Im expecting to get flamed for this one, but im at a point where I just don't care.
I think that im going to take all of your advice and not let her know that i have her login and password.
If it were my friend that was asking the same question, i'd tell him the same thing. I think that when your in the situation you get blinded by whats going on and all of the emotions involved that sometimes asking for advice is the best thing that you could do. Ya maybe posting it on here wasn't the best of ideas, but its also 3:30 in the morning and there aren't alot of people up around here. And also i've noticed that there are alot of different kinds of people on here, and there advice could only help the situation not to mention maybe other people have had similar experiences.
Now for the flame:
I guess the reason why im trying so hard with her is because i care alot about her and we've had an amazing relationship. We didn't break up because of trust issues or because a fight or anything like that. I broke up with her because i thought that she needed to get herself healthy before investing into a relationship. She is 5'2 105lbs and has an eating disorder. I didnt find out about this until a little ways into our relationship. And being the "Capt. Save A Girl" like I am, i thought that i could be there for her and help her through it. I came to a point that i realized that she needed to do this on her own and for herself. I've never broken up with a girl for a reason like this, and it feels weird. Im used to getting into a fight, or some other big reason, but not something like this. All seemed well for the first few days, but i began to doubt my decision. It didnt help that she was still friends with my roommate so i knew everything that was going on. Usually when i break up with someone, my friends dont stick around and remain friends, but in this case my roomie wanted to, and i thought it would be good for her. What hit me the hardest was hearing about how her daughter wanted to know; why i dont like them anymore, and why they can't come over anymore. She said that all she wanted to do was come and give me a big hug and say that she was sorry. Her daughter is 3. THIS HIT ME HARD! I dont know why! This isn't the only reason why i was trying to make things work but it deffiently played a big part.......
Im in my early 20s and so is she....
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