Pasp,
I know how you are feeling, I was there many times.
22Nov99 I was working as a mechanic at a local shop. A car came in that needed a test drive. While on the test drive the car stalled on a rather large busy road. A police officer pulls up a few minutes later, offering to block traffic so we can push the disabled car out of the road.
The cop blocks traffic, and traffic had come to a stop. The owner and myself started pushing the car to the shoulder across four lanes. As we reach the 4th lane almost to the shoulder. A pizza driver comes speeding, veers around the stopped traffic and the police officer. ALMOST hitting him. We see him at the last moment possible. The pizza driver t-bones the passenger side of the car, while I was on the drivers side, sending me [b]flying[/b].
Now the start of almost a two year stress and depression streak. Scale of 1-10, 10 being the worst, I was a 50!
Fast forwad... I had no broken bones that showed up on the x-rays at the ER. I was diagnosed with a bruised back, bruised hip, and a sprained ankle by the jackboot Er doc.
Since this happened at work, it was a workers comp claim.
I was sent to a "paid" comp doctor who did nothing but pump me full of Vicadin/Oxycontin/Percoset/Every drug you can think of and none of it worked.
I had serious ankle pain, serious back pain, and numbness-tingling in my legs and feet. If I sat on a hard surface for more then 15 minutes everything would go numb with more back pain.
After a month of this I had an MRI, the radiologist said it was just a "bulging" disc. My "payed" comp doc never looked at the MRI results herself, she just took the guys word for it.
Fast forward 6 months of pain, crap, missed comp payments, yada yada.
I am drained in everyway possible. Mentally, finacially, health. Was ready for it all to end. I begged and pleaded for Comp to send me to a doc that wasn't on their payroll and they finally let me pick my own after threatning legal action.
I make an appointment with another doctor, he tells me to bring my MRI films with me. When I check them out of the hospital. I notice that were never checked out before. Thats how I learned my doc never looked at them. Finally comes the day with the new doc. He takes one look at them and says I have a [b]shattered[/b] L4-L5 disc and needed surgery right away. The surgery was supposed to be the "fix-it-all".
I had a discomectomy of my L4-L5 disc. Thats the 2nd disc up from your tailbone.
The surgery flopped it. It helped with the leg stuff, and only slightly with the back pain.
Fast forward another 8 months of Spine care therapy and work hardening. The little "payed" therapist company said I was 100% and ready for fulltime, no restriction work. I tried working for 4 days and had to stop. Because I stopped without docs approval, workers comp terminated my comp paychecks.
Comp thought I was faking my pain after everything I had went through.