I’m a military retiree and have gone through the VA. I will say there is more misunderstanding, misinformation and outright fabrications that seem to be perpetuated by veterans and the public. When I was waiting for my rating I heard every bit of bullshit out of people until I finally started asking people, “When did you file your claim or when was the last time you even went to a VA hospital?” It turns out people think they know more than they really know about the VA and how benefits are set up for people.
What some folks fail to realize is even though they were rated at 0%, that means the condition is service related and gives you access to medical care, not a revenue stream.
OP, play the game and get your wrists fixed. The VA is on the hook for it. Best of luck to you and I hope you get better soon.