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Posted: 5/29/2003 4:59:10 PM EDT
My wife is a 34b and she has decided that is wants breast implants. She said she would like to move up to a "c" cup and make them more "perky". I'm fine with them the way they are and I'm conserned about the long term heath effects of it and I really don't care for the scare it leaves on the nipples. Do any of you guys have any experience with your wife or girlfriends haveing the procedure? What do you guys think??????
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:02:38 PM EDT
they are HER tits..... t
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:08:55 PM EDT
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:11:01 PM EDT
I personally don't think it's a good idea for safety reasons. She really needs to examine that. Just make sure that she's not making a rash decision. Voice your concerns, and ask her to wait a year so she can examine the reasons, the risks, and the benefits.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:11:02 PM EDT
No they are my tits. I got the title on them.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:11:30 PM EDT
Well hot damn man...Uh Yea.. No seriously..If it will make her feel more confident in herself I'd say go for it. I've dated afew with and never once complained [BD]!! Sometimes it even makes them feel more like the sex goddess they wish they were...which can be a big plus for you!! Personally I don't care if they have natural breasts or implants. I leave that up to them. Gemologist[x]BLOAT Buy Lots Of Ammo Today
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:12:56 PM EDT
Since nobody beat me to it... [b]We Need Pics!!! [/b]
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:14:00 PM EDT
Tell you wife you think they are perfect the way they are. I think a lot of women have a negative self image. Just keep telling her how beautiful she is. Why mess with perfection?
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:23:08 PM EDT
Heck yeah, bigger the better, well, for me that is.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:26:35 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:35:39 PM EDT
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:38:40 PM EDT
Rodney Carrington says to invest, it's like buying her a fishing rod, you get more use out of it than she does.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:40:08 PM EDT
NO!!! REAL RULES!!! may look good now, but what about in 20 years..are they gonna be the only thing perky on her? even though her breasts are saggin, you will have 4 boobies to play with. tell her to be happy with what she has, and that you love her no matter what! imho, breast implants are a false sense of being.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:45:48 PM EDT
Every body wife that went and had them done. the next step is die-vorce. This is two for two in the last year. don't do it. Badredfish [devil]
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:47:52 PM EDT
no
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:49:07 PM EDT
LET HER?? That sounds a bit over possesive to me. Have YOU created the feeling of inadequacy? Maybe admiring big ones a little too much or complaining about her size? I have dated rubber boob owners and vastly prefer natural - the smaller the better! Like big ones too but least is best! One of the best women I ever dated was FLAT! My attention to the mosquito bites she had turned HER on so much that I had loads of fun. Personally, I could never put a woman I loved through the pain and risk of a boob job.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:51:26 PM EDT
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 5:52:00 PM EDT
if it is not for reconstruction, I would say no.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:03:12 PM EDT
Guys you are for the most part giving me good advice thanks! The main reason she wants it is because her left one is alittle bigger that the right one but you can't tell unless she is undressed. I guess I give the right one a little more attention!!!!!!!!!! Go through the belly button?!! Wow, never knew that....but I have seen girls in porn that have fake ones but no scars.....must be the reason.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:08:13 PM EDT
NO!! my old gal was 23 when she got them. she was hot to begin with, but man, when she got those it was just too weird & too obvious (to the touch). look good, yes! feel good, NO!! just my .02
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:12:28 PM EDT
No.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:14:07 PM EDT
Well, we need before and after pictures, or if anything at least some before pictures before we can decide.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:21:49 PM EDT
Yea your right we need some pix befor I can give a good answer ! ABOUT TEN OF THEM ! [bounce]
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:27:10 PM EDT
Don't ask me how I know this... but fuck yes! The bigger the better. You'll never regret it.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:28:30 PM EDT
Hell no. Nearly every gal who's gotten fake ones that's not a stripper has serious self esteem issues. Make sure your gal isn't one of them.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:37:41 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Q-Man: Tell you wife you think they are perfect the way they are. I think a lot of women have a negative self image. Just keep telling her how beautiful she is. Why mess with perfection?
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I whole-heartedly agree.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:41:40 PM EDT
Within 120 days you'll be alone, brother. Have t_ts, will travel.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:44:01 PM EDT
I wonder who she is thinking of showing them to that she wants them symmetrical? Sorry man, this does not bode well. Bob
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:49:49 PM EDT
For your own sake, NONONONONONONONONONONONO! Unless you guys, ie you and wife, are into open swinging kinda lifestyle, just say no. Every woman I know that has had these done, flashes and flaunts and goes stupid with them. You will not just pay for them, you likely might pay for it with your marriage. Trust me, they will want to show EVERYONE their new plastic toys... they always do...every last one. I dumped a girl after she got them, trust me that these are a red flag about other problems she has in her head. If she is not happy with her body, she will not be happy with herself or YOU. Put your foot down in a nice way and say no chance. My .02 Dram out Silicone sucks!
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:52:44 PM EDT
Since you are undecided about what course of action to take, I recommend a compromise: Get one boob done. If you like it, do the other. See? Even the most complex problems often have simple solutions. Glad I could be of assistance!
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 6:58:39 PM EDT
I have a friend that had it done 3 times. Really, first time to a D second time to a DD then she had them removed and back to D. She is hot regardless of the boobs. If she has them done great, but I would suggest have her go around for a week or two with a stuffed bra or some thing to get her used to the idea. All of a sudden having guys speak to her tits all day can be anoying.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 7:14:48 PM EDT
I've known 2 guys whose wives got augmented. Both of them were separated or divorced within a year of the operation. Both of their wives were getting their meat from a new butcher (or three) just a few weeks after they had healed up. Both wives got the kids, the cars, furniture, and house. Both of the guys got the bills, including the one for the augmentation, and child support payments. Of course, two cases can hardly be considered a case study. It would be interesting if there is a study of what the augmentation : divorce ratio is......
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 7:23:29 PM EDT
Originally Posted By KY-Bob: I wonder who she is thinking of showing them to that she wants them symmetrical? Sorry man, this does not bode well. Bob
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Agreed. And if she goes ahead with this you could be the one with the KY close by (and I don't mean Kentucky). An acquaintance and her boyfriend attended a concert with my wife and I this weekend. She flashed her new/year-old boobs at least twice that night (dang I wish she'd held her shirt up a little longer). What would you think about your wife flashin' ME with her new & improved breasts? Or your buddies? hmmm..... If your wife has these put into her body, what will be the result in 10, 15, 20 years? You do intend on being with her then, right? There have been very serious health problems with the procedure. If you're paying to put them in are you prepared to pay to take them out? Hell, even Pamela Anderson just had them removed. [shock] She WAS blessed to begin with, but absolutely looked better without the implants. I'll take smaller and natural and real, over 'about to have a blowout at any moment' everyday. There could be some 'issues' with your wife prompting this. And some Drastic Unintended Consequences if she has it done. I say avoid it and love what you got.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 7:43:46 PM EDT
I will say, I like em' real...I will also say that 2 of the women I work with have them...i guess I like em' both ways...
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 7:59:04 PM EDT
John, My wife had them done. She loves them, I love them. They used saline & went through the nipple. There is no scar to see, none! Saline is safe if one would break or leak it's the same as intravenous soloution. They put the implant under the breast muscle and that makes them look, and feel natural. She went from a 36 B to a full C they match the rest of her figure perfectly! No divorce court in sight either! I say if she wants them, then it means alot to her and I would pay for them if I were you. Show her you care. Kev
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 8:00:10 PM EDT
A lot of women who get them will like to show them off, and appreciate the new attention they start to get. And not just from you, from all the guys. And that can lead to trouble. Here are some breast implant links : http://www.implantinfo.com http://www.surgeoncosmetic.com http://www.plasticsurgury.org http://www.ienhance.com/procedure/description.asp?BodyID=2&ProcID=26&specialtyid=1 http://www.salcalabro.com/zf02.htm
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 8:32:05 PM EDT
A woman’s perspective: It sounds like this is really important to her. I really do not think there is anything wrong with wanting to look better. I mean, we all try to improve the way we look by taking care of ourselves via the gym and diet; however, breast size is the one thing we cannot control. Surgery is the only answer. As far as her leaving you after she has her “new look” – I think this is bullshit advice. It has nothing to do with other men. It has to do with her wanting to look better for herself. It sounds as if you guys are saying that women with a larger cup size are promiscuous…I have been a D cup since I was 18. I have always been incredibly loyal in relationships – breast size has nothing to do with it! Quite honestly, I have seriously contemplated it over the past two years. Not for augmentation purposes, but for wanting them to look they way they did when I was 18. I think it would be great for your wife to have this done. Good luck in the decision.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 8:36:01 PM EDT
Not that this is your situation...but... My friends (ex) wife wanted a new set of tits because her single girlfriend got a new pair and really started to turn some male heads with them. His wife was very flat chested but out of concern for her safety he told her that he didn't want her to get them and liked her body "au natural". She then proceded to get a title loan on his truck and got it done anyway. She went from being an attractive but flat chested woman to being a very attractive, full figured, well proportioned woman. They had a difference of opinion about the breasts and where the money came from and ended up splitting up. Fine with her as she was getting all the male attention she needed with her new toys.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 8:48:40 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Yankee1911: Since nobody beat me to it... [b]We Need Pics!!! [/b]
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Before and After will do
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 8:49:52 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/29/2003 9:26:41 PM EDT
I think the majority of people here are giving you a great advice. Don't do it, and show her you care for her more than just how she looks.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 10:23:12 PM EDT
The boobjob/divorce ratio is very high...consider this fact closely, you may end up paying for some other fella's earmuffs. The wifey once wanted implants.... " Well, there's a way you can make them grow really huge naturally." Wifey:"Really?..How?" "All you have to do is take some ordinary tissue paper and rub vigorously inbetween your boobs. Wifey: "That's rediculous...that won't work" "Oh yeah?...it apparently worked well on your butt" Look for my next ARFCOM post: {Bigger doghouse or smaller dog..Opinions Please}
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 10:32:08 PM EDT
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 10:37:19 PM EDT
Umm.. you need to remind her that you fell in love with, and married, the person inside, everything else is just gravy. My Wife is very petite. I wouldn't change her for anything. No
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 10:49:24 PM EDT
IMO, small and natural is better than big and fake. AFAIK -- you can ONLY get saline, silicone is banned except for special cases. but i think the bags are still made of silicone with saline filler, but doesnt seem to have any health affects. from what i hear -- going under the muscle is better, or its just skin and implant eeewwww. the belly button technique is possible, but sounds painful. the nipple technique can numb the nipple forever, or make it sooo extra sensitive it hurts. also if you look at enough "Mens Mags/ Sites" you will see enough fake boobs and you will notice THE NIPPLES WERE PUT ON WRONG or COCKEYED. there are such things are BAD BOOB JOBS, small boobs is better than a Permanent bad boob job with nipples that look to the ceiling. this is a medical procedure that is by humans who are not perfect. i think you BOTH need to find a female with fake boobs and hands on examine them, especially the wife so she knows what shes getting into. ive heard that you can feel the edge of the bag under the skin on some. ive heard soooooo many women say they want boobs "for themselves", well pre-boob job that may be true, post boob job its NOT!!! many women get desire to show off there new boobs. playboy model jenny mcCarthy in her book talked about waking up in the middle of her operation, she has since had the boobs removed. the wrestler chyna broke one of her boobs and had to go back "under" to get it fixed, although breaking for anyone normal would be extremely rare. to Gypsey -- i have no doubt that you have always been faithful in your relationships, and i applaud you for that. but you didnt go from a B to a D, and feel discouraged about being small like many pre-op women do. im not saying a guys wife is gonna leave him soon after the boob job, but when a person makes an improvement upon themselves they want to show off to other people and get there opinions, whether it be a boob job or a new hair style or dress. i suggest to the guys wife that she wear an enhancing bra or bra inserts to lift her more and see how she and HE likes the extra attention from other guys that she gets.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 11:01:00 PM EDT
Originally Posted By TREETOP: You guys want some pics? How about these? [url]www.siliconeholocaust.org[/url]
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You AND YOUR WIFE study those pics and stories carefully. Is it really worth that risk?
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 11:18:34 PM EDT
I preface these remarks by saying that I am not trying to come across like a jerk w/ all the answers/smart mouth: Why? Is she jealous of other women? Is she not getting what she needs from you. Or from others by way of attention and affirmation? Does she have self-esteem issues that she thinks that she can solve by putting something foreign into her body. Who is she trying to please? Will this really make her happy? Is she just setting her self up for failure by attaching all of her aspriations of high self-esteem to a pair of salt water filled fun bags? Do you have any children? Are you planning to have any(more) kids? I guess one way to look at this situation is through the eyes of a child, preferabbly her own -- will her children love her any more or any less after she gets bigger boobs? What about you? I would wager that her children would love her unconditionally, the same way they loved her before-the same way that you should love her and the same way that she should love herself. To each his own, but the whole process/result seems a little disturbing to me.
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 11:28:07 PM EDT
a good boob job will cost ya $5000.00, thats three nice ARs and lots of goodies. plus the ARs wont leave with her when u get divorced, and another man wont be handling your hard earned doe. I'd go with the ARs!
Link Posted: 5/29/2003 11:31:47 PM EDT
a b cup is perfect. i'm not really religous but i think plastic surgery is pure evil. anybody that needs/wants to go under the knife has some serious issues.
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