bad idea for you, only acceptable solution for me. you have no idea what my situation is and what it dictates. for me NOT having others on my trust could lead to possible bad legal situations. for one marital property does not apply to nfa items. so what happens if you want to take your wife's MG out to play that she privately purchased but.....she's overseas?? or vice versa? what happens if your family is stationed overseas for a few years? we're not leaving our stuff in a safe deposit box, were leaving it in the hands of someone trusted who can legally hold it for us.
and your right, it depends on how it is written. it can be a blessing or a curse. i personally dont think it makes one bit of diff who is on your trust, family or friend. the only thing that matters is whether the trust members are people YOU WANT on it.
but i do not agree about liability. if you dont trust someone, they shouldnt be a part of your trust. i cant see how you can be liable for someone elses actions for what they may do with a trust item. the trust owns the items not the individual. my trust is @30 pages long and covers alot of information. we even have alternate trustees in case every trust member dies before the benny is old enough to receive the trust items. our trust cover depreciation of items as well as damage caused by use.
if you use a good lawyer, you can cover your bases, be safe and have what you need. to just say its bad is not accurate.