I run decent quality 50's [Vari-X III and VX-III] on both of my primary hunting rifles, with the older having been in service for over 2 decades. With all other factors being equal in terms of glass quality, nothing beats a larger objective for reduced light performance aside from an I^2 tube.
The only real downside is that it requires the optical centerline to be slightly higher, but that is moot for the AR platform, as the optimum height is arguably around 1.4" above the bore. Even on a bolt gun, a 50 is well manageable from a mounting perspective. Notice that many European optics have very large objectives; guess what, they do alot of night hunting over there.
As an experiment several years ago, I tried a 2.5-8x36 with otherwise identical specs to the 3.5-10x50 which was temporarily removed; the results were dismal, and the experiment was quickly aborted. It really sucked to be able to effectively observe the animals through the relatively mediocre 8x42 binocs in the closing minutes of legal shooting hours, but not through the riflescope
It is generally recognized that the human eye can make advantage of an EP as large as 7mm. To achieve this with a 40mm objective requires the magnification be reduced to 5.7x, whereas with a 50, one can theoretically stay up to 7.1x. Many hunters reduce their mag in the pre-dawn or as the sun is setting; I sure know that I do.
Both of these numbers fall within your anticipated mag range. Is an additional 1.4x beneficial depends on where you hunt, and how important it is to ID targets, such as when rough scoring whitetails.
I think that some folks get overly hung up on the concept that hyper high mag will make them shoot better, maybe it helps bench shooters, but in a hunting environment where weapon support is often a bit more ad hoc, 10x is the most that I have found to be effective.
Hope this helps in your selection.