It was HIS commitment that mattered to him, not hers. He stayed faithful to her for over 40 years, until she passed away. Then he found himself a nice lady whom he spends a lot of time with now . . . in Vegas.
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 9:53:50 PM EDT
I'd do the same exact thing I did when I was married.... I'd find it elsewhere.

P.S. Gabby cracks me up!
Link Posted: 12/22/2005 10:04:09 PM EDT
She got a pretty mouth
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:11:22 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/23/2005 3:22:53 AM EDT by passgas55]
After a month without doing it, we finially did it. I then confess to my wife afterwards that it felt like I was cheating. She got a surprize look on her face and said "Cheating?" I said that I felt like I was cheating on my right hand.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:36:40 AM EDT
"Forsaking all others, Until death do you part".

Obligations do not cease to be obligations when they become difficult.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:41:55 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 12/23/2005 4:22:36 AM EDT by Rodent]

Originally Posted By Jame_Retief:
I had a good friend whose wife told him, about a year into their marriage, that she was done with sex. Wasn't going to put up with it anymore...
He stayed faithful to her for over 40 years . . . .



Forty wasted years
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:43:08 AM EDT
The babysitter would be coming over a lot more often.

Kharn
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:47:06 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Matthew_Q:
Can't because she just doesn't want to? Go find some young hottie to boff.



Not putting out out of spite would be cause for divorce, IMO.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:47:45 AM EDT

Originally Posted By bblake00:

Originally Posted By GabbasaurusRex:
She still has a mouth, doesn't she?




But the wheelchair might roll away.



They have brakes.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:48:16 AM EDT
If it's a legitimate physical problem, then I'm sure we can work something out...

But an emotional/mental issue will be worked out by the lawyers in divorce court. Life is too short to waste your time with a messed up woman that don't screw. As far as "til death do us part", well when mental issues arise, then the woman I knew is gone, and that's close enough for me.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:48:22 AM EDT

Originally Posted By J_Smith:
The Shallowness is Deep



A man's need for pussy is as deep as it gets.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:51:36 AM EDT

Originally Posted By Jame_Retief:
I had a good friend whose wife told him, about a year into their marriage, that she was done with sex. Wasn't going to put up with it anymore.

His comment was that he had made a commitment to her and would hold up his end of it even if she would not hold up her end. It was HIS commitment that mattered to him, not hers. He stayed faithful to her for over 40 years, until she passed away. Then he found himself a nice lady whom he spends a lot of time with now . . . in Vegas.



Oh hell no. Once she started waking up every morning with my normal rockwell on her forehead I bet that shit would end quick!
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:54:33 AM EDT

Originally Posted By FooBarBaz:
"Forsaking all others, Until death do you part".

Obligations do not cease to be obligations when they become difficult.




Good post. Yet another thread that bumps my faith in ARFcom.
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 3:56:21 AM EDT
flip her over?

go out for some strange? you might as well sign over the house to her before you hit the hatch...
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 4:08:19 AM EDT
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 4:09:06 AM EDT
true story

a guy on my boat watched his second kid pop out, the head the shoulders everything. well it messed his head a little seeing his wife all stretched, bloody etc. it turned him off of her with sex. he tried for about 6 months before he broke down and told her, they tried just oral for a year, that did not work either. they spent a year seeing a shrink. after all was said and done he still loved his wife, but could not handle sex with her, so they agreed to both get a slice on the side, he had a GF she had a BF. they both typically went over to the "other" persons house once a week. when he told us about it his youngest kid was almost 11 and they were still together, so it can work out. but it has to be real rough ( almost said hard )
Link Posted: 12/23/2005 4:11:24 AM EDT

Originally Posted By scotty1911:
true story

a guy on my boat watched his second kid pop out, the head the shoulders everything. well it messed his head a little seeing his wife all stretched, bloody etc. it turned him off of her with sex. he tried for about 6 months before he broke down and told her, they tried just oral for a year, that did not work either. they spent a year seeing a shrink. after all was said and done he still loved his wife, but could not handle sex with her, so they agreed to both get a slice on the side, he had a GF she had a BF. they both typically went over to the "other" persons house once a week. when he told us about it his youngest kid was almost 11 and they were still together, so it can work out. but it has to be real rough ( almost said hard )



I dont know. I think there is more involved then you think. I have seen a thousands of deliveries and only had one or two men make any indication of this nature. Most likely they were not sexually compatible.

Link Posted: 12/23/2005 4:11:37 AM EDT

Originally Posted By VoodooChile:
3 kids born between 2001-2005...outside the conceptions, I've had to go months at a stretch without it


Same here, only from 2000-2004.

Months.
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