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Posted: 7/14/2001 10:27:23 PM EDT
ladies: There have been two threads recently--basically, what turns guys on and off. What do you ladies find attractive (a turn on) and unattractive (a turn off) in the guys you see. Even if you are married, you still look. (This may actually be a help to a few of our single members--you know who you are).
Link Posted: 7/14/2001 10:29:14 PM EDT
Oh Crap!!! Head for the hills guys!!!!!![:D]
Link Posted: 7/14/2001 10:51:17 PM EDT
Please???? I'm a pathetically insecure, grossly overweight, balding man with bad teeth and body odor. Please help me with some pointers. please, pleeeeeaaaaaaase!!! [8P]
Link Posted: 7/14/2001 11:26:34 PM EDT
First off don't try to model yourself to a woman, all you will do is end up divorced after a few years. To answer your question............ bro, ladies love what ladies love. Its as complicated and as simple as that. Hell I once hung around a girl that judged her men on their feet. Now where that came from I have no freakin idea, but thats how it is. My advice to the single guys here is FUCK IT, be yourselves, if the girl don't like you....then so be it. Why front for a few months or years just to get dogged? Your much better off relaxing and being your true self, anything else is just wasting your time.
Link Posted: 7/14/2001 11:32:35 PM EDT
if a woman wont accept for who i am then she isnt my type and i would never waste my tiem on her. and Ladies please dont try to CHANGE us its just gonna end in a messy divorce or a long and crappy marrige (sorry for typos)
Link Posted: 7/14/2001 11:38:26 PM EDT
I'll carry on, if your the shy guy of the room........ be the shy guy, the shy girl is there ya just gotta find each other. Always, always stay yourself, that is the upmost end all be all of any kind of relationship. The divorce rate in this country is a direct result of the fake people in this country. They wake up 10 yrs from now and realize they hate each other, wanna know why????????? the face, tits, and dick got em in trouble..they forgot about the soul. I forgot to mention:,,, stay yourself and you will be fine, front and your fucked.
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 12:06:27 AM EDT
[Last Edit: 7/15/2001 12:03:07 AM EDT by Q-Man]
No ladies have responded yet? We need more female members. In fact, we should have an AR15.com dating forum. [:)]
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 5:17:35 AM EDT
Originally Posted By 101_proof: The divorce rate in this country is a direct result of the fake people in this country. They wake up 10 yrs from now and realize they hate each other, wanna know why????????? the face, tits, and dick got em in trouble..they forgot about the soul.
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Have [i]you[/i] been married and divorced? No? Hmmmmm.... just curious what makes you such an expert. [rolleyes] Having been in the situation I can say your theory is flawed... marriages break up for a lot of reasons. Mine did NOT break up because either one of us was "fake." I don't think anyone can accurately generalize ONE reason why. As for what women find attractive? Each woman is different... as for myself? I do like tall, dark and handsome... but more importantly, I like wit, intelligence, confidence, playfulness, thoughtfulness and integrity. With me, if a guy can keep me mentally interested and challenged, I'm hooked. [:D]
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 5:33:03 AM EDT
Originally Posted By 101_proof: I'll carry on, if your the shy guy of the room........ be the shy guy, the shy girl is there ya just gotta find each other. Always, always stay yourself, that is the upmost end all be all of any kind of relationship. The divorce rate in this country is a direct result of the fake people in this country. They wake up 10 yrs from now and realize they hate each other, wanna know why????????? the face, tits, and dick got em in trouble..they forgot about the soul. I forgot to mention:,,, stay yourself and you will be fine, front and your fucked.
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Question......why are there so many "phonies" out there then???????
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 5:56:36 AM EDT
Originally Posted By black&green: Question......why are there so many "phonies" out there then???????
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I think people want to connect but they are afraid of rejection. And, to be honest, the majority of people you meet will not be compatible with you. I think after a while you get a bit jaded and build some pretty efficient self-defense mechanisms.. being "phony"... projecting an image. The only way around these barriers is time and trust and being with the right person who makes you want to make the effort.
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 11:14:03 AM EDT
Originally posted by Q-man: No ladies have responded yet?
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read on...
Originally posted by Phoenix5: Oh Crap!!! Head for the hills guys!!!!!!
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granted, this was meant for fun, i realize that.
Originally posted by 101_proof: First off don't try to model yourself to a woman, all you will do is end up divorced after a few years. To answer your question............ bro, ladies love what ladies love. Its as complicated and as simple as that. Hell I once hung around a girl that judged her men on their feet. Now where that came from I have no freakin idea, but thats how it is. My advice to the single guys here is FUCK IT, be yourselves, if the girl don't like you....then so be it. Why front for a few months or years just to get dogged? Your much better off relaxing and being your true self, anything else is just wasting your time.
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and more from 101_proof:
I'll carry on, if your the shy guy of the room........ be the shy guy, the shy girl is there ya just gotta find each other. Always, always stay yourself, that is the upmost end all be all of any kind of relationship. The divorce rate in this country is a direct result of the fake people in this country. They wake up 10 yrs from now and realize they hate each other, wanna know why????????? the face, tits, and dick got em in trouble..they forgot about the soul. I forgot to mention:,,, stay yourself and you will be fine, front and your fucked.
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and....
Originally posted by cyrax777: if a woman wont accept for who i am then she isnt my type and i would never waste my tiem on her. and Ladies please dont try to CHANGE us its just gonna end in a messy divorce or a long and crappy marrige
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we don't need to answer. you guys either don't care or already have the answer! [:D]
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 11:44:44 AM EDT
I'd like to hear a ladies answer, I have been married to the same person for over 20 years. Have I got her figuered out? Not by a long shot!But she knows all the buttens to push, wither to piss me off or get me off.
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 11:47:48 AM EDT
Originally Posted By Miss Magnum: As for what women find attractive? Each woman is different... as for myself? I do like tall, dark and handsome
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Aww man! I am short, haven't been to the beach in decades and Michael Jackson wanted to put me on display next to his elephant man skeleton.
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 12:36:04 PM EDT
i guess i could answer the question. turn-ons: in no particular order. intelligence, fabulous sense of humor, ability to understand sarcasm, sensitive to the differences in people, thoughtful, humility (something to balance my arrogance, i guess) turn-offs: too skinny, holier-than-thou attitudes (i guess i don't like to see too much of myself in him, a little self-deprecating humor there), an attitude that tells me i'm lucky he picked me over all the other possibilities, liberal/socialist leanings (actually that's really high on the list)
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 12:42:57 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Miss Magnum:
Originally Posted By black&green: Question......why are there so many "phonies" out there then???????
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I think people want to connect but they are afraid of rejection. And, to be honest, the majority of people you meet will not be compatible with you. I think after a while you get a bit jaded and build some pretty efficient self-defense mechanisms.. being "phony"... projecting an image. The only way around these barriers is time and trust and being with the right person who makes you want to make the effort.
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I really like your explanation.....BUT...key word....right person......after being married a long time...then divorced......FEW AND FAR BETWEEN....as the saying goes!!!!!!!![smoke]
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 12:55:53 PM EDT
The ladies here are exceptional. But some how I just don't think they are A-typical of your average woman you come into contact with. If they were there would be a shortage of tree hugging, money grubbing, soccer moms. There isn't. My hats off to the ladies here, I wish there were more around like you, sadly, there isn't enough of you to go around.
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 1:39:40 PM EDT
I hate salesman types, makes me wonder why the hard sell. Dress neat, shirt tucked in, pride in your appearance, but not vain.
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 1:48:05 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Jennifer: Dress neat,[b] shirt tucked in[/b], pride in your appearance, but not vain.
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How am I supposed to hide my CCW with my shirt tucked in? [;)]
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 6:06:14 PM EDT
Originally Posted By 700PSS: How am I supposed to hide my CCW with my shirt tucked in? [;)]
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Shoulder holster under a blazer or leather jacket.. [:D] Oh.. forgot my "turnoffs"... - Men who belittle women under the guise of being a "gentleman" - Yeasty body odor [puke] - Men who, after just meeting me and learning I have horses, claim they need to come out to my place to show me how to [i]really[/i] ride a horse. [rolleyes] - Guys who constantly seek reassurance of my acceptance of them OR guys who are too thin-skinned and can't take being razzed - Guys who only call at 2am... when they're drunk... [-!-]
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 6:12:59 PM EDT
Link Posted: 7/15/2001 6:38:37 PM EDT
Originally Posted By Miss Magnum:
Originally Posted By 700PSS: How am I supposed to hide my CCW with my shirt tucked in? [;)]
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Shoulder holster under a blazer or leather jacket.. [:D]
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Nope, that won't work, I carry strong side only. Besides, blazers are too hot in the summer, and as far as I'm concerned, leather is reserved for the bike or cockpit. [:P]
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