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You would need to handload to get the maximum potential out of that rifle.
Umm, I think you need to handload to get the max potential out of any rifle.
My 16" 308 shoots sub moa with 168gr Federal GMM ammo and does even better with my handloads using varget (which isn't a fast burning powder).
The ~150 fps that you give up going from a 22" barrel to a 16" is not going to keep a 168gr or even a 175gr bullet from stabilizing in a 1/11 twist barrel (arguably the most common 308 barrel twist). About the only thing I agree with you on is that there is plenty of muzzle flash with a 16" barrel.
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Are there are suppressor options that would allow me to hand thread a can onto the bolt gun, and still have a QD flash hider setup on an AR for the same suppressor?
I have not seen any suppressor that allows you to do use both standard fine pitch threads and a QD mount.
If you want a dual caliber, fairly inexpensive suppressor, I would just recommend getting the SS Phantom 308 QD with mounts for both the 308 and 556. The phantom is rated for 300 mag and I have no doubt that if you called YHM, they would let you know it would function just fine on a 16" 308.