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Posted: 1/5/2006 3:47:36 PM EDT
I got some text messages from a girl that I was a councilor to at church camp a few years back. Expressed an interest in going on a date. However, she's a senior in high school. She's cute, sweet, and pretty. Fadedsun is a Sophomore in College.

As the TFK song goes, "I Want the truth!"

Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:48:47 PM EDT
No, but for some reason i smell danger.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:50:10 PM EDT
Pics needed for informed opinion
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:50:26 PM EDT
If there is grass on the field.....PLAY BALL
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:50:47 PM EDT
HELL NO! You aint robbing the cradle.

All your doing is getting to her before some zit-face, garlic-breath, snot-nosed punk can.

Go git it!
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:50:56 PM EDT
If there is grass on the field... PLAY BALL!!!

But bro. Serious. Don't bother with that. Sure the body is prime but the brain is VERY under-developed. If you can handle the young brain, well more power to ya.

~Moco Out.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:50:57 PM EDT
Wait 'till she's 18 dude!
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:51:13 PM EDT


Senior in high school and sophmore in college is no problem age-wise (unless you are back in college after a 20-year career in something else)


The only thing that even tingled my red flag was that you were a councilor (sp?) to her in a camp. While you are no longer in a relationship like that, it might be a little iffy - but that's a bit of a stretch. Then again, I know several professors that are happily married to former students, so I guess it doesn't have to be a problem.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:51:29 PM EDT
DAMN YOU SHITS ARE FAST!!! beat me to my own line
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:51:57 PM EDT
And oh, by the way.


THIS THREAD IS WORTHLESS WITHOUT PICS!!!!!!
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:52:59 PM EDT
That makes her about 17 and you are about 19?
Only two years of difference so no big deal... go for it.

BTW my wife is 7 years younger than me
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:53:27 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DarkHalf:
No, but for some reason i smell danger.



What brings up warning flags is the possibility that she might not be ready for a real relationship. I've got 3 years on her-I'm 20, she's 17. I'm pretty sure she could use a more mature guy in her life than the morons she's dated.

Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:54:03 PM EDT
Yeah, I need some naked pictures of her for evaluation. A video of her stripping may yield even sooner results.

Seriously, if she's 18 and you're under 24 I think it's acceptable.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:55:24 PM EDT
If she's mentally mature enough to be a booty-call chick, then go for it. You certainly don't want to be getting into a relationship with a girl that young. Do you really want to be going to her Prom?

Check it out carefully. Stalkers aren't fun.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:55:51 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By DarkHalf:
No, but for some reason i smell danger.



What brings up warning flags is the possibility that she might not be ready for a real relationship. I've got 3 years on her-I'm 20, she's 17. I'm pretty sure she could use a more mature guy in her life than the morons she's dated.




You are 20 and you think you are ready for a serious relationship?
Now looking back it is amazing how much I didn't know when I was 20
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:56:42 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:
What brings up warning flags is the possibility that she might not be ready for a real relationship. I've got 3 years on her-I'm 20, she's 17. I'm pretty sure she could use a more mature guy in her life than the morons she's dated.





If she's in the habit of dating morons, you'll want to stay away from her.

Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:56:52 PM EDT

Originally Posted By yobo:

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By DarkHalf:
No, but for some reason i smell danger.



What brings up warning flags is the possibility that she might not be ready for a real relationship. I've got 3 years on her-I'm 20, she's 17. I'm pretty sure she could use a more mature guy in her life than the morons she's dated.




You are 20 and you think you are ready for a serious relationship?
Now looking back it is amazing how much I didn't know when I was 20




+1 billion
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:57:13 PM EDT

Originally Posted By HarrySacz:
If there is grass on the field.....PLAY BALL



If there is not....flip it over and play in the dirt!



Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:57:20 PM EDT

Originally Posted By TheMocoMan:

But bro. Serious. Don't bother with that. Sure the body is prime but the brain is VERY under-developed. If you can handle the young brain, well more power to ya.

~Moco Out.



What are you talking about? At that age her mind is susceptible to all sorts of suggestion.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 3:58:09 PM EDT
If she is still in high school and you're not, nothing but trouble.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:00:39 PM EDT
When I was 18 I had a reversed situation.
I was a freshman in University and she was senior.
I was 18 but she was 31
It was fun while it lasted
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:02:39 PM EDT
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:02:54 PM EDT

Originally Posted By HarrySacz:

Originally Posted By yobo:

Originally Posted By fadedsun:

Originally Posted By DarkHalf:
No, but for some reason i smell danger.



What brings up warning flags is the possibility that she might not be ready for a real relationship. I've got 3 years on her-I'm 20, she's 17. I'm pretty sure she could use a more mature guy in her life than the morons she's dated.




You are 20 and you think you are ready for a serious relationship?
Now looking back it is amazing how much I didn't know when I was 20




+1 billion




I met my wife when I was 20, she was 17. When we were married, I was 22 and she was almost 19. We've been married a long time and I wouldn't have changed a thing.

You have to know if you are emotionally mature enough to handle marriage, if you take it that far. Other than putting a ring on her finger down on the isle, what's the problem? There isn't the same commitment as getting married. If you want a serious relationship and think you are ready, go for it. You can aways learn from it and can always part ways if it doesn't work out. If you get married, I personally, would suggest taking it WAY more seriously. Dating and getting serious is a lot different than when you are married.

Just go out with the girl, you have no idea what could happen. You might enjoy her company.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:04:21 PM EDT
I met my wife when she was a HS senior and I was a sophomore in college. We've been together for 7.5 years.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:04:49 PM EDT

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



Should he card her?
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:04:52 PM EDT

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



16 is legal. Not that I agree 16 years olds are ready for that. But if he's 20 and she's 17 or 18, what's the big deal?
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:04:52 PM EDT

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



16 is legal. Not that I agree 16 years olds are ready for that. But if he's 20 and she's 17 or 18, what's the big deal of them going out on a date?
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:05:59 PM EDT
I met my wife when she was a HS senior and I was a sophomore in college. We've been together for 7.5 years.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:06:27 PM EDT

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



Should he card her on their first date... just to make sure
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:07:20 PM EDT
I met my wife when she was a HS senior and I was a sophomore in college. We've been together for 7.5 years.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:09:08 PM EDT

Originally Posted By triburst1:
I met my wife when she was a HS senior and I was a sophomore in college. We've been together for 7.5 years.



Did you go to her HS prom?
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:10:26 PM EDT

Originally Posted By lippo:

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



16 is legal. Not that I agree 16 years olds are ready for that. But if he's 20 and she's 17 or 18, what's the big deal?



depends on the state.

Most are 18.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:12:11 PM EDT

Originally Posted By cyrax777:

Originally Posted By lippo:

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



16 is legal. Not that I agree 16 years olds are ready for that. But if he's 20 and she's 17 or 18, what's the big deal?



depends on the state.

Most are 18.




Ok
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:13:29 PM EDT

Originally Posted By fadedsun:
I got some text messages from a girl that I was a councilor to at church camp a few years back. Expressed an interest in going on a date. However, she's a senior in high school. She's cute, sweet, and pretty. Fadedsun is a Sophomore in College.

As the TFK song goes, "I Want the truth!"




No. Only what, 3 years difference?

She'll be the cool chick who's dating a college guy.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:19:10 PM EDT
Pie
Young Pie


HIT IT!

Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:28:10 PM EDT

Originally Posted By moparman71:
If she's mentally mature enough to be a booty-call chick, then go for it. You certainly don't want to be getting into a relationship with a girl that young. Do you really want to be going to her Prom?

Check it out carefully. Stalkers aren't fun.



I don't have a problem going to her prom. I've been the prom date of many freshman HS girls before.

I've also dealt with stalkers before. Fun.

Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:29:16 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:

Senior in high school and sophmore in college is no problem age-wise (unless you are back in college after a 20-year career in something else)


The only thing that even tingled my red flag was that you were a councilor (sp?) to her in a camp. While you are no longer in a relationship like that, it might be a little iffy - but that's a bit of a stretch. Then again, I know several professors that are happily married to former students, so I guess it doesn't have to be a problem.



Huh. In B-School or just the university? I know in my math circle it happens far more often than I'm comfortable with.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:30:16 PM EDT
If shes' old enouhg to sit at the table, she's old enough to eat ! ! !
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:30:28 PM EDT
As long she is 18 go for it.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:33:22 PM EDT
Sounds like an invite for drama.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:43:36 PM EDT

Originally Posted By yobo:

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



Should he card her?



Yes.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:45:32 PM EDT

Originally Posted By HarrySacz:
If there is grass on the field.....PLAY BALL



And if there aint, roll her over and play in the mud!
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:51:17 PM EDT
Dude, I'm 31 and would I date an 18 year old? FUCK YEAH! just so I could talk shit to all my buddies.

~Dg84
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 4:57:31 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DarkHalf:

Originally Posted By yobo:

Originally Posted By maxell27:
Just ensure she is 18 +1 Month. That way it's legal.

Max



Should he card her?



Yes.



I agree.

Better to be safe than sorry.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 5:00:51 PM EDT
Go ask her dad if it's ok with him.

He'll let you know.

GM
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 5:32:13 PM EDT
My wife's 7 years younger than me.

We've been together 8 years so far.

I couldn't be happier.

Your worried about a 3 year age gap ?

Thank you ,please drive through.
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 5:40:19 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 5:42:49 PM EDT

Originally Posted By mmx1:

Originally Posted By DK-Prof:

Then again, I know several professors that are happily married to former students, so I guess it doesn't have to be a problem.



Huh. In B-School or just the university? I know in my math circle it happens far more often than I'm comfortable with.



The five I know (or know of) are all in business schools. Three married MBA students, and two married Ph.D. students. Which I suppose is somewhat less disturbing than undergraduates!
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 5:59:00 PM EDT
Is she looking for a babydaddy?
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 5:59:27 PM EDT
Link Posted: 1/5/2006 6:08:26 PM EDT
Let's be positive.
At least she's not his sister.
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