[ARCHIVED THREAD] - First date (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 8/3/2016 10:19:59 PM EDT
| Ok to tell her she's attractive and you like her? or is that moving too fast? |
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Quoted: Ok to tell her she's attractive and you like her? or is that moving too fast? That's not moving too fast, that is call moving too STUPID. Seriously, when you first meet someone you don't give her gifts, complement her beauty, and act like a fool who is already in love. You can go ahead and do that but you will be reporting back that you never heard from her again. Attraction is not a choice, meaning you need words and gifts to buy her attention in a vain attempt to create attraction. Some things that do create attraction are a strong confident man, a man that takes charge, someone that has a little mystery around them, someone that creates anticipation, a sense of adventure...etc. Telling a girl on the first date she is beautiful and you like her is the exact opposite of "mystery and anticipation". That is needy clingy behavior. It conveys that you are nothing special, have nothing to offer, you doubt your own self, so you are trying to buy her attention with gifts and compliments. The first date should be you living your life, doing things the way you would do them, all while interacting with this girl to see how well she fits into your life. That's it. No stress, no gifts, no compliments with the intention of trying to trick her into liking you, just be real and live life. |
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.. I Like you...A Lot..
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Don't monopolize the conversation. Don't talk too much about yourself. Ask her about her interests. Trust me on this. 50+ years later, I'm still kicking myself about what I did wrong on a first (and second) date with a very special young lady. My whole life would have different, if that had worked out. (Maybe I was just punching above my weight class, and had no chance to begin with.)
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Jerk off on her during your Hot Pocket and Klondike Bar culinary adventure. If she doesn't leave, you're fine. If she licks it off, have her snap her retainer back in, Velcro her shoe straps up and introduce her to your mother. I knew there would be a good response somewhere 
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Women are freakin' weird.
I've been fucking this woman every which way...mouth, vagina, ass, doesn't matter. She said she wanted a relationship, and said she would feel better about X, Y, and Z. Y was for us to become facebook friends. My facebook is locked down really tight privacy wise. She brought up the facebook thing again so I sent her a facebook friend request. She got it and snooped on my facebook page. Then she weirded out on me. As far as I know we aren't facebook friends, but she still let me fuck her in the ass Sunday night. I only got two pieces of dating advice from my divorced parents. From my mom: "do not make yourself TOO available." It makes you look like you don't have a life and you're desperate. The other piece of advice I got from my father was what I call the "monkey tree rule". Monkey's don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grasp on the next branch or vine. So women don't ditch one man until they have the next victim in their sights. My best piece of advice for the OP is to act like "meh" that this chic is no one special. |
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Came here to post this. |
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Quoted: Women are freakin' weird. I've been fucking this woman every which way...mouth, vagina, ass, doesn't matter. She said she wanted a relationship, and said she would feel better about X, Y, and Z. Y was for us to become facebook friends. My facebook is locked down really tight privacy wise. She brought up the facebook thing again so I sent her a facebook friend request. She got it and snooped on my facebook page. Then she weirded out on me. As far as I know we aren't facebook friends, but she still let me fuck her in the ass Sunday night. I only got two pieces of dating advice from my divorced parents. From my mom: "do not make yourself TOO available." It makes you look like you don't have a life and you're desperate. The other piece of advice I got from my father was what I call the "monkey tree rule". Monkey's don't let go of one branch until they have a firm grasp on the next branch or vine. So women don't ditch one man until they have the next victim in their sights. My best piece of advice for the OP is to act like "meh" that this chic is no one special. Brb. |