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Posted: 1/12/2012 3:22:35 PM EDT
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Fuck her, fuck her friends, fuck her friends boyfriend.
I am not being literal. Who the fuck, at the age of 26, tells someone that you aren't their normal type? Are will still freshmen in college? Ditch the bitch and find someone with their shit squared. People need to grow the fuck up. |
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Fuck her, fuck her friends, fuck her friends boyfriend. I am not being literal. Who the fuck, at the age of 26, tells someone that you aren't their normal type? Are will still freshmen in college? Ditch the bitch and find someone with their shit squared. People need to grow the fuck up. It doesn't get much more clear than this 
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I’m fucked. The fact I’m leaving for Ft Benning for 4 months soon isn’t helping either. First off, you're not even invested in this relationship, 1.5mos? Good grief. Go sack a buncha strange and leave for duty a free man. Yeah that is what I have been doing for the past year. I was kinda ready for a mature adult relatiohship... Guess its back to banging coeds.
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Fuck her, fuck her friends, fuck her friends boyfriend. I am not being literal. Who the fuck, at the age of 26, tells someone that you aren't their normal type? Are will still freshmen in college? Ditch the bitch and find someone with their shit squared. People need to grow the fuck up. Hell yeah.. 
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If you want to hang on to her, remind her that although you may not be her usual type "How does it usually work out with her usual type?" That is to say, they've all ended, maybe even badly. She's changed her game up by going out with you, she needs to stick it out and see if it's a good change.
Otherwise, see if you can get in her friend's pants. 
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I really don't want to offend any service members, but do you think her friends are sowing the seeds of discontent using some Marine Stereotypes? Purely ignorant of course as you sound like you're an accomplished person, but girls probably generalize the same as men do. In the end I think your upcoming deployment is the culprit here. Just my opinion though. |
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You are way too young to be that serious anyway. Oh really? My parents were married at 22, and I was born when they were 25. The time to get serious is when you feel its time, it isn't always related to age. To the OP, it sounds like she is doing you a favor by ignoring you. If she is too naive to see what her friend is doing to the relationship then she's too immature for a real relationship. |
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You are way too young to be that serious anyway. Oh really? My parents were married at 22, and I was born when they were 25. The time to get serious is when you feel its time, it isn't always related to age. To the OP, it sounds like she is doing you a favor by ignoring you. If she is too naive to see what her friend is doing to the relationship then she's too immature for a real relationship. Yes. Most if not all 20 something's are still finding out who they really are as a person. As they grow, they find out that they may be married to an entirely different person they married. It makes marriage a great deal more difficult. I married when I was 22 also, my oldest is almost 18 now. My wife and I are two entirely different people from when we were 22. It's been very stressful on our relationship at times, over the last 20yrs. We've made it work, but it hasn't been easy, and starting out so young made it more difficult. |
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You are way too young to be that serious anyway. Oh really? My parents were married at 22, and I was born when they were 25. The time to get serious is when you feel its time, it isn't always related to age. To the OP, it sounds like she is doing you a favor by ignoring you. If she is too naive to see what her friend is doing to the relationship then she's too immature for a real relationship. Yes. Most if not all 20 something's are still finding out who they really are as a person. As they grow, they find out that they may be married to an entirely different person they married. It makes marriage a great deal more difficult. I married when I was 22 also, my oldest is almost 18 now. My wife and I are two entirely different people from when we were 22. It's been very stressful on our relationship at times, over the last 20yrs. We've made it work, but it hasn't been easy, and starting out so young made it more difficult. Starting out older makes it more difficult, because you're both set in your ways. It's difficult because it's hard work in the best of times, like anything worth having. Choosing poorly makes the difference, not your age. |
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Not posting this to get advice... I have been around the block to know when I'm fucked. I'm just posting this as an example for the younger crowd, so they aren't shocked when it happens to them. I knew better and ignored the rules, so its my own damn fault. So the girl I have been seeing for about a month and a half decided to introduce me to her friends this past weekend. She is a former sorority girl .... Insert tires screeching to a halt mwav here <Title edit. Please read the Conduct Code regarding profanity in thread titles. ––tbk1> Actually I think I may have spotted fuck up #1. |
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Ask her to come with you down to Ft Benning; see if she is willing to get away from the girlfriend; but don't make her out to be the enemy. Its a hail mary, but it may work. Not a chance in hell. Has a job here. Its only 4 months. I personally thought it would be a great test for the relationship. Military couples need to be as good apart as we are together, and if she can handle 4 months with me in Georgia when the relationship is young, she just might be able to handle me in a combat zone for 7 months down the road at some point. I guess she is saving me the future headache and heartache. 
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Ask her to come with you down to Ft Benning; see if she is willing to get away from the girlfriend; but don't make her out to be the enemy. Its a hail mary, but it may work. Not a chance in hell. Has a job here. Its only 4 months. I personally thought it would be a great test for the relationship. Military couples need to be as good apart as we are together, and if she can handle 4 months with me in Georgia when the relationship is young, she just might be able to handle me in a combat zone for 7 months down the road at some point. I guess she is saving me the future headache and heartache.
It's a shitty deal, but like I said earlier at least you found out early. My brother had a wife that thought of him and the kids more as accesories and sources of goodies than anything else. She fucked him and the kids up pretty bad before she left. He's in much better shape now that she's gone, the kids are fed, clean, and on time and she's begging rent money on her facebook page. You dodged a bullet dude. Have a beer and relax. |
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Not posting this to get advice... I have been around the block to know when I'm fucked. I'm just posting this as an example for the younger crowd, so they aren't shocked when it happens to them. I knew better and ignored the rules, so its my own damn fault. So the girl I have been seeing for about a month and a half decided to introduce me to her friends this past weekend. She is a former sorority girl, and has a lot of close girlfriends. I knew this might be the end of me, but it was a necessary step in the evolution of the relationship. So I hung out with her friend and her friends boyfriend last Saturday night.(Mistake #1) Everything went great, had a good time, there was even a little bit of hanky panky that went on toward the end of the night. At one point I asked her what her friend thought of me.... (mistake #2) Her- "Well...." Me- "what is it..." Her-"Well her boyfriend thinks you’re a great guy, but Kristen is a little concerned because you’re not my normal type." Me-"Ok... You mean I'm not a douche bag? What is your normal type?" Her-"Well... I mean I normally always date older finance type guys... and you’re the opposite of that." (I'm on leave from my full time firefighter job to serve active duty in the Marines for the moment, I'm 25, and she is 26) I didn't think too much of it at the time, kind of like... "Oh well her old boyfriends were probably all giant pussies." Looking back now it should have been obvious... Her friend’s boyfriend, although a good guy who I got along with, was a bit out of his league. He was a bit overweight and sort of a loser, while his girlfriend was very hot and looking to settle. When my girl's friend saw me, jealousy took over. I'm no Brad Pitt, but I'm can run a 290 PFT and look the part of a Marine. I've also got my shit together and have accomplished more than most at my age. So what did the jealous friend do? Sabotage our relationship. Nothing is for sure yet, but I’ve been doing the girl thing long enough to know when things are amiss in a relationship. All of the sudden there are no texts or phone calls. When I mentioned hanging out this weekend, I got the “I need to check with my girlfriend” line. I’m fucked. The fact I’m leaving for Ft Benning for 4 months soon isn’t helping either. So now it’s the ignore her and wait game, but I know it isn’t good. She went out that next day dress shopping with all her girlfriends, and I know what happened, they collectively fucked me. Oh well, onward in the search for a girl that isn’t a dumbass. <Title edit. Please read the Conduct Code regarding profanity in thread titles. ––tbk1> tap the ex-gf's hot friends ass friend's ass, send pix |
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Premptively start ignoring her. She'll be all over you again in no time. This could work. Also this would be the time to try out that shit that you thought would be too freaky as long as she isn't from your regular circle of friends. Quoted:
Sorority girl Sorority girl Wow, just wow. What does this mean? Does she usually find dates through backpage? |