For those of you who don't mind.  I find that no matter what someone makes, it is all divied out
until everyone has a very similar amount left over each month.  Also, the variances in costs of living across the nation is astounding.  You can cut and paste to make it easier.  I put mine here in descending order:

Mortgage:............. $400
"Charity":...............    250
Investments:...........   140
Auto insurance:........   100 (2 cars, wife and I under 25 years)
Cell phone:..............   80
Power:...................    75
Cable/internet:.........     45
Water:...................     13
Gas:........................     8 summer, ~$100 winter
No car payment (thank God)
                                   ----------
Total:......................   ~$1,100

House ~$400
Electric >50
water 15
insurance 100
Gas for car~150
Food ~200
Cellphone ~70
Cable  55

401K deduction (dont see).............$400
required mortgage payment:......... $1022
utiliies (varies)..................................$200
cable tv/cable modem.......................$100
escrow for real estate taxes/HOA....$300
walking around money/food/gas.......$400
cell phone.............................................$28
auto insurance.....................................$80
truck payment...................................$515

left over $ get stashed towards savings, mortgage principle, buying stuff, usually gun stuff