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3/3/2010 1:06:59 PM EDT
I had a friend who called me in a panic today. He was dating this girl and performed oral sex on her, then found out later that she tested positive for Herpes 2. How he's stressing out and having himself tested. He keeps thinking about Herpes sores all over his mouth.

How careful are you guys really?

3/3/2010 1:08:00 PM EDT
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3/3/2010 1:08:07 PM EDT
[#2]
Dumb.  Should have known before he did something like that.
3/3/2010 1:09:21 PM EDT
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Dumb.  Should have known before he did something like that.


I'm legitimately curios,how would he know?



 
3/3/2010 1:10:36 PM EDT
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I had a friend who called me in a panic today. He was dating this girl and performed oral sex on her, then found out later that she tested positive for Herpes 2. How he's stressing out and having himself tested. He keeps thinking about Herpes sores all over his mouth.

How careful are you guys really?



I keep reminding y'all that IMMEDIATE and THOROUGH application of soap and warm water will kill the herpes virus.  Your buddy is fucked.  Seriously, unless she is having an outbreak (which he would have, presumably, noticed) or is having viral shedding, he's probably going to be fine.  There is no good (inexpensive) way to test for Herpes without a sore being present.  Even the expensive test is not 100% accurate.
3/3/2010 1:10:58 PM EDT
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Dumb. Should have known before he did something like that.


I'm legitimately curios,how would he know?



You don't unless they are having an outbreak just like warts




They say that just about 90% or more of people who are sexually active have HPV....most never even know it though.

3/3/2010 1:11:37 PM EDT
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I had a friend who called me in a panic today. He was dating this girl and performed oral sex on her, then found out later that she tested positive for Herpes 2. How he's stressing out and having himself tested. He keeps thinking about Herpes sores all over his mouth.

How careful are you guys really?



I keep reminding y'all that IMMEDIATE and THOROUGH application of soap and warm water will kill the herpes virus.  Your buddy is fucked.


Really?
3/3/2010 1:12:13 PM EDT
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Stupid hurts
3/3/2010 1:12:27 PM EDT
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I had a friend who called me in a panic today. He was dating this girl and performed oral sex on her, then found out later that she tested positive for Herpes 2. How he's stressing out and having himself tested. He keeps thinking about Herpes sores all over his mouth.

How careful are you guys really?



I keep reminding y'all that IMMEDIATE and THOROUGH application of soap and warm water will kill the herpes virus.  


Really?


Really.
3/3/2010 1:12:43 PM EDT
[#9]
I like your screenname and your OP.
3/3/2010 1:12:45 PM EDT
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3/3/2010 1:12:57 PM EDT
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I had a friend who called me in a panic today. He was dating this girl and performed oral sex on her, then found out later that she tested positive for Herpes 2. How he's stressing out and having himself tested. He keeps thinking about Herpes sores all over his mouth.

How careful are you guys really?



I keep reminding y'all that IMMEDIATE and THOROUGH application of soap and warm water will kill the herpes virus.  Your buddy is fucked.


Really?



He is a naval aviator. He would know...



3/3/2010 1:13:07 PM EDT
[#12]
Well, he'll know in 2 to 4 weeks, maybe a bit longer, some can carry the virus for a year before showing signs of an outbreak.  

Who would have thought you could get STDs from oral  It's always a gamble...
3/3/2010 1:13:30 PM EDT
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Dumb. Should have known before he did something like that.

I'm legitimately curios,how would he know?

You don't unless they are having an outbreak just like warts

They say that just about 90% or more of people who are sexually active have HPV....most never even know it though.


Dunno about herpes but some STDs can be "active" on the inside of the vag out of view....

It's not the herpes that would gross me out...it's knowing that at some point that same virus was reproducing all up and down some dude's cock, and now it might be in his mouth
3/3/2010 1:16:10 PM EDT
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Dumb. Should have known before he did something like that.


I'm legitimately curios,how would he know?



You don't unless they are having an outbreak just like warts




They say that just about 90% or more of people who are sexually active have HPV....most never even know it though.





Dunno about herpes but some STDs can be "active" on the inside of the vag out of view....



It's not the herpes that would gross me out...it's knowing that at some point that same virus was reproducing all up and down some dude's cock, and now it might be in his mouth


good point, I forgot about teh insides havin the nasty bumpies

3/3/2010 1:16:21 PM EDT
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double

3/3/2010 1:16:37 PM EDT
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herp durp durp
3/3/2010 1:20:33 PM EDT
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Is there chance his test will come out negative?
3/3/2010 1:21:28 PM EDT
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Dumb.  Should have known before he did something like that.

I'm legitimately curios,how would he know?
 


The cold sores all over her vulva is usually a decent indicator. ETA: Yeah, intervaginal lesions can be there, and are generally asymptomatic. Banging slutty girls is risky business.

IF she had sores at the time, there's a decent chance he'll get them. If she wasn't currently expressing an active infection, the he's most likely OK. On the plus side, HSV II oral infections stay oral (if he gets cold sores on his mouth, they aren't going to travel to his genitals).

FYI, while HSV II is generally associated with genital herpes, if YOU have HSV I (cold sores), you can give your partner genital herpes.

Be careful what you lick/suck on folks.
3/3/2010 1:21:43 PM EDT
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Dumb. Should have known before he did something like that.

I'm legitimately curios,how would he know?

You don't unless they are having an outbreak just like warts

They say that just about 90% or more of people who are sexually active have HPV....most never even know it though.


Dunno about herpes but some STDs can be "active" on the inside of the vag out of view....

It's not the herpes that would gross me out...it's knowing that at some point that same virus was reproducing all up and down some dude's cock, and now it might be in his mouth

good point, I forgot about teh insides havin the nasty bumpies


According to that hot chick swimming in the pool on TV, she can still give you the herps even though her Valtrex or what ever it's called is suppressing an outbreak. DUH
3/3/2010 1:22:03 PM EDT
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Is there chance his test will come out negative?


It's very likely that it will - unless "he" has an active sore (and then, they test the sore).  A negative test doesn't mean "he" doesn't have herpes.  Your "friend" should probably come up with a reason to not have sex with his ACTUAL girlfriend for a few weeks... "'he' gave it up for Lent" might be a good one.
3/3/2010 1:23:12 PM EDT
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Is there chance his test will come out negative?
I'm no doctor but I would wager a guess that since it's viral his body may take time to register it.  He should get tested a few times to make sure. I know I would.



3/3/2010 1:26:25 PM EDT
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Is there chance his test will come out negative?


Yes, the best time to get tested is during an outbreak, and even then they could swab and nasty infected puss filled soar and it still come back negative.  
Or so my family doctor told me years ago during on of his "Dad" moments.
3/3/2010 1:26:44 PM EDT
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There is always a "friend",involved.

hehe , just kidding, good luck to you, and... dibs on guns and ammo.
3/3/2010 1:29:00 PM EDT
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3/3/2010 1:29:06 PM EDT
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I just laughed really loud at work because of you dammit. lol

 
3/3/2010 1:29:17 PM EDT
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Oh, and if he's that worried, he should probably look into getting an HIV test as well.  As it is also possible to transmit that via oral as well.
3/3/2010 1:29:35 PM EDT
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coc

[ARCHIVED THREAD] - STDs