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Posted: 2/14/2016 9:29:55 PM EDT
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Been married for 9 years and have an 8 year old son together. I pulled the eject lever and told her we are getting a divorce. I am fucking done http://assets.atlasobscura.com/article_images/800x/16600/image.jpg 
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Posted: 2/14/2016 9:38:51 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Why? or is it a secret ,like you love banging trannies or something Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Good call. i am much happier since i ejected. |
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Posted: 2/14/2016 9:49:15 PM EDT
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Could have at least gotten her a V Day card...
Roses are Red, Violets are Blue... You've been a Bitch.... baby we're through. |
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Posted: 2/14/2016 10:12:41 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm kinda in the same place. Married 18 years, the wife has become a nag, never happy with anything and I'm working my ass off while she sits at home and bitches. I've got three kids though, 14, 9 and 3, no way I can bail on them so I've decided to stick it out. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Been married for 9 years and have an 8 year old son together. I pulled the eject lever and told her we are getting a divorce. I am fucking done http://assets.atlasobscura.com/article_images/800x/16600/image.jpg Better than Christmas morning or her birthday I suppose.. You'll recover brother, it's the first day of getting your life back. I know I have been done for a while so it is not as hard for me as it is going to be on my boy, I got a divorce in 2009 I have two girls, they were 1.5 and 3.5 years old when it happened. Now in 2016, the girls are my best little buddies. I think it's better the kiddos are not around the fighting than to stay together and expose him to all the BS. My ex-wife moved on and I have the best new wifey unit in the world. Takes a little time, however being that you're the one who called it quits, you are in a lot better position to move on, wish you the best bro! |
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Posted: 2/14/2016 10:14:00 PM EDT
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I promise you faithfully,,, I HATE to hear this stuff, too many here........''Until death do us part''....... So, he should have killed her then? |
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Posted: 2/14/2016 11:45:12 PM EDT
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Bro, enjoy your freedom, keep the next one at arm's distance, stay in control
Is that a Hind in your avatar? |
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Posted: 2/14/2016 11:52:15 PM EDT
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Quitters never win... They do in divorces |
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Posted: 2/14/2016 11:55:16 PM EDT
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Best of luck brother!
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:03:28 AM EDT
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Did you give her a nice poem?
Roses are red Violets are blue Valentines day sucks And so do you. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:07:16 AM EDT
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Only you and god know if you tried hard enough.
I'm not going to judge you for your decision. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:14:56 AM EDT
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They do in divorces Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Quitters never win... They do in divorces 
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:18:53 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Why? or is it a secret ,like you love banging trannies or something Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Yep. It sucks when you don't fell like you matter. My ex told me that "I ruined her life" when the SHTF. Not our life together. Not our marriage. Just her life.  |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:20:52 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I'm kinda in the same place. Married 18 years, the wife has become a nag, never happy with anything and I'm working my ass off while she sits at home and bitches. I've got three kids though, 14, 9 and 3, no way I can bail on them so I've decided to stick it out. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Been married for 9 years and have an 8 year old son together. I pulled the eject lever and told her we are getting a divorce. I am fucking done http://assets.atlasobscura.com/article_images/800x/16600/image.jpg Better than Christmas morning or her birthday I suppose.. You'll recover brother, it's the first day of getting your life back. I know I have been done for a while so it is not as hard for me as it is going to be on my boy, I got a divorce in 2009 I have two girls, they were 1.5 and 3.5 years old when it happened. Now in 2016, the girls are my best little buddies. I think it's better the kiddos are not around the fighting than to stay together and expose him to all the BS. My ex-wife moved on and I have the best new wifey unit in the world. Takes a little time, however being that you're the one who called it quits, you are in a lot better position to move on, wish you the best bro! You don't have to bail on your kids if you get a divorce. I have my kids every other week and it works out great. From my point of view, we could have shared, equal c custody or they could live with me. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:25:21 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Why? or is it a secret ,like you love banging trannies or something Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Prayers sent for your family. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:31:35 AM EDT
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8 year old involved. I would encourage you to try compromise and selflessness a little longer. It about more than the two of you. Best wishes. I hope it doesn't have to end this way, for these reasons. Prayers sent for your family. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Why? or is it a secret ,like you love banging trannies or something Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Prayers sent for your family. I appreciate the prayers, really. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:32:01 AM EDT
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I feel sorry for your kid.
Prepare yourself for another guy trying to be her dad. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:34:14 AM EDT
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I feel sorry for your kid. Prepare yourself for another guy trying to be her dad. LOL, she is a he and he has a father that he loves and is loved by. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:38:40 AM EDT
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Pretty big Dick move to do it on V-day. No, it is not. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:50:52 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: No, it is not. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Pretty big Dick move to do it on V-day. No, it is not. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 12:55:13 AM EDT
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Posted: 2/15/2016 1:03:45 AM EDT
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Been married for 9 years and have an 8 year old son together. I pulled the eject lever and told her we are getting a divorce. I am fucking done http://assets.atlasobscura.com/article_images/800x/16600/image.jpg We celebrated on totally opposite end of the spectrum. You ejected and my wife suggested a trip to the titty bar and I obliged. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 1:06:21 AM EDT
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How'd she take the news? She as relieved as you are? Well OP, how did she take the news? |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 1:13:43 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Why? or is it a secret ,like you love banging trannies or something Nope no trannys, just tired of fighting every night, tired of not being important Ok ok. you're important to us. Please don't leave us! Sorry couldn't help myself. How are you holding up? |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 1:18:41 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Quitters never win... If you are headed off a cliff quitting while you have dirt underneath you is a good thing. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 2:00:27 AM EDT
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I broke up with a girl on Valentine's Day in 2004. We'd been together for 3 years at that point. We had even talked about getting married.
The whole time we were together, she kept getting bitchier and bitchier. She kept complaining about the things her mom did to her dad, then she'd turn around and do those things to me. Every time I pointed that out to her, we'd have a huge fight. I decided it was time to dump her. I knew it was Valentine's Day, but I was raised right. My own mother called it a "Hallmark holiday." My parents showed love for each other every day of the year. They didn't need a special day to be nice to each other. This December will be their 50th anniversary. Thanks to them, I grew up with an example of true love, and I knew I didn't have to put up with any bullshit. Asshole behavior has no place in a healthy relationship. So I dumped her ass. Best decision I ever made. I knew it was Valentine's Day, but if you gotta dump an asshole, any day's as good as another. She cried, she yelled, she brought up what day it was. I said it didn't matter. I told her the same thing I told bullies when I beat their asses in grade school: I warned you. I kept dumping bitches until I met the woman of my dreams in 2011. I thank the good Lord that I dumped those bitches. My wife is cool as hell, and I can't imagine being without her. I make her happy, and she makes me happy. Keep it up, OP. Never give up. "There's a lid for every pot." |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 2:11:00 AM EDT
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Brutal OP, hope you find what you need man.
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Posted: 2/15/2016 2:58:21 AM EDT
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How'd she take the news? She as relieved as you are? she is distraught, it sucks there is nothing I can do to help. I have been preparing so it is differnt for me just because I want a divorce does not mean that I dont have some love for her, she is a good human being, just a horrible wife. She is worthy of my respect but I know she will not ever do what I need. To her I am secondary to her career, jazzercise and any number of other excuses |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 2:59:00 AM EDT
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LOL, she is a he and he has a father that he loves and is loved by. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I feel sorry for your kid. Prepare yourself for another guy trying to be her dad. LOL, she is a he and he has a father that he loves and is loved by. That's my only advice, be there for your kid. My ex said he would and well... |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:10:13 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Well, he's spending more than I did this weekend. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Saved money on chocolates, I suppose And roses. Well, he's spending more than I did this weekend. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 6:21:53 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: she is distraught, it sucks there is nothing I can do to help. I have been preparing so it is differnt for me just because I want a divorce does not mean that I dont have some love for her, she is a good human being, just a horrible wife. She is worthy of my respect but I know she will not ever do what I need. To her I am secondary to her career, jazzercise and any number of other excuses Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: How'd she take the news? She as relieved as you are? she is distraught, it sucks there is nothing I can do to help. I have been preparing so it is differnt for me just because I want a divorce does not mean that I dont have some love for her, she is a good human being, just a horrible wife. She is worthy of my respect but I know she will not ever do what I need. To her I am secondary to her career, jazzercise and any number of other excuses |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 7:50:21 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: she is distraught, it sucks there is nothing I can do to help. I have been preparing so it is differnt for me just because I want a divorce does not mean that I dont have some love for her, she is a good human being, just a horrible wife. She is worthy of my respect but I know she will not ever do what I need. To her I am secondary to her career, jazzercise and any number of other excuses Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: How'd she take the news? She as relieved as you are? she is distraught, it sucks there is nothing I can do to help. I have been preparing so it is differnt for me just because I want a divorce does not mean that I dont have some love for her, she is a good human being, just a horrible wife. She is worthy of my respect but I know she will not ever do what I need. To her I am secondary to her career, jazzercise and any number of other excuses |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 8:09:37 AM EDT
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Pretty big Dick move to do it on V-day. It's just like any other day. |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 8:40:30 AM EDT
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Not really sure what to say here so....sorry to hear that.
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Posted: 2/15/2016 8:41:11 AM EDT
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Sucks op. Hope it works out.
I'm in a similar situation right now but I can't bring myself to leave, though my wife is contemplating leaving, again. We have a 3yr old girl and we argue a lot, mostly about sex, or the lack there of. We get along great when we go out or are just hanging out but she bitches about everything, won't put out, and expects me to be happy... |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 8:56:24 AM EDT
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I know where you're head is at OP.
I had my 105lb tumor removed (i.e., divorce from Ex-Mrs. Pilum) when I was in my early 30's. Misery does not begin to describe where I was before the divorce. It was literally the beginning of a new life. My only regret is that I waited so long to do it. (Oh yeah, and I miss 'dem big Asian boobies sometimes. She was a nutcase-brat and a bitch, but damn, she was good to look at....but I digress) |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 8:58:04 AM EDT
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Still bitter over the divorce. Told the GF I had no fucking desire to celebrate Valentine's day, and I have to work nights, and I'm sick.
She responded with a text saying "I miss the happy you, I'm afraid he may be gone." |
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Posted: 2/15/2016 9:02:33 AM EDT
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I once threatened divorce on our 10 year anniversary, sometimes special days just brings things to a head. Good luck op.
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