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5/3/2011 5:32:03 PM EDT
So my wife is having bad back pain at night.  It usually starts as she is laying down within the first 15 minutes.  The obvious answer would be the mattress, however she does not have the same problem when she lays down to take a nap in the afternoon when our son goes down.  That makes me think maybe it is not the mattress, since its only at night and not any time she lays down.



So anyone got any ideas?  What would make her back hurt at night when she lays down, but not any other time?  Any ideas are welcome...
5/3/2011 5:33:58 PM EDT
[#1]
have her try a pillow under her knees. If she's a side sleeper have her put one between her legs. See if that helps.
5/3/2011 5:34:11 PM EDT
[#2]
I'm assuming she is lying down on her back?  Has she tried sleeping with a pillow under her knees?  Could be that simple.  If I sleep on my back without a pillow under my knees, I wake up with lower back pain.



ETA:  13 seconds!

5/3/2011 5:35:45 PM EDT
[#3]
Soda/Caffeine? I've heard of people getting pains in their back/kidneys from this. I used to have issues, but a new mattress helped me. A vest really fucks up your back over time.
5/3/2011 5:35:58 PM EDT
[#4]
She needs to do sit-ups and leg-lifts to strengthen her abdominal muscles,  This will help alleviate her lumbar pain.
5/3/2011 5:37:32 PM EDT
[#5]
Could be gallbladder or kidney stones depending on where pain comes from.Only a guess as I do not know all the specifics.
5/3/2011 5:38:56 PM EDT
[#6]
Might check her shoes. Maybe they pitch her forward or something and she compensates by contorting her back.
5/3/2011 5:45:33 PM EDT
[#7]



Quoted:


have her try a pillow under her knees. If she's a side sleeper have her put one between her legs. See if that helps.


This is what I do. I hurt my back at work years ago, and the PT had me sleep on my side with a pillow between my legs. Anytime my back even twinges, I start doing that again. Really helps.





 
5/3/2011 6:08:14 PM EDT
[#8]
Wife speak for no sex. Her back is fine.
5/3/2011 6:17:52 PM EDT
[#9]
Get your dick out of her butt.
5/3/2011 6:22:29 PM EDT
[#10]
I have been accustom to some degree of back pain for years, UP until February of this year.  I started working out, stretching my hamstrings and back every day, and I'm a new man.  I also invested in a TempurPedic mattress (tempur cloud luxe) which has worked wonders.  4 of the guys I work with swear by these mattresses, and now I'm an unofficial salesman.  You'll get sticker shock though.
5/3/2011 6:25:50 PM EDT
[#11]
Memory Foam is the greatest substance ever made..... and  pillow between her knees.



Has the back pain been since she bore your kid?  Could be herniated disc, sciatica, etc.



If it continues, see the doctor.
5/3/2011 6:43:27 PM EDT
[#12]



Quoted:


Wife speak for no sex. Her back is fine.
Thats not a problem, we're pretty regular about that.  



Alright, seems like the pillow thing has gotten alot of supporters, I'll suggest that to her.  I know she did that when she was pregnant with our son, but she might need to try it again.



Would flipping the mattress or getting a new one help maybe?