Its not so much that I need my wife's permission in that we agreed years ago when it came to large purchases, anything over a couple hundred bucks we'd discuss it with each other.
My wife is the most undertanding woman I know. I thought I had alot of cool stuff before I met her. But I was also living paycheck to paycheck.
With her handling the finances, we have a house, 3 cars, and I have 2 motorcycles.
She is very supportive of my hobbies only wishing they weren't so expensive. As an example, we went to a gun show yesterday. Was only going to pick up some ammo, came home with ammo and a complete lower. She got me an HK USP Tactical for Xmas.
So she's not controlling or anything like that, just wants to make sure we have the necesitees first and something for retirement....