ok, this will probably get locked for Trolling (why me?), but I really like the quote...Dennis Miller
Don't let them know they've rattled you if it hits close to home. You should be able to take a joke right in the solar plexus; get up! Get that two-cycle weedwacker engine of a brain humming and give as good as you got. And if you get bested, go home, sharpen your verbal machete and get right back and get ready for the next thicken. ... Relax!