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I appreciate the feedback gents. He's 14, and I love watching him blow away the competition on Call of Duty: Modern Warfare. He plays online and does pretty well at it. Some things about that game just seem so, well, realistic.
COD: World at War seems more graphic. He enjoys it, but it is kind of a letdown compared to Modern Warfare.
The language doesn't bother him, as he spent the last three years hanging out with my friends from all over II MEF (mostly 2/2, 2/8, 3/8, and 1/6) and their language and stories were, shall we say, colorful.
The best part, for me anyway, was taking him out to the OTA here in Idaho to fire the EBRs. He found out real quick that firing a video game "virtual" rifle was very different from firing an actual weapon. He's fired weapons before, but the look on his face was priceless.....
Anyway, looks like he's going to have to try Fallout 3 before he commits to COD W@W.
Thanks again.
ETA: Forgot to add that he does well in school without too much effort, so I let him have a little more freedom than some others do. School is the key. If he slacks off on it, he loses privleges. He's pretty mature for his age.
14? Err...
Here's my take on it. Fallout 3 is a lot like Fallout 2 and 1 in regards to the adult content and language. It's not just "adult content" like GTA: you can enslave people, steal from people, pick locks, murder people, meet hookers, curse constantly, become a hitman, have bounties put out on you...basically you're making moral choices the entire game that can decide if you're "good" or "evil", one of which means eradicating an entire town full of people with a nuclear bomb.
Now I'm not saying that it's a bad game for a 14 year old, G-d knows I played Fallout 1 when it came out in 1997, as a 12 year old. The difference is, it was overhead and the dialogue was all text. Fallout 3 is first person so I believe it could have a slightly different effect on a child. It's a lot more convincing and it's different when you don't view the evil shit you're doing in the 3rd person. Personally I think that playing Fallout at such a young age really affected me...I mean the original was simply creepy. You'd be walking around in the wasteland and find a father and son fishing in a radioactive stream, things like that.
Basically what I'm saying is that everything he plays is going to affect him. If you're going to let him play this, just make sure that he knows that the stuff he does as an "evil" character IS "evil", and that it's happening in a post-apocalyptic fantasy land.